Confidence! Have positive thinking, positive ideas, not be extreme when looking at problems, see more of the good side of difficult things, and have a very firm goal! There are many reasons for having a firm belief in achieving goals. Let me talk about my own feelings. I spend most of the day working, but work rarely affects my mood, because I think work is just a means for me to survive, and there is no need for work to affect my mood outside the company. , everyone is equal in private, so when working, wherever your position is, just do your job well. When dealing with others, I want to always have a grateful and honest heart, because I think everyone is selfish. Only when you treat others with sincerity can you get the same treatment from others. Everyone says I have a good temper, but actually I don’t care much about evil things. I often think from other people’s point of view, which makes me think more openly. Ordinary people are ordinary people, and they will have an ordinary heart. That’s the truth of contentment. The most important thing is to communicate with others. How to maintain a good attitude? Self-confidence is the prerequisite for success and the secret to happiness. Only with self-confidence can we remain optimistic in the face of difficulties and setbacks and find ways to overcome them. "Confidence in a life of two hundred years will mean that you will swim three thousand miles in the water." Some people may say, why don't I want to be confident? But I just can’t feel confident. Yes, how can I make myself more confident? I think, let us look more at our own strengths and strengths, and discover and explore our potential. As the saying goes: A ruler is short, an inch is long. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and everyone has their own unlimited potential. People cannot just focus on their shortcomings, shortcomings, and present, but must learn to appreciate themselves and look more at their strengths, strengths, and future. Traditional educational ideas and backward humanistic concepts make most people look at people and things in reality with a rigid gaze, believing that it is difficult to change. Materialist dialectics has long told us that no people or things in the world remain unchanged, and development and change are eternal. The era of "looking older at the age of three and older at the age of seven" has long passed. We educators should first wake up and no longer look at our students through colored glasses. We ourselves must first be a confident person. Don't always compare your own shortcomings with other people's strengths. That would be really annoying and annoying. You must learn to appreciate yourself, accept yourself, and encourage yourself. If you can't do this, you can think of ways, such as accumulating your own successful experiences and experience, insisting on keeping a diary and writing excerpts; list your advantages on paper, and write one or two famous quotes or quotes that can inspire you. mottos, posted on the wall and other places that can be seen everywhere, see them every day to motivate yourself. In short, you must find ways to make yourself confident. Confidence will lead to happiness, happiness will allow you to explore your potential, and you will be efficient. The so-called happiness means that the faster it is, the happier it is, and the happier it is, the faster it is. Forming a virtuous cycle, it is not difficult to have a good mentality. Secondly, we must learn to adjust. Life is ever-changing, joys and sorrows, birth, old age, illness and death, natural and man-made disasters, happiness, anger, sorrow and joy are all inevitable. A failure in an exam, a misunderstanding with a partner, or an extreme word will all affect our mood. There are always many unhappy things in life, which requires each of us to learn to adjust our mentality. How to adjust it? The simplest and most effective way is to replace negative cues with positive cues. When you want to say "I'm done", you should immediately replace it with "No, I still have hope." When you want to say "I can't forgive him," you should quickly replace it with "Forgive him, I am also wrong." Yeah" and so on. Usually develop the habit of positive suggestions. Say to yourself "I can do it" and "That's great". If you turn these two sentences into a mantra, that would be great! Yes, you must learn to use positive suggestions, think brightly, think from others’ perspective, and think from multiple perspectives. Winter is here, can spring be far behind? The end of the night is dawn. How can we get the fragrance of plum blossoms without going through a lot of hardships? Third, we must learn to be tolerant and cultivate our broad mind. A person who is narrow-minded and only focuses on himself will be easily angry, depressed and careless.

And when you have a broad mind, you will tolerate others, appreciate others, and tolerate others, and your own mood will be able to remain optimistic. As the saying goes, "the sky is brighter when you take a step back" and "the benevolent are invincible." I think the reason why great people are great is that they have a broad mind. Lin Xiangru tolerated Lian Po, and only then did he have the "friendship of the enemy" and the strength of Zhao; Zhuge Liang tolerated Zhou Yu, and only then did the Battle of Chibi and the Three Kingdoms stand; only then did the Communist Party launch a national united front, and only then did the new The founding of China; only when teachers tolerate students can they come up with better education methods and enjoy the fragrance of "peaches and plums all over the world". Let us be kind to every child, understand everyone deeply, believe in ourselves and others, be strict with ourselves, be lenient to others, have the motherland in mind, and look at the world. In this way, we will be able to maintain a good attitude. Ultimately, what determines a person's mentality is his or her ideals, outlook on life, and world view. If a person has ambitious goals, a correct outlook on life, a broad mind, is persistent and enterprising, challenges himself, is unyielding to fate, believes in himself, and thinks positively, then he will definitely be able to maintain a good attitude and have a wonderful life! 1. Learn to analyze problems 2. Learn to clarify goals 3. Learn to think from someone else’s perspective: For example, why does he want to get angry with me? Why are you causing trouble for me? 1. Stay away from inferiority. Inferiority makes people miserable, inferiority complex makes people lazy, and inferiority complex makes people withdraw. Self-confidence makes people happy, self-confidence makes people energetic, and self-confidence makes people move forward. Everyone longs for self-confidence and longs to stay away from the ivory tower of inferiority. Teachers should help students find themselves