Brief extract of inspirational philosophy 1: Life would rather fail than regret.
When you have no choice in the future, don't be afraid of failure and don't let yourself regret it. Maybe this is the best reference for you to make a choice.
It is a very sad thing that people have no ideas and too many ideas all their lives.
Just like graduation, you have no choice, just like there are too many ways to decide which one to choose.
When I was in college, I always thought that everything would go with the flow, but the closer I got to graduating from college, the more I panicked, and I didn't know where I got so much anxiety. Sometimes I dream that I am in my thirties, living a very vulgar life, and then I wake up.
I was probably too melodramatic. To paraphrase Xiao Shenyang, I always feel that this day is the end of my life when I close my eyes and open my eyes, and I feel that I am like this. After graduation, I stayed in a third-tier city for a few years. At the age of 30, my life was basically stereotyped, and then I thought, Oh, my God, my life is over.
When we are young, we always think about the future, so the unit of time will be very short in our consciousness, and we like to use it very much: it is just a saying similar to "three to five years". I feel that "three to five years" is like a blink of an eye.
But when you really experience it after graduation, you will find that even a year will be as long as a century.
So sometimes I understand people who have just graduated for a year or two. They write about anxiety, loneliness, confusion and even despair. They feel as if they can't find the direction of life and find life difficult. Every time I see such a letter, I can understand it deeply, but I can't do anything about it.
Because I think that all maturity is a process of gestation, just like the germination of seeds. Without experiencing a period of darkness under the soil, it is impossible to break through the ground one day.
Graduation is a torment. Whether you can stand it or not, you have to take it step by step.
And your first task when you go to society is to choose.
Although I often say that a choice can't determine a person's life, just as marriage can't determine your happiness.
But we all know the truth, and when we really face it, we still feel upset and unable to start.
Whether it is accepting the work arrangement given by family members, applying for the civil service or taking the postgraduate entrance examination, whether it is engaged in this major or deciding to change careers, this is a choice.
Whether you choose to work hard in a big city or go home, even if you are over 30, you still have to face whether to stay in this company or jump ship to another company.
I am a patient with selection disorder. I really hate giving me autonomy to decide, because having a choice means losing, and losing actually means that you may regret it.
So every time I receive a letter from someone asking me to help him choose whether to take the postgraduate entrance examination or work, I will write: this is your own business, you have to choose for yourself.
The first elective course of graduation is the beginning of our maturity.
Whether you had ideas or not, life began to force you to learn to start making decisions for yourself. This is a rare opportunity, so you shouldn't give up.
I spent almost all my junior year, especially the second half of the year, in anxiety. I didn't understand the choice and future until the first half of the third year of high school, and I also adjusted my mentality.
Aren't you responsible for your own life?
I know I'm not afraid of choice. I'm scared. Afraid of what? Afraid of regret.
But since there is no regret medicine in life, it is useless to be afraid, isn't it?
The first choice I have to make is whether to change careers after graduation.
I know this topic is a bit ridiculous. I don't know how many people chose your major in college.
I study art design. I chose this road by myself, but I chose to study art only because I like drawing cartoons. Actually, I'm not interested in design. I think my four-year professional courses in college are average. Most importantly, I don't feel very fulfilled in every job.
This is the problem. You studied for four years, and then as soon as you graduated, you said, I'm sorry, I made the wrong choice. Can I change my hobby now? This is a little bullshit. I guess my parents can knock me to death with a broom pimple as soon as they hear me say this, because they must think there is water in the child's head.
As I grow up and my parents get old, the distance between me and them will get farther and farther.
Their life experiences can no longer guide me.
I used to think that they were copying and demanding me with their lives, but once I really got out of their control, my first feeling was freedom, followed by fear.
For the first time, I feel uncomfortable that no one has discussed it.
I don't know if every seemingly reliable uncle has a life that was once unreliable. At least Uncle Chuan was very unreliable when I was a child.
I spent almost a year thinking about whether I should find something related to comics based on my temperament and hobbies when I graduated from college, or whether I should choose this major to live up to these four years.
My final choice is to start with my major, and I will give myself an explanation whether it is successful or not.
There are some things you have to do to know if you are suitable.
My first job was as a professional teacher in a school in Fujian.
Maybe my brain is stupid, I don't have so many ideas and I don't have interview experience. I just posted my resume and graduation works online, and the other party said it was good, so I ran over. From the northeast to Fujian, I took a hard-seat train for three days and nights.
I didn't even think about failing the interview. Can you believe it?
It may really be that newborn calves are not afraid of tigers. I passed the initial test and the second test in a daze, and all the lectures passed. It was not until I signed the contract that I found out how harsh the "contract of prostitution" was. At that time, I was young and my temper was particularly explosive. I can't stand any injustice at all. I didn't even consider that this is the overlord clause. Many times, the seller's market dominates, and the newly graduated children don't have much room for bargaining.
I decided excitedly not to sign the contract, and then the problem I faced was to find the next job. Then I moved to three local cities and started running around after the job fair. The less money you bring, the worse the hotel you stay in, and the less confident you are. I realized for the first time that I was depressed.
When I was about to give up hope and prepare to flee to the north with my tail between my legs, I was unexpectedly recommended because I accompanied my roommate to an interview. Although I am also a clothing company, I am not engaged in the design work I desire.
The first job in life will deviate from your idea, but if you don't do what you want to do, your patience will be very limited. Plain days, unique southern holiday system &; Mdash& ampmdash; Taking two days off a month gives me a feeling of acclimatization. The first time I felt that I didn't know why I was here, it was for a job I didn't like.
Once I have this idea, I can't sit still.
So I began to secretly submit my resume and look for the next suitable opportunity. I hope I can do design work, so even if I find that I can't, at least I feel worthy of myself.
Ironically, a clothing company in the north called me at this time. That was a job fair I attended before I went to the south. At that time, the general manager was very impressed with me, just because they didn't consider male designers at that time. Later, with the expansion of the business sector, the boss decided to add a male designer, and the general manager first thought of me.
That phone call seemed to open a bright window for my bitter days at that time, and I resigned in a hurry and returned to the north. On the way back, I once asked myself, after these months of interviews, work and tossing, I made it clear that I only wanted to do design, so no matter how huge the problem is, I will hold back and stick to it.
Since you have chosen this road, you must stick to it, at least you will really learn something before you go, so that you can be worthy of yourself.
The words "really learn something before going" became the easiest thing I said to myself before every job-hopping in the next seven years. It is precisely because of this sentence that after I returned to the north, I endured strong work pressure, chaotic office struggle, all kinds of unfair treatment and great frustration in that family business.
Until I learned to compromise between design and market, until I could walk an assembly line independently, and my works were made into a product catalogue, and then I said to myself without any regrets, you see, you have done everything you want, do you still want to stick to it now? Or choose something else?
After the Spring Festival that year, I chose to go north, starting with my favorite comics, and officially started my ten-year drifting career in the North.
Life is so long, everyone must have a lot of things to do. Sometimes it's not that I dare not think, but that I don't have the opportunity. Once I have the opportunity, I dare not give up.
When I was a teenager, I was most curious about the world.
I wonder how many people are like me. At that time, I was interested in everything and wanted to know a lot about work.
In the next seven years, I changed six jobs, spanning three industries. I treat every job with great curiosity. Facing every new field, I said to myself, I must really learn something before I leave.
Try to make mistakes before the age of 30, work hard, start docking after the age of 30, and learn to be reliable.
If you don't do something when you are young, you really have no chance to do it again.
I'm never afraid of failure. I fall and get up again. I'm afraid to bury some expectations in my heart and eventually turn them into constant pain in my heart.
I would rather fail in life than regret it. I always used this sentence to encourage myself when I was young. So every time I step into a new field, I have enough courage to face it.
I am a person with strong endurance and adaptability. Because I chose, my goal is to live, learn something and gain something. This simple and rude life creed became the survival law of my stage. Maybe my life experience is not suitable for you, because everyone has their own attributes, just like everyone has their own fingerprints. But I believe that when you have no choice in the future, don't be afraid of failure and don't let yourself regret it. Maybe this is the best reference for you to make a choice.
Excerpts from short inspirational philosophy 2: Youth Notes
I don't know when I started, but I got into the habit of looking at the sky in the self-study class. In every busy day, I count the youthful years and feel all the innocence I have never forgotten.
In my memory, the boy riding a bicycle fell down, got up and cried with a smile, and the stubborn lines on his side face instantly melted into the liquid sunset. The typhoon wrapped in a strong airflow roared and swallowed the reeds behind him. And the lonely silhouette of the skirt swaying on the swing frame. Pink flowers flourish on the side of the hair, and the passing wind leaves a burning illusion on the lips. These are the best times in my memory.
Sitting on the playground, I smell the oncoming wind, the rich grass fragrance in the wind, the gorgeous morning sun, mixed with the smell of newly turned earth, and think of the girl holding my hand running beside the green grass and the white fence, with a sweet smile on her lips, as light as a butterfly flapping its wings. When the memory of youth disappeared on the way, I realized that no one can be with anyone forever.
Chinese is still one of my favorite subjects. When the Chinese teacher finally told me about the Peking University student from the third-rate high school, I smiled. I have never despised the shock that those words suddenly brought to me. At that moment, I realized that, in fact, we have been hesitating and always so cowardly. I used to think that youth was hidden in spring. If we can't see it, we can't feel it because of the passage of time, so we are stuck at the end.
Positive energy, small youth, we should use endless setbacks to smooth out our acute angle and gradually become smooth and mature. Youth is rebellious, but full of blood; Youth is crazy but full of passion; Youth is stubborn, but it is always bathed in sunshine. Everyone's standards are different, so youth is so colorful. Only by taking a step with doubt and boldly looking for it with the crisp "tick" sound of the clock can we know the mystery.
Along the way, there are birds and flowers, but also detours and thorns.
Maybe you will feel exhausted, maybe your blood will boil, maybe you will feel very painful. But don't give up, the sunshine is so good and the time is so early. As long as you grit your teeth and try your best to cut the thorns, grass will surely grow in front of you.
Tired, there are mossy stones for you to rest. Thirsty, there is sweet clear dew to accompany you to sip.
Youth is a door covered with fallen leaves. If it is opened, it will never be closed again. Growth is a long journey, just like the passage of time. If the end of time is too early, do we still have time to bid farewell to youth? Therefore, we should take youth as the bone, take efforts as the wing, and fly higher and higher in the vast sky, flying farther and farther.
As long as you are brave, as long as you work hard, tomorrow will be better. Don't miss the past, look to the future and give yourself a regretless youth!
Excerpt 3 from short inspirational philosophy: I don't trust people who look perfect.
Personally, I always try to stay away from perfect people like the moral model chicken soup goddess. The early days were really based on a simple dark psychology, which was nothing more than envy, jealousy and hatred, and looked down on the goodness of others. I can't wait to pull everyone to their height so that they can step on it. Later, with the passage of time, I became more and more intelligent and learned a lot about being a man. I often say: "If people are like water, they will retreat if they are high, and they will never drown out your advantages;" If you are low, I will come and never expose your defects. "And so on, sleek values trim my words and deeds that often burn and deform because of hatred and prosperity. However, the vigilance and wariness of the so-called perfect person have not been relaxed for a moment.
I also secretly reflect, in addition to the obscene psychological gloom, what reasonable reasons can hinder me, so that I can never wholeheartedly embrace the lofty purity and ready-made beauty? Is there any justifiable reason? Not exactly. But there is one worry. I don't trust them. I don't trust people who look perfect. The more flawless people look, the less credible they are. There must be a huge loophole behind a perfect life. Just like all the old but classic Hanfu, the lining is full of dirty lice, and almost all the perfection is a scam that has not yet been seen through.
Nowadays, successful women often have a strong desire to climb to the height of the goddess. Therefore, it is not enough to be a strong woman, but also to be an official god; It's not enough to be a goddess of officials and businessmen, but also a goddess of power; It is not enough to be a goddess of power, but also a goddess of fashion; Being a goddess of fashion is not enough, but also a goddess of moral education? Therefore, because you were born in poverty, you can't live a life full of loopholes. From the expensive dress of the goddess, you smell the cold smell of Su Shui, so you secretly pray that you need to find an opportunity as soon as possible before being killed by the goddess' moral file.
There is also the goddess, the goddess of wisdom of spiritual mentor type. Because of God's will, they have become masters by virtue and a little dyeing, and because of their exceptionally sincere attitude and serious tone, they were very acceptable in previous years and once captured the struggle of many modern women. Recently, however, it is not very popular. Think about it, the fate of the goddess is actually not in the position of the ancient sage, but in the world. Under today's circumstances, the huge gap between the fictional context of mainstream discourse and the increasingly boiling reality can no longer be bridged.
This is an era when you can't have both IQ and excellent oral expression skills. It was an era when chicken soup was cooked and mud was smeared. It is an era when you are particularly easy to become smart and smart. Every opinion leader with conscience needs to stick to the big festival and not lose money. If you want to speak, please follow Martin &; Luther, who middot declared that "this is my position", selectively went blind and pretended to sleep, but easily exposed himself. This is an era when you are forced to show your identification. The four books and five classics are important, but times are different, and so are ID cards. In this era, it is easy to become a goddess who has been pulled black and blue.
The third kind of goddess, the goddess of feelings. It is characterized by being particularly good at crossing the red and blue roads, which not only preserves the reputation but also preserves the happiness. Generally speaking, the goddess of emotion is very smart. She never talks about setting up a moral file for others and recommends herself as a file manager, so that she is always in the bull's eye of a moving target. The goddess of feelings is always in the field of vision, not in the focus, and interprets the power of example with heavy silhouette. The highest state of being a goddess of feelings is to weave yourself into a banner fluttering in the wind, hunting and flying in front of your eyes, so that you can point out the direction of progress at any time and stay away from the mess of trudging in the real mud. To be a goddess of feelings, all the strengths are high and floating, and all the skills are on the balance of the words ambiguity and cheapness. Such a goddess is exquisite and invincible. But there are always thin people.
The flaw in all directions lies in hypocrisy; The disadvantage of hypocrisy is pretending. You must be an example, but you can't bear to be really kind. Let go when you see the benefits, and leave when you see the difficulties. So I had to pretend. Therefore, the goddess of feelings does not sell, but never clearly marks the price. Originally, for the goddess of emotion, although intellectually suspicious, she still couldn't help being close emotionally. Unexpectedly, I recently took the goddess of luck and concentrated on seeing several goddesses in various fields. As soon as I met him, I dared to lie down without a trace because of my booger, and I was calm and relaxed. At first glance, lying is a delicate matter, and it is really awesome. As a stingy person like me, although I didn't say anything, I secretly gave such a product a bad review. Moreover, we should pay attention to self-examination. It is impossible not to lie in this life, but not to lie for the sake of being a goddess. We must have this awareness.
In a word, I never believe in the so-called perfect person, and I never believe in a perfect life. Just like any brilliant Zhong Ding has a dark back. There are only two kinds of perfect people, skilled hypocrites and real lunatics.
People who say good things often do bad things, which is an unspeakable truth and the survival wisdom of ordinary people. From generation to generation, it works every time.
Maybe you will say, why are you so dark and obscene and have no confidence in human nature? I have confidence in human nature, but I have no confidence in our education of teaching people to lie since childhood. I have no problem with embracing the sublime again. My worry is that the time is not right. As long as our primary schools, middle schools and universities are still "places where apprentices are accepted one by one" rather than everything, as long as our humanities disciplines are committed to instilling the overlord theory that "only self-identification can justify itself", this theory is doubtful in some starting points, full of historical stains and stains, rather than "believing in anything", as long as our principal is the deputy department-level administrative leader. As long as our students still need to recite the official history of Wellcome to get the necessary credits for further study & mdash & ampmdash; Mr. Zhong Yun once said bitterly that "an unnatural education was destroyed by recruiting talents from all over the world". Under such a searchlight, the so-called national pillars brainwashed by years of duck-stuffing day and night are like the perfection poured out by fake culture medium and powerful antibiotics, all of which are plastic flowers that look beautiful and smell like ethephon.
From the previous generations to the next generation of kindergartens, we are the generation that grew up drinking wolf milk. No one escaped from the barbed wire in this plastic garden, and no one took a break with his conscience. Broadly speaking, everyone is a liar. We have to learn this since childhood, how not to change color and lie shamelessly. The success or failure of this world depends on whether nonsense is serious enough, skilled enough and appropriate enough to bring forth new ideas. Our so-called good boys and young cadres are basically experts in watching people eat food. They try their best to keep up with the times and the mainstream rhythm in group dance, so that you won't fall behind. Self-hypnosis jumps out of the sense of substitution and can mix a lead dance. How difficult it is for you to build a perfect man in such a saline-alkali land.
Tsinghua hasn't produced a master in 60 years.
In view of this, I think the wonderful people who are interested in becoming online perfection and offline models should at least show their status first: "In fact, I am also very weak." Otherwise, don't spoil the word perfect.
This is the status quo of shaming our ancestors and trapping future generations, and it is also the status quo of this group of people who are born and raised in this hot land and rely on eating hot potatoes to achieve success. Besides, this gang must include you and me.
This is beside the point.
A reporter asked Faye Wong what he thought was his greatest strength. Faye Wong said, "I never pretend." Truth, in the dirty and evil world we live in, is wisdom and strategy.
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