When talking about Lin Huiyin, the only impression I have of her is her love entanglement with Xu Zhimo. After listening to the first section of "The Biography of Lin Huiyin", about her childhood, I realized that Lin Huiyin was not only a talented woman, but also a talented person. A woman who has the best of both worlds. She is China's first female architect and China's first female architectural historian. She also participated in the design of the national emblem of the People's Republic of China and the Monument to the People's Heroes in Tiananmen Square. In the history of architecture, she is He is also a very remarkable person. At the same time, she was one of the most outstanding female poets during the Republic of China. Her poems and paintings are still collected in many large museums, and later generations also published "Lin Huiyin's Poetry Collection" for her. She was a woman with both virtue and art.

? The reason why Lin Huiyin has achieved such great achievements is inseparable from her family and her education since childhood. Her grandfather was the magistrate of a certain prefecture in Zhejiang at that time, and the family conditions were generous and typical. She is the second generation of officials and the second generation of rich people. Because she is the eldest daughter in the family, and because she looks like her grandmother, she has been loved by her grandfather since she was a child. It can be said that she is loved by all kinds of people. Because her family had a private school, Lin Huiyin received a good Chinese education from the age of four. The reason why she is good at poetry and poetry has a lot to do with her strong family education when she was a child, and it also benefited from her Her own intelligent comprehension ability and her talent in poetry.

? In a person's life, even if he is God's darling, there will be some aspects that are not satisfactory. Lin Huiyin's melancholy temperament that he showed from time to time when talking to others was actually related to the situation she was in. It has something to do with the family environment. Although her grandfather likes her and her father loves her, in feudal society, men have three wives and four concubines, which not only causes indelible harm to their wives, but also causes pain to their children. Lin Huiyin's father, Lin Changmin, married three wives. The eldest family had no income, so he married Lin Huiyin's mother, He Xueyuan. However, He Xueyuan, because his father was busy with business, neglected to discipline her, which resulted in her being greedy for fun and having a naughty personality. Therefore, she was very disliked by her husband and the elders in the family. Because she failed to give birth to a son for Lin Changmin, Lin Changmin married a third wife. The third wife gave birth to four sons for Lin Changmin in succession, so she became the most favored one. Lin Huiyin grew up with her mother's self-pity and her father's neglect of her mother. Although she loved her father and mother, she also hated her father's ruthlessness towards her mother and her mother's failure to live up to expectations.

? It can be seen that the original family has a great impact on children and has a profound impact on the future. Especially now, many families are experiencing discord between parents or other reasons at home, resulting in marital breakdown and divorce. Although relationships are a matter between two people, the impact on the children is indeed huge. Children from warm, happy and loving families are caring, grateful for everything, like to get along with others, and do not have too extreme views on things. On the contrary, if there is poor communication with the children and no love in the family, the children will have extreme emotions and even embark on a road of no return. Therefore, no matter how busy parents are, they must take more time to communicate with their children, talk about her little interesting things, and let their children feel loved.

In the final analysis, a loving family is the best environment for children to grow.