Personal famous saying: As long as you stick to the end, success is on the other side.
Sometimes, in life, you will find that you will always meet some people who look down on you or who are against you, especially when you fail. They are complacent and never want to comfort you. Instead, they will hit you harder.
Many times you feel wronged because you feel that you have not provoked others, but others have repeatedly targeted you and insulted you. What you need to do most is to improve yourself and make people who look down on you have awe of you. Bo Huang, a famous actor, once said in an interview that "when you are weak, there are the most bad people, and when you are strong, the whole world will treat you well". Bo Huang was not famous at first, and he didn't learn acting, so he didn't have many opportunities. Bo Huang, who just entered the cast, met with all kinds of caution, but when he became famous, everyone was buttering him up. In the world of bad people, as long as you see that others are not doing well, or that you are doing worse than yourself, you will gloat, look down on each other, and make all kinds of cynicism, which is undoubtedly a kind of suffering for those who are laughed at.
So they choose to stay away from those people, so they can't afford to hide, but this way of escape just encourages each other's arrogance. They won't stop because they are far away. On the contrary, these people will only choose to intensify.
Therefore, when others look down on you, the best way is not to stay away from each other, but to do these three things.
First of all, we must respect ourselves.
It's not the most important thing that anyone looks down on you. The key is that you should respect yourself.
Bo Huang was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy at the age of 28. Why did you get into Beijing Film Academy at that age?
The reason is that he used to be a singer outside. Later, he wanted to develop better and went to Beijing Film Academy. However, when he went to the performance department, people didn't admit him because of his looks. However, through unremitting efforts, Bo Huang was admitted to the dubbing class of the Performance Department of Beijing Film Academy. Later, with the help of my friends and my own efforts, my career became more and more smooth, so I became the film emperor. This is self-confidence.
Second, laugh it off and see you later.
People always feel depressed and looked down upon by others, which is just one of Qian Qian's frustrations. In the face of setbacks, human beings can't care about it every time, otherwise they can only be unable to move forward and ask for trouble. Before I can care about myself, I may have been angry.
Therefore, when others look down on you, smile lightly, go with the wind, keep a good mood, do what you should do, and strive to be your best self. You should know that setbacks are temporary, and being looked down upon by others is also temporary. When you make great efforts and make a splash, all those who look down on you will immediately put their heads into the turtle shell.
Third, there is no harm in learning ah q.
Ah Q is actually very wronged, and the spirit of Ah Q is not worthless. Self-comfort is human instinct and necessary. Without the spirit of Ah Q, I don't know how many people will get mental illness, how many people will commit suicide, and how many people will stubbornly walk into a dead end.
In fact, the spirit of Ah Q is very useful on many occasions. It absorbed the essence of China's ancient golden mean spirit, but Lu Xun highlighted its negative side, so it was doubly belittled. When others look down on you, you can comfort yourself with the spirit of Ah Q, let yourself get out of the negative shadow and strive for a better self.
Xin Rui in the TV series "Hello, Old Times" is a placement student. Her old class was assigned to the top class because of the low enrollment rate.