How to cultivate a good professional mentality
Mentality is a person's psychological preparation state and a person's inner attitude, so how should a person cultivate a good professional mentality? Let's take a look!
1. All successful people in the world are people who are happy to work.
the essence of enjoying work is to enjoy it, and to find the meaning of survival and the value of life from work is the most direct expression of enthusiasm and dedication to work.
IBM founder Thomas? John? Watson said: If you don't perform well in your work, you will naturally find it boring and boring. At this time, I will tell myself to work actively with a relaxed, happy and focused mind, just like playing games when I was a child. ?
bill, chairman of Microsoft? Gates said: If you only regard work as an errand, or just focus on the work itself, then even if you are engaged in your favorite job, you can't keep your enthusiasm for work for a long time. But if we treat work as a career, the situation will be completely different. ?
John the oil magnate? Rockefeller said: Work is a stage where one can display one's talents. The knowledge we have studied hard at a cold window, our adaptability, our decision-making ability, our adaptability and our coordination ability can all be displayed on such a stage. Apart from work, no activity can provide such a good opportunity to enrich and express yourself. ?
2. Mentality plays a particularly important role in people's success
There is not much difference when people are born. Older people have this experience. Looking at some children in the neighborhood, they are equally lively and lovely, equally smart, go to the same school and receive the same education, but they are different when they grow up. Some behave well and some behave poorly. When they grow up, some people are successful and famous, while others are idle and poor. Who controls the success and failure of life? Football coach Milu has a famous saying: Attitude determines everything, and this attitude is mentality. Mentality determines everything.
In fact, the mysterious power that controls our success or failure is not from the outside, but from our own mentality. It can be said that the result of a positive attitude and a negative attitude is very different when doing anything. Mentality directly affects people's judgment, determination and willpower. The same thing, different times and different mentality, the judgment is very different.
how big is the difference between one thought and another? The answer is 18, Li. Because the difference between this idea directly determines your love and hate, praise and disgrace, take and give up, do and stop, advance and retreat, whether it is natural or not, joy and worry. Different mentality, people all feel different.
So the fundamental difference between people lies in their different mentality.
3. What is the role of mentality from the perspective of psychology? Self-limitation
There is a term in psychology called self-limitation, which means that the desire and potential for action are stifled by one's own mental inertia.
What is mental inertia? Scientists have an interesting experimental explanation.
put the flea on the table, and as soon as you strike the table, the flea immediately jumps, and the jumping height is more than 1 times its height. Then, put a glass cover on the flea's head and let it jump. The flea bounced back when it touched the glass cover. After doing this for many times in a row, the flea kept the height below the top of the cover every time it jumped. Then gradually reduce the height of the glass cover, fleas always jump lower after hitting the wall. Finally, when the glass approached the table, the fleas could no longer jump. Scientists remove the glass cover and strike the table again, but the fleas still don't jump. At this time, the fleas have changed from the original? High jump champion? Into a one that can't jump? Crawling fleas? .
what happened to many people is very similar. People encounter setbacks and failures in the process of growing up, which makes them become habitually numb and lose their enthusiasm and desire. They are not only dissatisfied with failure, but also accustomed to failure, and gradually develop people who are conformist, hesitant, narrow-minded, afraid of taking responsibility, unwilling to make progress, refusing reform, opposing innovation and drifting with the flow.
4. The influence of mentality on people's ability
There is a classic case in China: In ancient times, two scholars, A and B, went to catch the exam and saw a coffin on the way. A said:? Unfortunately, I met a coffin, and this exam is dead. ? B said:? Coffin, promotion and wealth, it seems that my luck has come, and I will definitely be admitted this time. ? When they answered the questions, their efforts were different. As a result, A failed and B passed. When they got home, they all said to their wives. That coffin is really clever. ?
This case shows that mentality can affect people's ability, and ability can change people's fate. Ensuring a good mood at the moment is the basis for ensuring a good mood all day. If you can keep a good mood every day, you will get a good quality of life and experience a wonderful life that others can't.
Modern medical research has found that the human body will make an in-vivo sedative called enkephalin, which can filter out external stimuli, make people feel peaceful and stable, and make people feel positive. And a positive attitude can promote the production of enkephalin and form a virtuous circle; On the contrary, negative mentality can consume a lot of enkephalin, make people decadent, depressed and unhappy, and inhibit enkephalin secretion, forming a vicious circle. This is why people with negative attitudes get worse and worse.
Example: three architects
There are three wall builders who are building a wall. Someone asked one of them and said: What are you doing? The man said grumpily:? Didn't you see it? I'm building a wall! ? So he turned to the second man and asked: What are you doing? The second man said:? I am building a beautiful building! ? The man asked the third man again, and the third man hummed a tune and said happily, I am building a beautiful city. ?
regardless of the future fate of the three people, it is admirable to see the attitude of the third person at work. If everyone, like the first person, is worried about his work, I think no matter how good the work is, it will not have any effect; And the same ordinary work, the same seemingly simple repetition, boring, but some people can face it with a happy mood, perceive the extraordinary in the ordinary, and build their dreams in the simple. I think what kind of difficulties can't be overcome? ; Work in happiness, face ordinary work with a positive attitude, and treat your environment with gratitude, and you will create brilliant achievements in simplicity and ordinary.
I think everyone will guess the fate of the third wall builder. He became the boss of the first two.
A=1, B=2, C=3, D=4, E=5, ? , X=24,Y=25, Z=26
Knowledge = 96
Hard work = 98
Attitude = 1
5. Happy work! = Happy life!
happy work! = Happy life!
Some people have done such statistics, and the working time in a person's life is 8 hours/day, accounting for more than one third; If you have no enthusiasm at work and muddle along, most of our life will be dull except for the time of sleep and rest. Therefore, happy work is not only related to the quality of work, but also closely related to the quality of our lives. ;