This problem has a lot of universality now, because now this post-80s generation has become a parent, and she is a child herself. When she becomes a parent, her mind can't be very mature, which reminds me of a famous marriage and family counselor abroad. He said, "There are no unhappy marriages in the world, only immature couples." What about the post-80s generation now, when they form a family as the only child of China and the first generation of little emperors? Many people are also facing the running-in of marriage, because their generation, born in 1980s, is very ostentatious and self-centered, and almost all of them are spoiled at home. When they form a family, without this kind of independent … family life experience, they will definitely have some running-in. It doesn't matter. My advice to this young mother or housewife is to be patient with marriage. Be patient with your husband, because marriage is the growth of two people. As for whether they have a second child, I think we can wait until the child is three years old ... Now we can make this plan to have a second child, because in the process of two people growing up together and raising children together, men will become more and more mature. Why are children so difficult to teach nowadays? Or do we know nothing about teaching after 80s? I have read some articles about early education institutions and heard about them. It should be very good. If you can't teach yourself well, you can only ask an early education institution. I found an article. Let's have a look. Why did you choose an early education institution instead of taking time off to teach? Yu Yi: Feel the competitive pressure and don't let the children lose at the starting line. Many post-80s parents regard a sentence as a "wise saying", that is: "If you start education from the third day of the child's birth, it will be two days late." After 80s, parents grew up under the pressure of competition and understood the importance of education. Therefore, they think that children's competition begins in infancy, and it is "very necessary" to attend early education. How can they let their children "lose at the starting line"? Reason 2: The post-80s generation, an only child, has a serious lack of experience and knowledge in raising children. I hope that people in the early education industry believe that in cities, most parents born after 80s have only one child and lack early education experience. Yu Chunlin, the head of Yi Bei Early Education Center, said that the reason why early education institutions are so prosperous is that the parents of the post-1980s generation have no experience in educating their children. While cultivating children, early education institutions are more about cultivating parents' ability to educate their children. Reason 3: I don't have time to take care of children, and the concept of parenting of the older generation is too backward. Reason 4: Let the baby make more playmates and practice Bush-style social skills from an early age. Many post-80s parents are only children and have only one child after becoming parents, so it is hard to find playmates. Many parents turned their attention to early education centers and parent-child parks. Reason 5: Let the baby have a high-quality life taste from an early age. After 80s, young parents pay more attention to the quality of life and don't consider spending money on their children. They all use the most expensive and best. Everything from clothing to milk powder is imported, so education is naturally unwilling to lag behind. Reason 6: I hate exam-oriented education and firmly support the concept of quality education advocated by early education institutions. Reason 7: Children are "backward", maybe it's time for early education.