There is always right and wrong. If you don't listen, there will be nothing. In this world, it is impossible for everyone to say hello. Even if you do it perfectly, people say hello on the surface, but because of different positions and angles, maybe others will speak ill of you behind your back. So some people say "let others speak", which is a kind of wisdom. Do what you should do, just do what you think is right, and don't care too much about other people's opinions.
There are many things that have never been sown in the garden. There are many things in life, and you will find that this famous saying is really right. Many times, we put all our energy and efforts into a goal, but it ended in failure. But when you are disheartened, the people or things you care least about will often bring you unexpected surprises. Therefore, with more life experience, everything will be looked down upon, and everything will follow the fate. There is no need to force anything deliberately.
Don't be ashamed, you are not afraid of ghosts knocking at the door in the middle of the night. I believe everyone has this feeling, as long as a person is doing the right thing, to the end, aboveboard, naturally feel at ease, practical and steady. But it's really hard to do something against your conscience once in a while. I'm always worried about giving away clues and revealing my identity. What others do takes a long time to ponder, and I am always worried about being suspected.
Those who are right and wrong must be right and wrong. Some people are keen on gossiping about their parents' stories about their families, laughing here and there. If such people can talk about others behind their backs, they will talk about you behind their backs, so when you meet such people, you must stay away. The ancients said, "Sit and think about yourself and gossip about others." This is the way to be a man.
A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June. When others encounter difficulties, a word of relief and understanding may bring great encouragement and courage, making people feel warm; On the contrary, an inappropriate or hurtful word may be worse than stabbing someone with a knife, which makes people feel chilling for a long time. Therefore, as a person, we must be kind, speak well and never speak ill.
The poor live in downtown areas, but the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. This sentence shows that the social world is cold and human feelings are warm and cold. From ancient times to the present, there are many people who depend on the situation, and those who love the rich are too poor. Sometimes people's feelings are really a layer of paper. No matter how good they are, when they are in trouble, the truth will come out. Therefore, the ancients said: it is enough to have a bosom friend in life! There are not many friends, so now they are unreliable and can withstand tossing.
People are poor and short-minded, and horses are thin and hairy. When a person is poor, his ambition is gone, and he is working hard for his life every day. Where does he care about his lofty aspirations? Even if he does, he can only hide in his heart and work hard secretly, but he can't say it. Otherwise people don't laugh off their fangs! What people say when they succeed is right. If you are poor, that is right, others will think it is wrong.
Good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil. It's not that we don't report it. It's not time. Many people doubt this sentence, because they see many bad people around them, good people are suffering, and everything is unlucky. In fact, there is no doubt that this sentence is indeed an eternal truth, but we have not understood it thoroughly.
Children and grandchildren have their own blessings, so don't be their cattle and horses. Now everyone pays special attention to children's education, especially most of them are children. From kindergarten to university, parents can be said to have taken great pains. They are always afraid that their children will lose at the starting line of life, and they will not be able to find a good job and raise a family in the future. Actually, you don't have to do this. Nature often makes people, and the children you deliberately cultivate may disappoint you even more in the future. Throughout the ages, heroes have suffered a lot, and poor families have filial sons. The quality of educational conditions does not play a decisive role. The key is to learn to be a man from an early age.