I believe everyone has heard or seen the sentence "There are three unfilial, and none is great" in TV series. This sentence is regarded as an imperial edict by the parents of many traditional families in China. If their children have no children, they will use this sentence to advocate their children. But is this sentence really understood like this? And the second half of this sentence. The whole sentence is like this: there are three unfilial, and there is no queen. If you get married without telling, it is considered that there is no queen. "No Queen" here means getting married without informing parents. But it was taken out of context by many people as unfilial and childless.
I believe everyone is familiar with The Analects. There is a saying in the Analects that "parents don't travel far", which roughly means that parents should not go out to study if they are still alive. But that's not the whole story. The whole sentence is: parents are not far away, so be sure to travel well. It means that you can travel even if your parents are alive, but you should always tell them so as not to worry them. This sentence was also taken out of context.
The word "caring for each other" may also be used at weddings or when men and women pledge their vows. But this sentence is also a classic example taken out of context. Mutual affection, from the great master Zhuangzi. The original sentence is: Jianghu is better than forgetting each other. Generally speaking, one day the spring dried up and two small fish were trapped in a small puddle. In order to survive, they spit bubbles from the emerald green to moisten each other's bodies and support each other. But in this way, it is better to find a waterway on the edge of death and return to the rivers and lakes happily. Look at each other and be free