In Hunan Satellite TV, there used to be such a hit program "Metamorphosis", in which children in the city and children in the countryside exchanged families and lived a life they had never lived before. Liu Siqi, a rich girl, also came into people's field of vision because of this program, which triggered a heated discussion about parents' doting.
Liu Siqi's parents, addicted to crime, started from scratch, and her family is well-off, and she is the only girl in the family for generations, so their parents don't want their children to go through what they have suffered again, and their love for Liu Siqi is endless. A 16-year-old girl needs her mother to feed and dress every day, and her family to give her a pair of socks in cold weather. Her family said that she didn't know how to take care of herself until everything was done for her.
Because of this, Liu Siqi only has her own eyes. She thinks the world should revolve around her. She is a princess, and she can have whatever she wants. In order to satisfy her desire, every month she will have tens of thousands of pocket money to go in and out of various high-end luxury stores, and spend tens of thousands of dollars earned by her parents in a few days. It is common to quarrel with his brother. He is always throwing things on the table and has a bad temper. He has become a real problem of juvenile.
Parents don't want to see her like this, and they can't get a good education, so they contacted this project and signed up for Liu Siqi. She thought that the place she was going to was a good place to travel, but she did not agree with this change, so she embarked on a journey of change.
Liu Siqi came to a remote village in Guizhou, where the roads were impassable, and the remote place was like the underground place where she used to live. Moreover, the prepared program group has asked the children who come here to hand in their mobile phones and snacks, even the most precious cosmetics in Liu Siqi are no exception.
This made Liu Siqi very upset. Her quarrel with the program group was messy, but there was nothing she could do. She can't play alone with the program group. When she first came here, Liu Siqi didn't even want to go in. The program group persuaded her for a long time before she managed to get in. She didn't even touch the exchange of family meals, because in Liu Siqi's view, dogs can't eat these things. How can that person eat them?
In such a rural area with limited conditions, people take a bath very simply. There is no shower or bathtub. Liu Siqi felt that he could not accept such a bathing environment and refused to take a bath. At one time, she wanted to leave and escape from this place where she could not live, but with a well-prepared program group, how could she leave easily?
Can't, ao however program group, Liu Siqi after several hungry or find a job to eat the food there, can't stand the smell, put down her "princess identity" to take a shower. These once untouchable and incomprehensible things are actually not so hard to accept.
In this way, Liu Siqi gradually compromised step by step and gradually learned something from their hard life. She began to accept a carefree life. Although it is a little late, she is also trying to do her own thing, even helping others to work and pick tea. In her life, these are all new experiences and full of fun. When her parents came to pick her up, they were all shocked. They could even see that spoiled young lady had to work by herself one day.
The amazing change from the inside out may be that the poor life there made Liu Siqi feel something. Not everyone is born with a golden spoon in his mouth. There are still many people suffering in the world, just to make themselves and let the next generation have a better life. Just one month's rural life showed her that the tens of thousands of dollars she casually spent a month was the living expenses of other people's families for one year or even several years.
After returning home, she slowly lost her temper and learned to get along well with her family. Even her younger brother said that he no longer knew her sister. After graduating from high school, Liu Siqi proposed to his family that he wanted to study abroad and study his favorite fashion design major. This is also an interest that she finally got, and her parents of course fully supported it.
Liu Siqi has always performed well overseas. After returning from studying abroad, Liu Siqi signed a contract with a domestic clothing company to become a fashion designer. Have your own career. The pampered baby girl is gone forever, and now Liu Siqi is a successful person with small achievements.
On the other hand, we can say that Liu Siqi's parents' educational methods are inappropriate. Chickens die from kindness to help them shell, and butterflies die from kindness to help them bite insects. The process of chicks struggling in their shells is to exercise their fragile bodies and let them face the wind and rain of the world firmly in order to break out of their shells. Sometimes persecution is always wrapped in the shell of love, confusing the receiver and reassuring the giver.
As soon as the giraffe landed, its mother would roughly kick its body with her legs until it stood up trembling. Between the affection that blood is thicker than water and the quick adaptation to the law of the jungle, the giraffe mother chose the latter, which is rational love. It is essential to be covered with blood on the road of growth. When you reach the finish line, that is the best reward.
So, stop those hands that are ready to reach out, they may be pushing your child into the abyss. The boat you built for him, you should let him learn logging. Swallow the words of guidance in your mouth, and let him know how to practice and understand the truth.
Indulgence and pleasure bear bitter fruit, and diligence and simplicity produce talents. After experiencing some things, you can learn experience and grow. Turning to look at the current parents, most of them have problems more or less, and they still have to ignore them after scolding their children. Be obedient, the stars hold the moon.
The establishment of parents' majesty and the cultivation of children's personality depend on every word and deed in daily life. When you say no to a child, be like a wall, not like a door. If you love him, please let go.