1. Be a good manager and don't point fingers.

In life, many of us will unconsciously use our understanding of the world to plan the future and guide others. Although it is sincerely "good for you", it also ignores the wishes, needs and suitability of the other party, which leads to a big mistake. No one in this world can know everything, and everyone's cognition is limited.

Never point someone else's life in the wrong direction because of your one-sided ideas. Put away that finger-pointing hand, with less interference and more understanding.

Pay attention to your words and don't judge others.

In life, it is difficult for us to have a "full perspective". Everyone has their own ideas, their own smells, and their own views. It is the greatest malice to judge others at will from one's own one-sided perspective. If you judge the results of others at will according to your first feelings, it is mostly a fallacy of generalizing. Many times, we can only see the tip of the iceberg, but we can't see the undercurrent at the bottom of the sea.

Don't gossip, sit still and think about yourself.

Facing others, keeping your mouth shut and not judging at will is the advanced cultivation.

Be careful of your feet and don't interfere with others.

People make different choices from different positions. Don't put your feet in other people's shoes. Whether it is relatives or friends, staying out of it and not interfering is the longest adhesive of feelings. In this journey of life, not everyone will go to the same place, with different destinations and different routes. When you use your own route to plan other people's lives, it will only disrupt each other's itinerary. Take care of yourself, don't get ahead of others, leave room for others, and leave dignity for yourself.