He is proud only when he is not proud, and he doesn't bully others by being spoiled. Author: Zhuge Liang

like smoke, the past is forgotten, and the bottom of my heart is selfless and wide. Author: Tao Zhu

Life is empty and insipid only in the eyes of insipid people. Author: Chernyshevski

The dark night is the prelude to the day. Author: Guo Xiaochuan

People full of joy and fighting spirit always welcome thunder and sunshine with joy. Author: Huxley

When you are angry, keep your mouth shut so as not to increase your anger. -Socrates

Good temper is the best dress a person can wear in social activities. -dude

No matter how angry you are, don't do anything irreparable. -Logan

We should be careful that we don't use words to hurt other comrades, but when others use words to hurt ourselves, we should also be tolerant. -Liu Shaoqi

People who have a modest, cheerful and sincere attitude combined with a spirit of patience are very lucky. -Seneca

The ocean is the widest on the land, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky.

Tolerance contains the principle of life. Life without tolerance is like walking on a blade. Son, if virtue can be chosen, please pick out tolerance first!

-Franklin

Tolerance is not only a kind of magnanimity, civilization, mind, but also a realm of life. Forgiving others means forgiving yourself, and at the same time, creating the beauty of life.

-Emerson

Tolerance is a kind of light of love, a supreme blessing, a relief for others, and a good street for yourself. How many people can a person's mind hold before he can win.

tolerance story

Zi Gong, a student of Confucius, once asked Confucius, "Teacher, is there a word that can be used as a principle for life?" Confucius said, "That's probably forgiveness." "Forgiveness", in today's words, is tolerance.

The prime minister can hold a boat in his stomach

Shu in the Three Kingdoms period appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the state affairs after Zhuge Liang's death. One of his subordinates is Yang Xi, who is withdrawn and slow in words. When Jiang Wan spoke to him, he only answered. Someone couldn't get used to it, and muttered in front of Jiang Wan, "It's outrageous that Yang Xi was so rude to you!" Jiang Wan smiled calmly and said, "People have their own temperaments. It's not his nature to let Yang Xi praise me to my face. Let him criticize me in front of everyone, and he will think that I am humiliating. So, he had to keep silent. In fact, this is what makes him valuable. " Later, someone praised Jiang Wan for "the prime minister can punt in his stomach".

offer a humble apology

Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing, ranking above Lian Po, for his meritorious service of "returning to Zhao in perfect condition". Lian Po was unconvinced and threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru face to face. Lin Xiangru learned that, as far as possible to avoid, tolerance, not conflict with Lian Po. Lin Xiangru's minions thought he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said, "The State of Qin did not dare to invade our State of Zhao because of me and General Lian. When I tolerate and give in to General Lian, I put the national crisis ahead and personal enmity behind me! " When Lian Po heard this, there was the story of Lian Po's "offer a humble apology".

Renyi Hutong

During the Ming Dynasty, Dong Duxing, a native of Jiyang, Shandong Province, was an official in Beijing. One day, he received a letter from home, saying that his house was built for the foundation and he had a quarrel with his neighbor, hoping that he could take advantage of his power to come forward and solve the matter. Dong Duxing wrote a book immediately after reading it, saying, "I can't help laughing and heartbroken when I send books thousands of miles just for the wall;" You are kind to me and close to me. Why not give up two feet? " After reading it, the family felt that Dong Duxing made sense and took the initiative to give up a few feet when building a house. When the neighbors saw Dong Jia's behavior, they also felt something and followed suit. As a result, the two houses gave up eight feet wide, and after the house was built, there was an alley, known as Renyi Hutong.

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Liszt students

A girl is going to give a concert, and the poster says that she is a student of Liszt. Liszt appeared in front of the girl the day before the performance. The girl was frightened and sobbed, claiming that she was out of her livelihood and asking for forgiveness. Liszt asked her to give him the bullet she played and give him some advice. Finally, she said brightly, "Come on stage and play boldly. You are now my student. You can announce to the theater manager that the teacher will play the last program of the party for the students. " Liszt played the last song at the concert.

The Legend of Liuchi Lane

During the Kangxi period of the Qing Dynasty, Zhang Yingguan, a native of Tongcheng, went to the Wenhua Temple as a college student and a minister of rites. The neighbor is Ye Fu, another big family in Tongcheng, and the owner is Ye Assistant Minister Zhang Ying who works in the same court. The two families have a dispute over the courtyard wall. Mrs. Zhang wrote a book to send Zhang Ying. Deeply worried when Zhang Ying saw the letter, she replied to the old lady: "A letter from a thousand miles away is just a wall, so what's the harm if it makes people three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, and I don't see Qin Shihuang. " So, Mrs. Zhang ordered the family to retreat three feet to build a wall. Ye Fu was very moved and ordered his family to move the courtyard wall back three feet. Since then, Zhang and Ye's two governments have eliminated barriers and become friends of the family.

Peng Dehuai measures magnanimity

More than 3 people, including Peng Dehuai, commander-in-chief of the Third Army Corps of the Red Army, inspected the terrain at the front, and the messenger shouted out of the way while holding the red flag. Only one soldier sat still. Peng Dehuai shouted a few words when he saw people getting in the way. The soldier stood up and punched General Peng twice. Mr. Peng told him to hurry. Afterwards, the messenger bundled the soldier to see General Peng. Peng Zong immediately told him to go back to the warrior and know that he was in trouble. He was afraid. When he saw that Peng Zong didn't care, he was deeply moved. Later, he said to everyone, "The commander-in-chief is really generous!"

Jesus: You have heard that you should love your neighbor and hate your enemy. It's just that I tell you to love your enemies. For the prayer that compels you.

Christianity breaks through the Jewish law of "an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth", which is also a kind of tolerance.

The philosopher Kant said, "Being angry is to punish yourself with other people's mistakes." The elegant Kant probably won't have a storm, and his mood will always be clear. If others make mistakes, we are thunderous, so it is our own fault.

Modern Dell. He said: "There is only one simple way to really hate others, that is, to give full play to their strengths." Hating each other, you must not eat meat to suck the marrow, and you will only make yourself exhausted. Carnegie's "hatred" is another form of "tolerance". Hating others is not to gnash your teeth and gluttonous opponents, but to absorb their strengths and turn them into strong bodies. When two tigers fight each other, it is inevitable, but once the hero is lonely and doesn't need to be locked in the fence, the fierce tiger will degenerate into a sick cat. It is a higher level of tolerance to regard the opponent as a friend.

President Lincoln is known for his tolerance of political enemies, and finally caused dissatisfaction among a member of parliament. The member of parliament said, "You should not try to make friends with those people, but destroy them." Lincoln replied with a smile. Exactly, the more tolerant and open opponents may be our potential friends.

Who made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project when it was successfully closed? Pan Jiazheng, a famous water conservancy engineer, answered a question from a foreign reporter: "Those who oppose the Three Gorges Project have made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project." The existence of opponents can keep a clear head and do things more comprehensively. It can inspire your courage to accept challenges, and generate shows the potential of life. This is not a simple tolerance, but it sharpens your will and sharpens the edge of your life.

Although I don't agree with your point of view, I have an obligation to defend your right to speak. As many people know, this sentence contains the democratic core of tolerance. As a good saying goes, three winters are warm, and tolerance is the warm sun on the snowy mountain in winter. Bad words hurt people in the cold of June. If you have tolerance, use it as an air conditioner to cool down in the hot summer.

Tolerance is a kind of beauty. Only when the deep sky tolerates the temporary raging of lightning storms can it be sunny. The vast sea is boundless only when the stormy waves are rampant for a while; The vast forest endures the law of the law of the jungle for a while, and it is lush. Rivers can only become great if they don't choose small streams. Tolerance is the towering Mount Tai, which contains hundreds of rivers, lakes and seas.

In communication with friends, tolerance is the gold that Bao Shuya gave to Guan Zhong. He can understand Guan Zhong's greed for death regardless of his selfishness, and he also recommended Guan Zhong to Qi Huangong as his boss.

In communication with others, tolerance is the torch that Guangwu burned letters to defect. I found a lot of letters that flattered Wang Lang, insulted Liu Xiu and even plotted to kill Liu Xiu. But Liu Xiu turned a blind eye to it and ignored the opposition of all the ministers. He put aside the past, turned his enemies into friends, strengthened his own strength, and finally became an emperor. This fire burned the bad blood and forged a solid foundation for his career.

You should be tolerant of other people's discord. The little shoes for you may make you jump out of the wonderful "ballet" on the stage; The blow to you, like a barbell in an athlete's hand, will only increase your explosive power. Bitter words are a double-edged sword, and eventually they cut themselves; Answer blows with blows can only show that your "teeth" will soon fall off; Blood is boiling, which is the most likely to cause "hypertension". "One foot squashes the violet, but it leaves the fragrance on that heel, which is forgiveness." andrew matheus said this sentence in "The Heart of Tolerance", which can enlighten people's minds.

Forgiveness is fierce, fierceness is lenient, and politics is harmonious.

the will is as strong as iron, and the measurement is as big as the sea.

only by respecting others can people be respected.

people who can't tolerate others don't deserve to be tolerated by others. -(Russia) Turgenev

A great man has two hearts: one is bleeding and the other is tolerant. -(Lebanese) Ji Bolun

He who loves will always love him; Those who respect others will always respect them. -Mencius under Li Lou

The famous writer Fang Long once quoted the definition of tolerance in the Encyclopedia Britannica in his masterpiece Tolerance: Tolerance means allowing others to act or judge freely; Patiently and without prejudice tolerate opinions that are inconsistent with one's own views or accepted views. The interpretation of tolerance in modern Chinese dictionaries in China is: magnanimous, not caring or not investigating.

1. To forgive others is to forgive ourselves. A little more tolerance for others, in fact, there is a little more space in our lives. On the road of life with friends, there will be care and support, and there will be no loneliness and loneliness; Life with friends will be less stormy and more warm and sunny. In fact, tolerance is always a sunny day.

2. Tolerance means forgetting. Everyone has pain and scars. If you open them at will, you will create new ones. Old scars and new wounds are hard to heal. Forget yesterday's right and wrong, forget other people's previous accusations and abuse, time is a good painkiller. Learn to forget, life will be sunny and happy.

3. Tolerance means not caring, and letting things go. Everyone has mistakes. If you cling to their past mistakes, you will form an ideological burden, distrust, resentment and reluctance, which limits your own thinking and the development of the other party. Even betrayal is not intolerable. The person who can bear betrayal is the strongest person, and will take the initiative in the atmosphere with his strong mind. With his majesty, he can give people confidence and motivation, so he can prevent or reduce betrayal.

4. Tolerance is chic. "There are green poplars everywhere, and every family has a way to Chang 'an." Being generous to others and accommodating criticism is the way to success in career and happiness in family. Everything is haggle over every ounce, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, live a tired life, and it is rare for the world to go once, and chic is the most important thing.

5. Tolerance is a kind of strength, not weakness. Tolerance should retreat to advance and actively defend. The concession embodied in tolerance is purposeful and planned, and the initiative is in your own hands. Helplessness and necessity are not tolerance. The highest state of tolerance is compassion for all beings.

6. Tolerance means not being forced when others disagree with you. From a psychological point of view, any idea has its origin. Any motive has certain incentives. Knowing the root of each other's ideas and finding the basis of their opinions can put them in their shoes and the proposed scheme can be accepted more in line with each other's psychology. Eliminating obstacles and confrontation is the only way to improve efficiency. Everyone has their own views and experiences on life, so we should respect their knowledge and experience, actively absorb the essence between them and do a good job of sublation.

7. Tolerance is patience. Criticism from peers, misunderstanding from friends, too many arguments and "counter-attacks" are really not enough, but calmness, patience and understanding are the most important. Believe this famous saying: "Tolerance is a grain that grows among thorns." If you can take a step back, the world will naturally be wide.

8. Tolerance also requires skill. Giving a chance is not connivance, nor is it an exemption from the responsibility that the other party should bear. Everyone needs to be responsible for his actions; Everyone has to bear all kinds of consequences. Otherwise, the other party will violate the prohibition (mistake) again and again, showing weakness.

9. Motto about tolerance:

Violet left its fragrance on its ankle. This is forgiveness. "-Mark Twain

A gentleman's way is loyalty and forgiveness. Do as you would be done by. I don't want others to do it to me, and I want to do it without others. (The Analects of Confucius)

Mount Tai won't let the soil, so it can become a big mountain; Rivers and seas do not choose small streams, so they can become deep. (Reese)

"Tolerance moistens the earth like a drizzle in the sky. It blesses those who are tolerant and those who are tolerated. -a line from Shakespeare's famous play The Merchant of Venice

● Tolerance is the only test of civilization (Help)

● The art of wisdom is the art of knowing what to tolerate (william james)

● The spirit of generosity is the greatest of all things (Owen)

● There are many such occasions in life: the goal you intend to achieve with resentment may be completely forgiven.