Many parents arrange their children to go abroad in the name of "being good for their children", but they actually do it for their inner "parents should do this". It is dictatorial and selfish for children to have no right to participate in and decide on children's affairs. If children are considered too young to participate in the decision, then they are too young to study abroad alone. Really good for children, at least pay attention to their feelings. Without the children's sincere and wholehearted support, things have no hope of success.

There is a common phenomenon in our society: children have not yet completed the connection with their parents psychologically when they are adults, and there is still a deep need for their parents in their hearts. If such a state enters an emotional relationship, it will unconsciously project these needs on the lover, and this projection will cause tension and even rupture of the relationship. The reason why the relationship has ended but I can't let go is that I don't want that person, but I can't let go of the projection of my parents' needs.

talk about responsibility 4: for the person you love, if you die, your love will be meaningless, and maybe it will only leave the other person with sadness and regret. You are still here, but you are weak, and your love can only give each other a burden. Therefore, love and strength can take care of another person or maintain a good relationship. Only in this way can we be qualified to take "responsibility" and have fun from it!

Education should include school, family and society. Today, many people really blame the school teachers for their family and society, which is unfair. Among the three, family education has the greatest influence on children, which can exceed the sum of the other two.

when children know how to close the door, you will know that they have entered puberty. When they start to close, don't try to preach to them, but listen, because you have nothing to say.

how to win the cooperation between children and parents-how to cultivate children's self-discipline, responsibility, cooperation and problem-solving skills

A lot of negative hints: "You are so stupid":-This kind of mantra often makes children really believe that they are stupid.

methods of raising children without punishment or arrogance-how to understand children's bad behaviors and how to deal with them

Parents should learn to keep their mouths shut and be their children's friends instead of always trying to correct their mistakes.

How to understand children's bad behavior and how to deal with it-How to eliminate the power struggle between adults and children

Learning positive discipline will bring you gains:-A method of raising children that is neither punishing nor arrogant.