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1. If you do something wrong in life, your conscience will never be at peace! Really, Balzac said it well: Some sins can only be redeemed, not washed away! (p1)

2. There are endless challenges in life. When you are almost done, you have to leave the world again. (p2)

The flowers and fruits irrigated by the gardener’s blood and tears must sooner or later be sent to the world for others to enjoy. (p2)

3. ...Everything depends on your own firm will and stance...Everything must rely on your personal perseverance, belief and will - the will to practice. (p9)

4. I disapprove of blaming myself without taking action. This is the basic way of life. It's not just about someone or something. As I often tell you before, only facts can prove your intentions, and only actions can show your intentions. Don't be so careless with your friends. People who are not "thin-hearted" by nature, but behave in the same way as "thin-thin", are the most unjust and unworthy of the crime. Just like a person who is not naughty plays naughty but ends up suffering a loss, the same truth. (p12)

You understand all the principles of life, and the disadvantage is the lack of factual expression; I hope you will remember this from now on for the rest of your life. You have to explain everything to others! (p12)

5. People who have not experienced sharp pain will not have deep and broad sympathy. (p13)

A person venting requires mental health, not making himself more and more depressed. (p14)

6. Regarding emotional issues...be restrained no matter what, put your future and health first. (p15)

7. ...Use more reason and less emotion. Of course, that requires your strong confidence to control all troubles. It is not an easy task, but it must be overcome.

8. When a person is lonely, his thoughts are concentrated, and all his feelings are true. (p19)

9. Don’t let what you feel float on the surface, but carefully analyze how the new feelings are different from your original concepts, emotions, and expressions. . This requires a calm and powerful intellect to analyze clearly. (p23)

Young people are most likely to give people the impression of "ungratefulness". In fact, he is looking ahead, absorbing new things like a thirsty, which does not necessarily mean "ungrateful"; but few people understand this psychology... (p23)

10. As long as it is Truth is a true lesson. Whether it comes from parents or friends, or from acquaintances, you must accept it. (p29)

You need to change your easy-going temper to some extent... When you are always among people, you will lack the opportunity to reflect; your thoughts, feelings, and emotions cannot be properly organized and summarized.

11. Be patient. No one will encounter times of depression from time to time, but they will pass soon. (p30)

Ignore success or failure as much as possible, just do your best and feel no regrets. (p31)

12. People spend their whole lives floating in high tides and low tides. Only mediocre people live like stagnant water; or they must have extremely high cultivation to achieve no results and truly achieve success. relief. As long as the highs don't make you nervous and the lows don't make you decadent, that's fine. If the sun is too strong, it will scorch the grains; if the rain is too strong, it will drown the crops. We just need to be mentally balanced so as not to get hurt... Slowly you will develop a different mood to deal with the past; that is, you can think about it without being shocked, and you can analyze the causes and consequences from an objective standpoint for future reference. , to avoid repeating the same mistakes. Only if a person dares to face up to reality, face up to mistakes, use rational analysis, and thoroughly comprehend, will he not be eroded by memories... You should look at these things as the ashes of the soul. Of course, you will be filled with emotions when you look at them, but don't be deeply hurt. You should have the same respect for yourself as if you were facing an ancient battlefield. (p32~33)

13. Although competition issues are a heavy burden, you must be mentally prepared anyway. As long as you try to put aside gains and losses as much as possible, you can be calm and completely relaxed mentally and physically. Only in this way can you hope to achieve good results... If you can often think of the famous saying "Essays are eternal, you know the gains and losses," you will definitely be much more relaxed mentally. Only in this way can we avoid the feeling of overwork and fatigue. The most tormenting thing is not mental and physical work, but worry! (p38)

Work hard to relax yourself mentally, and keep it in mind so that you can achieve good results. Nervousness is harmful to everything. ... With the concept of "I am doing my best", when you are nervous, immediately relax yourself. Treat your spirit just like you treat your hands and fingers. Pay attention to relaxation at all times. (p39)

You can’t be too busy on weekdays. When someone pulls you out, you have to make up for your homework. This will hinder your energy. Let’s just say no more for the sake of practicing piano. If you are not nervous, it is not advisable to be too busy; you would rather take some time to think quietly by yourself... Don't be too sentimental, sorry. If you make it a habit not to go out with others during working hours, you won't offend others.

Life's energy is limited...(p39)

14....Art is your lifelong career. Art itself is already exciting. You must not be overly nervous when practicing piano. Life is limited, and energy is also limited. We must take a long-term view and run a marathon. You are an emotionally impulsive person, so you should restrain yourself more. (p42)

15. ...Suppress emotions more, focus more on skills, and use reason more. I believe that fatigue will be reduced. (p42) [This is what Mr. Fu Lei instructs Fu Cong to pay attention to when practicing piano and how to reduce fatigue during piano practice]

If you don’t use enough effort; you will never get good results if you don’t suffer enough! (p43)

16. Anyone who practices skills all day long is an art craftsman rather than an artist. If a person cannot escape this level, he will never dream of art in his life! Art is the goal, and skill is the means; those who always only pay attention to the means will inevitably forget its purpose. (p47)

17. Don’t force yourself when you are already tired. Keeping a little more energy will still be an advantage in the long run. (p54)

18. The size and level of our achievements are beyond our control. Half of them depend on manpower and half of them depend on talent. But as long as we are strong, we are not afraid of failure, setbacks, or blows—no matter what It's a blow in terms of personnel, life, technology, and study; from now on, you can fight alone. (p56)

19. The greatness of motherhood lies not in reason, but in that intuitive feeling... (p60)

Thinking about the difficulties in the past will make you encounter difficulties in the future. When you have the courage to overcome, you will not lose confidence! Life is an endless marathon race without end...(p61)

...Young people tend to overestimate their own strength. (p61)

...Today, you have passed this point of pride and complacency, but I have always been a disciple of Chinese Confucianism. When encountering extreme events, you must have the feeling of "like facing an abyss" , "walking on thin ice", a feeling of extra solemnity, danger, and alertness. (p61)

...In fact, perfection does not exist at all. The whole life, food street, and universe cannot be said to be perfection. To be is to exist in the ideals of philosophers and the ideals of statesmen. Our lifelong pursuit, and the pursuit of many generations of people throughout history, is nothing more than perfection, but it can never be pursued, because human ideals and fantasies are always endless, so perfection is like the moon in the water or the flower in the mirror, which is always within reach. And out of reach. But being able to achieve overall "completeness" or comparative "completeness" at a certain stage is pretty good. (p62)

20. When a person wants to do something, he must think carefully beforehand. Especially when you want to change course, abandon the old path, and take a new path, you must make a balance of your own reason and weigh the old path and the new path very accurately on two plates. (p69)

The most powerful tribulations for people are unknown and uncertainty! (p71)

21. It is not healthy for a person to be satisfied too easily, nor is it healthy to be too dissatisfied and cause many unrealistic fantasies! (p76)

22. ...In the future, you have to be careful with others. Stop being so naive and always "judging the belly of a villain with a gentleman's heart." In the past... you always thought that young people were pure... Young people are not much purer than middle-aged people. Everything must be observed slowly. "It takes time to see the heart", "Knowing people, knowing faces but not knowing hearts", these old sayings are true reason! (p81)

23. It is inevitable for a passionate person, especially a young person, to go too far; as long as he is kind-hearted, upright, broad-minded, can correct his judgment in time, and is not stubborn, that is good. . (

As long as a person is sincere, he can always impress others; even if people don’t understand him at first, they will understand him in the future. (

Human psychology is: a gift is rarely received. , is valued; often received, not only do not value it, but regard it as a right that one deserves. Instead of being grateful, it is easy to feel resentful ( )

24. When insisting on the truth, you must pay attention to your speech. The more reason you have, the softer your attitude, and the softer your voice. It is a difficult struggle and an educational task; it requires good methods, methods, and means. Be patient. Never get angry and cause misunderstandings

After experiencing a hardship, you must improve your thinking and your style in the future (

25. A. The higher a person climbs, the more conscientious he must be in all aspects of life)

26. If a person is too successful, it is easy to get carried away without knowing it... There is often a feeling of pride in the heart, I suddenly realized it and immediately suppressed it... It shows that a person can't relax for a moment (27. Journalists always have this style of putting their own words in other people's mouths

28. , Even though life is so ruthless, we ourselves should try our best to improve ourselves, give others less pain, and give others more happiness.

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29. When it comes to emotional issues, you must take control of yourself, be firm, look at the big picture and the overall situation, don’t just show off your feelings, be extremely calm, and take into account the situation. Personal happiness, short-sighted soft-heartedness will often cause long-term unnecessary pain to people and themselves

30.… After all, the personal world is limited, and other people’s praise of you can only serve as an encouragement; different Only with your opinions can you make progress and expand your horizons: I hope you can think with a calm and open-minded attitude

31. Regardless of men or women, you can only focus your interests on career, learning, and art, and try to put aside trivial matters. Only the ego can be happy and feel that life is meaningful)

32. The most powerful argument in the world is practical action, and the most effective education is leading by example; what you cannot do yourself Never ask others; criticize yourself first if you make mistakes yourself, and correct yourself first. (33.... When he is humorous and happy, he is like a child, and when he is depressed, he is like a romantic poet. Sometimes he is very easy-going and easy to get along with; sometimes he is very stubborn and refuses to adapt. At this point, I want to say To be fair, he is not always wrong. In fact, he is kind-hearted, sincere and compassionate, broad-minded, and modest in nature. With new feelings and new methods, you can also have more correct self-criticism

35. Once the noble things in life come from the mouth of mediocre people, they can also become vulgar. ()

36. Young people are often carefree and overconfident in their own opinions, so they cannot consider all possible unpleasantness in advance. 37....Purity is certainly a precious quality, but ignorance is very dangerous. It is easy to become stupid and cause disasters. (

38. Most Chinese people have a peaceful, indifferent and simple temperament, and are easier to be satisfied than Westerners. - On the other hand, although Buddhism has a great influence, The theory of heaven and hell is just a theory of Hinayana (Pure Land Sect) in Buddhism, which is designed for the public with low knowledge. The real Buddhist teachings do not believe in the existence of heaven and hell; rather, they seek enlightenment and salvation from an intellectual perspective. It is about understanding the illusion of the world, and transcending pain and troubles. Although it is a transcendental thought, it does not encourage people to passionately pursue happiness, or rush to escape the horror of hell; it mainly encourages people to seek wisdom.

Wisdom makes people realize naturally, but faith can easily lead people to the path of paranoia and fanaticism

If people are not depressed and have no contradictions, they will not make progress. Only when there are contradictions will they force you to resolve them... Take a step forward... Peace without contradiction is just a lofty ideal, and it is not a good phenomenon if it is truly realized - the peace and tranquility that can be achieved through cultivation is only very short-lived, like the peak of a wave, for a moment. It is about to pass. Or the ideal peace and tranquility is the kind of spiritual cultivation that is rippling, has conflicts but is not too sharp, and can be resolved at any time. I feel that if you are depressed without falling into pessimism and world-weariness, and if you have conflicts that can be resolved (at least in terms of theoretical understanding), then depression and contradictions are not terrible, but the physical and mental disorders or cynicism caused by depression. From another point of view, the most hurtful thing (to oneself and others) is the depression and contradiction caused by passion... Any depression caused by inferiority complex, self-indulgence, etc., is harmful to society. They are all disadvantageous and fatal to ourselves... We are not afraid of frequent depression and contradiction, but we must not let this depression and contradiction hinder our happy mood

39. If it exceeds the limit, fashion will be absolute. There is no such thing as overindulgence without reaping the consequences! Everything must be in line with the golden mean...

40. Among the gods, the goddess of luck is the most capricious, with bad intentions, and often surprises people.