There is a difference between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Whose side is the husband on?
I went to Hong Kong for a business trip a few days ago, bought a gift for my wife and mother, and prepared a big-name bag for my mother in advance. I didn't expect my wife to like it at first sight and said she liked it very much. "Otherwise, you can give my bracelet as a gift to my mother. My mother talked to me a few days ago and said that she wanted to buy a bracelet to wear. " I didn't feel anything when I heard my wife say that. Very good, I gave my wife my bag, but I didn't know that when I gave my mother a bracelet, it was called "bitterness".
What is Tu Lei's sentence about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? When I was talking to my wife, my mother came back to find everyone, and I happened to hear this conversation. When I was going to deliver the bracelet, my mother took it away! "Not rare, others don't have to dedicate items to me? Son, you are so filial! " At that time, I was embarrassed. The small jewelry box in my hand was really hot. ......
The two women agreed with me that they didn't pay much attention to gifts. Buying gifts is in trouble again. In that case, you can't be angry if you buy the same splint.
I went to Hangzhou for a business trip, and when I got home, I bought the same gift for my mother and wife: a silk scarf with a pattern printed on it, and I spent some thought on the pattern design. My wife's is a sunflower, and my mother's is an ink landscape painting. Unexpectedly, my wife's hobby was wrong.
My wife said sourly, "I clearly remember my mother and hobbies, but I don't remember anything when I came here." Although my wife took this silk scarf, she turned a deaf ear and never saw her wear it.
I don't understand. Shouldn't you be happy when you receive a gift? Why do you need so much? Sister Dan of the enterprise looked at my troubles and hit the nail on the head: "Do you really don't understand or pretend to be unclear?" Isn't this well known? The two ladies at home don't care about the gift itself, but are secretly fighting. Who is more important in your heart? Anyway, they are not jealous! "
I have been thinking about my daily life since I got married. It's true. The two women have been at odds since they got married. My mother often helps me make all kinds of sweet soup modestly. When you get home from work, you should not only drink soup, but also listen to your mother's daily routine: how hard the work is, you should take care of yourself, and if your wife doesn't cook, she will know to order takeout. I won't let you make any more tonic soup. Can this human body make up? "
It goes without saying: look, mom still loves you the most! Actually, I really don't like this sweet soup. I feel scared at the thought of going home, but I still have to make a picture that I like very much.
My wife often complains to me behind my back: it's fucking interesting. I'm not afraid of you when I drink sweet soup every day, and then I'll give it to you, just perfunctory! I don't want a diabetic husband!
I nodded and agreed to take the soup to see my mother. I showed weakness again and drank. Be scolded by your wife!
Both of them are proving to me: I love you the most! They are all fighting for the direction of "1" in their hearts. What are the famous sayings about mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in Tu Lei?
I think it's time to talk to them. Otherwise, if this continues, the family will be in chaos, and chickens will fly and dogs will jump. So, I had a heart-to-heart chat with my mother through the opportunity that my wife came out to see my best friend.
I haven't seen my mother cry for years. When I finished, her eyes turned red and she wiped her tears: Your child is comfortable, so your mother won't embarrass you. If your mother doesn't forgive, who will forgive? You are good to your wife, and your mother is not sour. The young couple should get to know each other, cherish each other and find something to do by themselves. The square dance in the community and the chorus of the elderly have made me want to go. It is impossible to stare at you all the time after participating.
Just do as you say, take out the contacts in your mobile phone and go out early the next morning, four days a week. There are more smiles on the face, and it's not that children are long and short, but who dances beautifully and sings well?
The daughter-in-law gave a thumbs-up when she saw her mother's change. "Maybe you have an idea." .
Not really, wife. Think about it. It's not easy for mom to drag me into it for decades. How sad she would be if I did everything for you. In fact, mom had better coax you into saying something super nice, and he will praise you strongly when chatting with others. Next time I give you a gift, say you gave it to her. There is no need for all the buildings to know that you bought her something the next day! Mom has nothing to play with. Old people are getting older and more stubborn. You should let her go. What are the famous sayings about mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in Tu Lei?
I think what Tu Lei said in a variety show is quite right: "The husband who can be a man hides on both sides, and the husband who is not easy to be a man passes it on both sides."
To think well between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the role of middle husband and children is obvious. Making sticky sandwich cakes, which are sticky on both sides, is a harmonious home.
I have a basin friend, wife and mother. There is a saying that the differences between them are getting bigger and bigger, and finally they meet in silence. It doesn't matter. I immediately adjusted it, or I'll take the old road of friends.
What is Tu Lei's sentence about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? What about you? How to adjust the relationship between mother and lover?