1, Confucius said: "A gentleman has Jiu Si: he sees clearly, listens attentively, thinks enthusiastically, looks respectfully, speaks loyally, thinks respectfully, asks painstakingly and thinks clearly."
Interpretation of Confucius said: "A gentleman should consider whether he has understood when he looks, whether he has listened clearly when he listens, whether he is gentle when he treats people, whether he is respectful when he looks, whether he is sincere when he speaks, whether he is serious when he does things, how to seek other people's opinions when he encounters problems, whether he complains about the consequences before, and whether he is ethical when he looks at fame and fortune."
2. Confucius said; An upright man is open and poised, little people are always sad.
Explanation: A gentleman convinces others with virtue, convinces others with reason, and remains calm about Shu Tai's situation. Should have a broad mind, can tolerate others, tolerate all kinds of events, regardless of personal gains and losses. Villains worry about things, are busy calculating, and often worry that others will calculate themselves, so they often fall into fear and fidget!
3. Confucius said: "Quality is better than literature, and literature is better than quality. Gentleness is a gentleman. " -"forever night"
Interpretation of Confucius said: "if a person's simplicity exceeds his literary talent, it is a bit rough;" If literary talent exceeds his simplicity, it will be a bit flashy. Only the perfect combination of literary talent and simplicity can be called a refined man. "
4. Confucius said, "A gentleman is not as good as a week, and a villain is not as good as a week." -"For Politics"
Interpretation of Confucius said: "Gentlemen unite people without collusion, while villains only collude with people without uniting people."
5. Confucius said, "The winner has three pleasures, and the loser has three pleasures. Music festivals, ceremonies and music, people's kindness, the benefits of many virtuous friends. Having fun, having fun, having fun, having fun, and having fun are all losses. " -"Saving the World"
Interpretation of Confucius said: "There are three kinds of beneficial happiness and three kinds of harmful happiness. It is beneficial to be willing to be regulated by rites and music, to praise the strengths of others and to make more talented friends. It is harmful to take pride as fun, to take idleness as fun, and to take excessive feasting as fun. "
6. Confucius said: "The beauty of a gentleman as an adult is not the evil of an adult. The villain is the opposite. " -"Yan Garden"
Interpretation of Confucius said: "A gentleman likes to fulfill the good things of others, but he doesn't like to publicize the bad things of others. The villain is the opposite.
7. Confucius said, "Those who don't know themselves don't suffer, but those who don't know them also." -"Learning"
Interpretation of Confucius said: "I am afraid that others will understand me, but I am afraid that I will not understand others."
8. Confucius said: "A gentleman does not attract people with words, nor does he abolish them with people." -"Wei Linggong"
Interpretation of Confucius said: "A gentleman does not recommend a person because he has a few correct words, nor does he abandon his correct words because of his bad moral character."
9. Confucius said, "No common goal, no common goal." -"Wei Linggong"
Interpretation of Confucius said: "Different people have different opinions and don't seek things for each other."
10, Confucius said: "People with lofty ideals do not live to harm others, but die for the benevolent." -"Wei Linggong"
Interpretation of Confucius said: "A benevolent person is not afraid of death and damages benevolence, but is willing to give his life to protect benevolence."
1 1, Confucius said: "If a worker wants to do a good job, he must first sharpen his tools. Living in a country is also a saint and a doctor, and friends are benevolent. " -"Wei Linggong"
Interpretation Confucius said: "A craftsman must repair his tools in advance if he wants to do his job well. When we live in this country, we must serve the sages among the great officials and make friends with the benevolent people among the scholars. "
12, Confucius said: "Three friends benefited and three friends suffered. Friends are straightforward, friends forgive, friends listen more and benefit; Friends will be open, friendly, soft, friends will be destroyed and damaged. " -"Saving the World"
Interpretation of Confucius said: "There are three kinds of beneficial friends and three kinds of harmful friends. It is beneficial to make friends with honest people, honest people and well-informed people. It is harmful to make friends with flatterers, those who flatter in person and slander behind their backs, and those who are glib. "
13, Confucius said: "The knower is not confused, the benevolent is not worried, and the brave is not afraid." Zihan
Interpretation of Confucius said: "The wise are not confused when they are in trouble, the benevolent are not sad, and the brave are fearless."
14, Confucius said, "The rhetoric is chaotic. If you can't bear it, make a great plan. " -"Wei Linggong"
Interpretation of Confucius said: "Sweet words will corrupt morality. If you can't stand small things, you will disturb big things. "
15, Confucius said: "If Germany is not alone, there must be neighbors." -"Li Ren"
Interpretation of Confucius said: "A moral person will not be lonely, and he must have like-minded people as his partners."