From the beginning of life, we grew up in the arms of our mother. We fluttered in the amniotic fluid, enjoying the warmth and safety of our mother. Water embraces everything and nourishes everything. If God created human beings, then I think it is love that makes the world exist and all things continue.
Water and love give mammals the conditions for existence and survival. I think, as a person born with amniotic fluid, water symbolizes love. Amniotic fluid is the foundation of maternal love.
If you compare life to a long river, there is everyone's paddle in this long river. Ordinary people are born rich or humble, and none of us can escape the fate and the arduous journey.
Parents gave us life and the right to enjoy the sunshine on earth, but the river of destiny inevitably set up many obstacles, and the mountains and rivers were dyed. Let you experience everything in the world, let you feel the joys and sorrows, and let you know that life and destiny are not only a person's innate talent, but also a kind of training.
Grow up and move towards the future. You carry the sustenance of your parents, paddle and experience your own destiny. Along the way, you will find that your boat is so small. There is no luxury cruise ship of others, no light and simple gliding of others, no leisure and relaxation of others, and there are not so many people rocking the boat with you. Slowly discover that all you have is your own boat.
Parents are getting farther and farther away from themselves. Just as atoms gradually gain energy, they are farther and farther away from the nucleus. It is both a blessing and a worry for parents to watch your back go further and further. In this endless river, like most people, you keep trembling in the crowded river. The indifference of passers-by, the ridicule of the proud, and the gloom of the frustrated make you realize the various tastes of the world. The ups and downs exist because everyone has a sense of destiny.
You are experiencing time, and it is time that makes you more and more stable. You surpass others and are surpassed by others. You work harder and harder, and you won't accept this unfair fact easily. Young heart makes you unwilling to slow down and make you unwilling to give up easily. You experience the joy of success and the pain of failure in every transcendence and being surpassed, but you still don't want to give up your dreams and your parents' expectations. Maybe young you just know how to chase.
You pass by every lighthouse in the long river, and it is the light of each lighthouse that illuminates your heart, so that you will not be lost or depressed in the slow journey of life. It is this kind of light that makes you still treat bad luck with a calm heart.
Perhaps the struggle when I was young was rich and interesting. Even in adversity, I won't completely forget the scenery along the way. You are still looking for your own happiness. I hope your life is not completely lonely. You want to use the warmth of the other half to give you the strength to win the prize in the future. You are looking for and waiting for your love.
Many people are passers-by instead of going home. Watch love with pure thoughts, and create marriage with love. Just because she/he, I like it, is suitable to be my wife/husband. Then desperate to meet, know and accompany the person who has been waiting for you. You never give up. In the long river of life, you have gone through a period of time and buried a memory. (Life's perception of Sun) There are joys and sorrows, and there are always all kinds of tastes in life, and you are always there. Perhaps the reason why love has so-called pursuit and pain is because it doesn't exist or is misplaced.
In my opinion, love is a natural thing. The birth of a little life makes you realize the greatness of fatherly love and maternal love. You trudge in the long river of life, and the crystallization of love is born in this congenial journey. You realize the magic and greatness of life, your responsibility and happiness, so you are afraid of life and tell yourself to live this restless life with your wife/husband and your children. While you are grateful for the gift of life, you are also accepting the test of life. You are no longer living for yourselves, but for this angelic little life.
Life and boating may make you tired, but you should tell your angel to love the world and then integrate into it. Perhaps at this time, you have lost your childhood dreams and * * *. Maybe you have recalled your parents, and remembered whether their parents used to look the same as their own, and how lucky and happy they were. Young dreams may be getting farther and farther away from you, but you won't be afraid of depression and loss.
One day the child will grow up, one day the heaven you built with wings will be slightly narrow, one day the child will no longer be satisfied with the distant story you told, and one day the child will fly away to the sky where you once existed and retrace the road you once walked. Your dissuasion will only make them go further, and they plausibly say that they want to experience life.
You think of your parents, the road you walked, and every lighthouse you walked that once lit up your heart. You are free, and this may be the continuation of life. You know, maybe it's just the deep love between your mother and son, but you have to watch them leave. And their determined backs tell you not to chase. As a parent, maybe it's not that you don't want to catch up, but that you never catch up.
Life seems to collapse because of the child's departure, and all the chaos can't be solved. You worry about his future, his present, and you recall the days when he was by your side. You may put another picture of him on the bedside, look deeply at it on nights when sleep is getting less and less, and then be blurred by tears; You may be holding the money he gave you, but you are wondering when he can come back to see you.
However, life goes on and the river never stops. Children fly farther and farther, and when you really can't see them, you can only shake your head and sigh for blessings. You know, as long as they can call once in a while. Old age is a time of memories. You count your years and the people around you.
In the process of rowing, you have experienced many people. There are friends who care about the liver, classmates who studied when they were young, and colleagues who work hard together. But in the end, your wife/husband is with you. Time has defeated you. Your back has almost the same radian and basically the same number of teeth. You can walk at the same pace on the path covered with yellow leaves, and you can sit in a rocking chair until it gets dark until the next morning.
In sleepless nights, you nag about the past years. You will repeat a joke he once told, remember the roses he gave you, maybe have a big fight, shake hands and tell each other that I just want to relive the old days that belong to us. You may be happy to have you. You have never let go by luck, and have gone through this seemingly long but actually short time together. When the fire of love died out, the ashes were fortunately collected by the family. With each other's habits and reluctance, the vicissitudes of life gradually become bitter and sweet.
Life seems to slide to the end. You must accept the fact of death. You are still discussing who will die first. I remember learning a sentence from my wife's book in junior high school: "Let me die first, or I will die first." "Let me disagree. I secretly laughed at Lin Juemin's unfaithfulness and injustice. But now I gradually understand, "I mean, because of your weakness, I can't stop losing my sadness." I will die first, leaving my suffering to you. My heart can't bear it, so I'd rather you die first and I'll bear my sorrow. "Hey, husband, who knows that my soldiers died before you!" , tears streaming down her face.
But you won't die together, because there are still some things that can't be let go. It is not necessarily wealth, but it must be family ties that cannot be lost. You still exist silently for your children. Maybe you have a bleak night, and your children are too busy to take care of themselves, but you still stick to the end with the strength of a father and a mother, and then accept the festival of death.
Life seems to be back to square one. Like a circle that is always connected, the end is also the beginning. Perhaps everyone's life circle radius and arc rate are different, or it may be an irregular circle. But what you can do is accept it, not stand still. What you are experiencing now is what you will remember in the future. What you can change is that you will have few regrets when you recall.
The long river of life keeps flowing. I think the process of your paddling is the process of believing.
Believe in your family and you will learn to love the world.
Believe in love, you learn to love and cherish others, you also learn to take responsibility, you have the opportunity to feel the world and feel the beauty of life;
Believe in the future, you learn to grasp the present and have the courage to explore the world. You use your dreams to make yourself young, and let the young struggle repay your success and happiness.
Life is so wonderful on the water.
Feel affection, understand love, cherish friendship and believe in the future.