Emerson's famous saying is, "Your kindness must be a little sharp, otherwise it is equal to zero." People can hide their abilities and talents, restrain their personalities, and be indifferent to the world. But at the critical moment, if you don't want to be treated gently by others, you must be a bit sharp.

01, he may be low-key but possess an edge. The edge is a blunt armor that protects him from bullying.

Kindness is a traditional virtue in China, treating others harmoniously and being open-minded in dealing with things. But in the real world, people who are too kind-hearted and too soft-hearted are easy to talk to and don't care about in the eyes of others. The more kind and tolerant you are, the more you will be treated as a soft persimmon, and you will unknowingly become the target of bullying. Kindness without principles and concessions without bottom line will not only give up one's own rights and interests, but also encourage his greed. Only when fighting for one's legitimate rights and interests, one must have a prickly edge. The edge is the blunt armor of being bullied, which can protect oneself and others. The thoughtfulness of loved ones.

02. Act in a low-key manner without losing your edge. Your edge is what makes you stand out.

"Historical Records·Biography of Pingyuan Jun Yu Qing" records that "Mao Sui was in the bag early and stood out, not just the last one." Mao Sui's ability and talent are like an awl, without losing its edge, just like As if it were placed in a cloth bag, there is a force that makes it stand out. You can usually not show off or show off, hide your edge, and do your own thing wholeheartedly, but when you encounter opportunities, you must seize them. Opportunities are always given to those who are prepared and do not lose their edge. Edge is the power to stand out. You can Let you seize the opportunity and not let it slip away.

If others do not offend me, I will not offend others. Be kind to everything as you would be kind to yourself, and be kind to yourself as you would be kind to others. Don’t forget that good and evil will eventually be repaid. In exchange for others' tenderness.