"If a son wants to do something, he should be a saint first".
Like a person, it begins with resonance, falling into talent and being loyal to character.
Obviously, the importance of personality to a person.
And a good personality is a person's greatest confidence.
There are eight criteria for a good character. How many did you meet?
1, honesty
The capacity of the earth is limited, so a gentleman must constantly cultivate his own virtue to undertake the world.
To carry things with goodness is to embrace everything with goodness.
The earth, with its broad and heavy virtue, contains everything and everything.
Everyone is willing to associate with a kind-hearted person, because such a person makes people feel practical and secure, and has sincere respect and trust, so they can accumulate popularity and popularity.
Virtue is bliss, and kindness can be respected by others.
Step 2 be kind
Kindness is the compass of the soul, so that we will never lose our way.
No matter who you hurt, you will hurt yourself in the long run. Maybe you don't realize it yet, but it will definitely come back.
What you do to others is what you do to yourself.
No matter what you do to others, the person who really receives it is not others, but yourself.
If you want to be loved, you must love first; If you expect to be cared for, you must care for others first; If you want others to be nice to you, you must be nice to others first.
Kindness is the key factor of a good character.
Be an honest man, do nothing wrong on weekdays and be afraid of ghosts knocking at the door in the middle of the night.
Step 3 keep your promise
Without credit, one can do nothing well.
The key to interpersonal communication is trustworthiness.
The ancients regarded trustworthiness as one of the most important qualities of being a man, emphasizing that words must be kept, and words must bear fruit.
People who don't keep their promises in society will not win the trust of others, and of course no one wants to associate with them.
Step 4 tolerate
As the saying goes, "tolerance is great."
People should have a tolerant heart and be able to tolerate things that are intolerable in the world.
We should learn to tolerate people who have different views from ourselves, especially those who have contradictions with ourselves.
To tolerate others is actually to loosen your mind, otherwise it will only increase the pressure on your mind, and you will suffer.
Shu in the Three Kingdoms period appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the state affairs after Zhuge Liang's death.
One of his subordinates is Yang, who is withdrawn and speaks slowly.
When Jiang Wan talked to him, he only answered.
Someone couldn't get used to it, and muttered in front of Jiang Wan, "It's outrageous that Yang is so rude to you."
Jiang Wan smiled indifferently and said, "Everyone has his own temperament. It's not in Yang's nature to praise me to my face. Let him criticize me in front of everyone, and he will feel ashamed of me. So, he had to keep silent. In fact, this is his valuable place. "
Later, some people praised Jiang Wan that "the prime minister can punt in his stomach".
The sea doesn't care about water, so it can become a big one. Mountains don't care about earth and stone, so they can be high.
Step 5 be honest
Honesty is the foundation of our life, and honesty is a virtue.
You can't make friends if people are not sincere.
"If you want to do great things, you must be honest." Only by being honest and upright can we win the respect of others and gain a foothold in society.
We treat our work in the same way. Whether reporting work or reflecting problems, we must seek truth from facts, and we must never resort to deceit or break our word.
Step 6 be humble
Tagore once said, "When we are very humble, we are very great recently."
Modesty is an important part of good character.
Modesty makes people progress, while pride makes people lag behind.
Whenever you look down on yourself, it is always a good thing. On the one hand, it is conducive to your own progress, on the other hand, it is conducive to getting along with others.
The ancients said: "no matter what kind of person you are, you must never be snobbish;" No matter what occupation you are engaged in, you can't be careless. "
Do anything, don't always think that you are talented and indispensable, which is not good and easy to be annoying.
Everyone likes a humble person.
7. complete
A person is not necessarily a great person, but he can be an upright person.
An upright man must first act according to his conscience.
An officer can start from a kind heart, which is definitely a noble person and an upright person.
People should also have a correct view of right and wrong, and have their own opinions when encountering problems, not hello, I am good, and everyone is good.
Adhere to the truth, you can't say that wrong is right just because you have a good relationship, nor can you say right is wrong just because you have a bad relationship.
8. Insist
People are expensive and unchanged.
Doing anything requires determination, perseverance, patience and persistent pursuit, which is the key to success.
Otherwise, nothing will be achieved. The so-called "dripping water wears away the stone, iron bars sharpen the needle" is the truth.
We might as well be fools ourselves, look down on ourselves, do things in a down-to-earth manner and persevere.
In our daily work, as long as it is what we are looking for, we should try our best to complete it, do it well and strive for the pleasure of success.
This perseverance and courage is the concrete embodiment of persistent pursuit.