The so-called "keeping an eye on all directions and listening to all directions" is the knowledge that must be mastered in the struggle in society. No matter where you are, at work, at school, even at dinner parties, you should learn to observe, observe everyone around you, and observe everything that is happening. You can't just immerse yourself in your senses, you should mobilize all your keen factors and carefully observe anyone and things around you.

Learn to judge

It's not enough to observe. You have to learn to judge, and judge things in the first place as soon as possible. Although you can't judge a thing or a person clearly at once, you must learn to have the ability to judge at the first time. Many people look very smart and observant, but they are very confused when they encounter unexpected things, and they don't know what to do. They can only make judgments for a long time, which is the reason why their judgment is not strong.

Know how to reason

No matter what happens, you should first have a self-reasoning and make a series of reasoning in the fastest time, according to your inner feelings and the appearance of things, plus your daily observation of those things and people. Although all things can't rely on reasoning alone, reasoning is a skill you must master.

Don't be self-righteous

Stupid people have such a characteristic, that is, they are self-righteous. You should have your own observation, judgment and reasoning ability, but that must only be something in your heart. No matter how correct your reasoning and observation are, as long as things have not been confirmed, you must keep your thoughts in your heart. Of course, you can put forward your ideas when necessary, but it doesn't mean you have to make a final decision.

Learn to hide emotions

A person who can't control his emotions well will suffer a great loss in this society. No matter what we have experienced or what we are experiencing, it is something that can only be kept in our hearts. You can say that a happy person is naive and simple, and I think so, but if you want to survive better, you must learn to hide your emotions.

Don't get angry easily

Once a person gets angry, it is bound to lose a lot of reason, and a person who loses part or all of his reason may do a lot of things that he can't understand. At that time, you can say that your IQ is almost zero. So you should always remember, don't get angry easily, unless you don't want to be that scheming person at all.

Don't be controlled by anyone

Be controlled at will. Such people will be trampled underfoot in society. You don't even have your own ideas. What can you do? Although other people's opinions are worth thinking about and listening to and learning from, it does not mean that we should be easily influenced by any one.

learn to smile in time instead of deliberately finding fault

when we are faced with a villain who wants to find fault, no matter how much explanation you give, it will only bring more irrationality to ta. Then why should you waste your time and energy on those people? You just remember it. If there is an opportunity to bring down ta, you must remember to seize it. If not, when ta finds fault with you, replace your disdain with a smile.

Know when to shut up or talk

No matter where you are or who you are facing, you must know when to speak loudly, when to whisper, when to keep your mouth shut and just listen, and when to put in a word properly. If you can't do all these things well, it is really a difficult problem to become a man with a heart.

Being foolish is not foolishness

In many cases, playing dumb is a sign of being foolish. When dealing with some people, when you say it's wrong or not, pretend your "stupidity" is just right, which will avoid a lot of embarrassment. But one thing you have to remember is that not all people need to play dumb in front of them, that is, they are either stupid or really stupid.