Confucius said: Clever words mess up virtue, but a little intolerance messes up big plans

The word "forbearance" has a knife on its head.

Only those who can endure what others cannot tolerate will become great in the future.

It has been silent for ten years, but once it is unsheathed, it will stir up ghosts and gods.

A gentleman hides his weapons and waits for the time to come. "The Book of Changes"

Your face is calm and gentle, and no one knows how tightly you grit your teeth. You walk with the wind, and no one knows that you still have bruises on your knees from the fall. You laugh heartlessly, and no one knows that you can only cry silently when you cry. Only by working extremely hard behind others can you be effortless in front of others. People are either vulgar or lonely!

The turmoil in the world is just a state of refining the heart, and only tolerance is good in the warmth and coldness of human relationships.

The edge of a sword comes from sharpening; the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold.

Endure the calm for a while and take a step back to open up the sea

Let him be crazy; the bright moon shines on the river, let him do whatever he wants; the breeze blows on the hills

1. There is no better shield in the world than forbearance. Only those who can endure what others cannot tolerate will become great in the future.

2. Deep in our souls, we are all lonely, always trying to find warmth from the crowd to resist the coldness of the soul. But in the end, only myself is left in the exhaustion, crying in the laughter, and sad in the joy. As long as our breathing and heartbeat are still there, we have to trudge around, endure the pain, and be numb in the pain. It seems that today is solid under the feet, but yesterday has already become a cloud. Dreams need wings and can only be cultivated through diligence and hard work.

3. Even if you are in a desperate situation in the future, you still need to persevere and never give up! Yes, I have always kept this sentence in mind. You must be patient, endure pain and torture, and live strong. Only by living can you have hope of victory.

4. Forbearance: There are too many responsibilities in the heart. A small amount of tolerance will mess up the big plan. The palace is sinister, sharp? It’s not that I don’t have it, I just have to take care of it step by step, otherwise I’ll be surprised at every step.

5. At different times in our lives, we will all pursue the most persistent thing we want at the moment. It may just be our father's favor, brotherly friendship, the prince we have always had a crush on, or someone else. Everything about the princess's admiration may become the kite in our hearts at that time. We ran and kept moving forward, thinking about it in our eyes and hearts. But as time rolls forward, have we discovered that what we have been pursuing persistently or giving up for this is all worth it? In order to get it, we have chosen to give up, betray, lie, and endure. But what will happen if we get it for a short time? Happiness and joy are just slowly submerged in self-blame, guilt, and fear!

6. There is a kind of forbearance that actually contains a kind of power, and there is a kind of silence that is actually a shocking confession.

8. In love, when two people find fault with each other and focus on what is wrong with the other person, there will only be resentment or even hatred in their hearts. After that, they either complained and blamed each other, or they tolerated it. When they couldn't bear it anymore, they thought of breaking up. Once people start to look inward, they will find that the problem is not just the other person's, but their own inability to accept the true other person is the root of the problem.

9. Tolerate the shortcomings of others.

11. Entrepreneurs have the goal of getting things done. Their views cannot be too clear otherwise they will offend others. They must always be careful of compromises in order to achieve their goals. They are the people who are most capable of getting things done and have the most experience in how to get things done. Scholars are people who need to explain their opinions thoroughly and have clear opinions. The more uncompromising and unique they are, the more popular they will be. Officials do not need to have clear opinions, nor can they aim to achieve success. What they need is to be forbearing and hide things.

12. A biting lion is not scary. What is scary is that this lion knows how to be patient

13. The ancients said that a person who can tolerate his anger is better than a brave man. A person who cultivates himself and cultivates his mind is better than a general who attacks cities and plunders territory. In life, tolerance can reduce the barriers between people, allow everyone to communicate better, and be more considerate and caring for each other.

14. The reason why scars hurt is because we are keen to touch, reminisce and show others. If love is moved by memory, heartache will be caused by the past. A fool will be injured more severely, but a wise person will be injured and strengthened. Time will smooth out all sorrows and joys, and there is no need for too much melancholy, complaints, and regrets. If the past is not deleted, the future will not come. Believe that those things that you cannot defeat, overcome, endure, and tolerate will make you stronger as long as they do not kill you.

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15. After hearing this, Muchen smiled softly and said: When I was learning forbearance, you were still an obedient student in the academy, and why did you do this? The reason for forbearance is that you have met an opponent that you cannot defeat for the time being. But unfortunately, in my eyes, you are not in this category.

16. Learn to laugh it off, treat it with detachment, know how to tolerate, know how to forgive, and let yourself grow in tolerance.

17. Today I will teach you how to be lurking and tolerant. It all depends on your boss and the timing. You can lurk under a hypocritical boss, but you can lurk under a career-oriented boss. They will lurk for a few days before letting you go. You can be patient in the face of troubles, but if you don't take action when the benefits come, your life will be wasted.

18. But forbearance and silence are not ends, but means, and they will eventually break out at the last moment.

20. The one who can maintain love with hormones for a lifetime is a god, and the one who can use Platonic aesthetic love to tie the other person is a saint. For ordinary people like us, the only way to maintain love is to run in, to run in with patience and forbearance, to wear off our own edges and corners, and to cut off the toughness of the other person. Running in means tolerance. Running in means changing and improving. It is worth changing for your beloved love and a lifetime of happiness.

21. There are some things that should not be spoken lightly to others. Being eloquent is silver, and keeping a low profile is gold. There are some things that should not be done hastily. If you stand in front of others, others will be jealous. If a tree is beautiful in the forest, it will be destroyed by the wind. ; There are some injustices, which should not be vented. All things are clustered together to form the state of the world, and forbearance and determination can control others; there are some small profits, which cannot be reached at will. Gain is a kind of short-term, and loss is a state; there are some ordinary things, which cannot be thrown away, because The reason why it is light lasts forever, because silence can become eternal.

23. I have seen and believed from the momentary dizziness of my life: life is art, a charming, beautiful, self-admiring art, terrible, shameful, and unbearable. Art.

24. Don’t be sad about small grievances: in life, you are destined to suffer many grievances. The more successful a person is, the more grievances he suffers. If you want to achieve the ultimate value and brilliance in your life, you should not care too much about grievances and let them tighten your heart and disrupt your life. You have to learn to laugh it off, you have to learn to be detached from it, and you have to learn to transform potential energy. A wise man knows how to be patient and forgive those around him, so that we can grow stronger in tolerance.

25. Wounded by swords can be cured by medicine; hurt by emotions, time can cure; hurt by the times, there is no cure; pain is lingering, an internal injury endured by a generation!

28. Don’t be sad for small grievances, know how to tolerate, forgive those around you, and let us grow stronger in tolerance.

30. Compared with men in general, female entrepreneurs and investors have some gender-specific characteristics: when needed, they can more freely put aside the so-called face and self, and it is easy to see clearly to the true self; to be stronger and more tolerant, which is the harbor of one's own soul and the habitat of the souls of all family members; to be stronger and more tolerant in the heart. Women experience physiological changes from childhood to adulthood, and marriage and childbearing in adulthood are all forged to be strong. It has laid a complete foundation for the small universe; it has strong psychological suggestion and error correction ability, and constantly promotes progress; its innate compassion enables it to truly understand and act on social responsibilities and public welfare undertakings, without staying on the surface of utilitarianism and so on. .

31. During the story of Zhen Huan’s biography in Ganlu Temple, the emperor praised Huan Huan for her gentle character. In fact, I find it funny: Men always hope that women will love them deeply and be very sensible, but they don’t know that women are willful in love. If she is very well-behaved, sensible, and considers the overall situation, 80% of her mind has changed, or at least she is no longer as determined as before. You know, the only woman who can endure and love you wholeheartedly is your mother.

35. Don’t be sad about small grievances. In life, you are destined to suffer many grievances. The more successful a person is, the more grievances he suffers. If you want to achieve the ultimate value and brilliance in your life, you should not care too much about grievances and let them tighten your heart and disrupt your life. You have to learn to laugh it off, treat it detachedly, and learn to transform potential energy. A wise man knows how to be patient and forgive those around him, so that we can grow stronger in tolerance.

37. Resentment is an emotional response to dissatisfaction with others. This emotion is a kind of unexpressed anger hidden in the heart, which tortures and distorts a person's normal mind and values ??like a poisonous snake. Therefore, we must hold back because people with such emotions simply do not have the ability to vent their revenge.

38. If a person only regards the happiness and purpose of life as eating and sleeping, what kind of person is he? What a beast! God created us so that we can talk so loudly and look forward and backward. Of course, we must use the ability and smart reason He has given us and not let them go to waste. Now I clearly have the reasons, determination, strength, and methods to do what I want to do, but I still say without shame: This thing needs to be done. But it has never been shown in action; I don't know whether this is because of forgetfulness like a deer or a hog, or because of overly cautious scruples that are one part cowardice and one part wisdom. Examples as clear as the earth encouraged me; look at this brave army, led by a pampered young prince, whose spirit was lifted up by his strong ambition, making him despise the unknown results and fight for the sake of a mere bullet. A barren land, fighting with flesh and blood to challenge fate, death and danger. True greatness is not to act rashly, but to strive generously even for the smallest straw when honor is in danger. (Classic line) But my father was brutally killed and my mother was humiliated. My reason and emotions were aroused by this unscrupulous hatred, but I tolerated it, let everything take its course, and watched this. How can I be ashamed of myself when 20,000 people walk down to their graves in a desperate attempt to gain an empty reputation? The purpose is just to fight for a piece of land that is not enough for them to fight or bury their bones. ah! From this moment on, let me get rid of all doubts and delusions, and fill my mind with bleeding thoughts!

39. Sometimes you have to be grateful for the setbacks and hurts in life. It is they that have made you forbearing, reserved, and practicing. Let you understand the beauty of Cangshan Mountain at sunset, and let you know that there is true meaning in it when you gradually stay away from the right and wrong and the world, and you will forget to say it without arguing. At any time, silence and keeping one's mouth shut are the most beautiful and most difficult states in life. Xue Xiaochan

40. Even if you are in a desperate situation in the future, you still need to persevere and never give up! Yes, I have always kept this sentence in mind. You must be patient, endure pain and torture, and live strong. Only by living can you have hope of victory. [838]

41. I gradually admit that the value of living lies in having a fulfilling life. Under the ordinary shell, there must be a juicy, sweet flesh like a fruit, and a hard and shiny core. Only such seeds can take root and sprout in the depths of the human world, passing on a sentimental life legend.

42. In life, you are destined to suffer many grievances. The more successful a person is, the more grievances he suffers. If you want to maximize your life, you should not care too much about grievances and let them tighten your heart. We must learn to laugh it off, learn to treat it with detachment, and learn to transform potential energy. Wise people know how to tolerate, so that we can grow stronger in tolerance.

43. Is it hateful to people who don’t give you a future? not necessarily. What is even more disgusting than this is: I only give you the future, but not the person you are now. They hang a piece of meat high in the distance to lure you, a stupid fox who can't climb a tree, and make you wait, endure, and sacrifice, making you uncomfortable, unhappy, and unfree now. I always tell you for our future, when my career improves a bit, I will definitely accompany you when I have time in the future, when we all want to understand Zhuang Yating

46. People are like this, good for a while, bad for a while, happy for a while, After a while of pain, we slowly learn to tolerate it while knowing the warmth and coldness, and the days no longer feel sad.

47. The world is noisy and turbid. If a person cannot restrain himself and maintain a clear mind, he will surely become a blind person sooner or later. Xingxun spends his days in sorrow without knowing it at all. Only by being content and loving can we know the simple origin of life. People's hearts are full of holes. Outside the cave is a warm floating light, and inside the cave is the hidden truth. "Dyeing Flower Collection"

48. In life, you are destined to suffer many grievances. The more successful a person is, the more grievances he suffers. If you want to gain value from your life, you should not care too much about grievances and let them tighten your heart. We must learn to laugh it off, learn to treat it with detachment, and learn to transform potential energy. A wise man knows how to be patient and forgive those around him, so that we can grow stronger in tolerance. Liu Chuanzhi

51. In life, one has to suffer many grievances. The more successful a person is, the more grievances he suffers. If you want to maximize your life, you should not care too much about grievances and let them tighten your heart. We must learn to laugh it off, learn to treat it with detachment, and learn to transform potential energy.

A wise man knows how to be patient and forgive those around him, so that we can grow stronger in tolerance. Liu Chuanzhi once talked with Yang Yuanqing

52. Silent clouds, are you more sad than me, or am I more tolerant than you. For the rest of the journey, forget me, okay? This way you won't be sad, and I will forget the memories.

53. Don’t be sad about small grievances. In life, you are destined to suffer many grievances. If you want to maximize your life, you shouldn't care too much about grievances, and don't let them influence your emotions or interfere with your life. Learn to laugh it off, treat it detachedly, know how to tolerate, know how to forgive, and let yourself grow stronger in tolerance.

54. A man may not spend money on you, but he doesn’t even want to spend it. What else do you expect? If a man is not firm enough for you, please stop your persistence. A man is indifferent to you, please close your heart. A man is cruel to you, please don't tolerate it. You can be crazy, but don't be stupid.

57. I admire those who can tolerate it, hide their pain so deeply, and only share happiness with others. In fact, the sadness in their hearts has long been overflowing, but they seem to be calm and peaceful.

58. Therefore, those who endure and survive, writing in the dirt without saying goodbye, have endless selfish desires, despise the world, and do not express their literary talent in the future.

59. The ancients said that a person who can tolerate his anger is better than a brave man, and a person who cultivates himself and cultivates his mind is better than a general who attacks cities and plunders territory. (Classic sentence) In life, tolerance can reduce the barriers between people, allow everyone to communicate better, and be more considerate and caring for each other.

60. Liu Chuanzhi: In life, one is destined to suffer many grievances. The more successful a person is, the more grievances he suffers. (Classic sentence) If you want to maximize your life, you can't care too much about grievances and don't let them tighten your heart. We must learn to laugh it off, learn to treat it with detachment, and learn to transform potential energy. A wise man knows how to be patient and forgive those around him, so that we can grow stronger in tolerance.

61. Boys should be so forbearing in their feelings. No matter how much pain they endure, they can bear it without any expression. With a calm profile, they can bear all the sharp corners and sharp points. knife.

62. In life, you are destined to suffer many grievances. The more successful a person is, the more grievances he suffers. If you want to gain value and brilliance in your life, you should not care too much about grievances and let them tighten your heart and disrupt your life. We must learn to laugh it off, learn to treat it with detachment, and learn to transform potential energy. A wise man knows how to be patient, forgive those around him, and grow stronger in tolerance. Mo Yan

65. Between husband and wife, sometimes they need a profound understanding, sometimes they need a sincere loyalty, sometimes they need to roar and vent like thunder, sometimes they need to pretend to be confused while still understanding, and sometimes, It requires the forbearance of knocking out teeth and swallowing blood. The kind of polite politeness that raises eyebrows is often not affection, but that the relationship between each other is not that close. Gentleness and forcefulness are a kind of tempered temperament.

67. Reputation emerges from humiliation. Virtue is great in forbearance.

68. I will keep running, keep running, until the end of the world, I will keep running. Bring all my belongings: courage, persistence, tolerance, and a heart that can endure loneliness.

69. Let us thank the person who holds the lamp. When we enjoy the light, he stands patiently in the darkness.

73. We do have such advantages, but we also need to hide some of them. This is called self-cultivation. Others do have such shortcomings, but they also have to be tolerant. This is called Chengfu.

The repeated forbearance and repeated concessions resulted in lies at the feast.

1. Improbable things may come true today, and impossible things may come true tomorrow.

2. The most difficult thing in life is to know yourself.

3. Ridicule is a kind of power, a negative power. Praise is also a kind of power, but it is a positive power.

4. If you don’t learn, you won’t succeed; if you don’t ask, you won’t know. Wang Chong's "Lunheng Shi Zhi Pian"

5. If you ask questions, you will be rich; if you use it yourself, you will be small. "Shang Shu Zhong Hui's Edict"

6. It's easy to ask questions when reading. If you can't answer a question, you might as well ask again. Zheng Xie

7. Making a decision is not difficult. What is difficult is taking action and sticking to it.

8. The value of life is determined by people’s contribution to society.

9. Vanity will bloom, but it will not bear fruit.

10. Gold emerges from fire, and heroes emerge from adversity.

11. A person who is eager to ask questions is only five kinds of fools; a person who is ashamed to ask questions will be a fool for life.

12. Knowledge is the best honor for young people, the greatest comfort for the elderly, the most valuable property for the poor, and the most precious decoration for the rich.

13. Success does not come in the future, but is accumulated continuously from the moment you decide to do it.

14. Thousands of inventions start with one question. Beasts are inferior to humans, so I don't know how to ask. A wise man asks wisely, a fool asks foolishly. Manpower is better than nature's work, just ask in every matter. Tao Xingzhi

15. Success is distributed with probability. The key is whether you can persist until the moment success begins to appear.

16. We live in this world not to ask for anything from life for ourselves, but to try to make other people's lives happier.

17. We will not ossify common sense and turn it into a creed.

18. The best thing about life is that when you stop living, you can still serve the people with everything you create.

19. Giving up is also a choice. Giving up is not because you are incompetent, but because you have a better choice. Sometimes, giving up requires more courage than persisting.