The length of life is often difficult to control. To some extent, there are random elements in it. Keep a good physical and mental state and try to make the length as long as possible.

and the width is what we usually say about reading, traveling, chatting, facing different people and scenes, feelings in different situations, feelings, experiences and unspeakable things.

there is a saying that is quite good, experience is knowledge. If you can go out to see more, go out as much as possible, see the scenery and flowing water, and meet the sea of people, the towering and strange mountains.

maintain the length and enlarge the width as much as possible. Need more vision and pursuit, try to increase the width of the content, fill it with more experiences, and make the width more substantial and exciting. As for other people's opinions and ideas, it's not that important. If they think that it won't matter if they have it just because they haven't, then we have to understand them and believe that they will move on for this goal.