Life is a process full of regrets. It will be a pity to speak disrespectfully and hurt relatives and friends; Dream of, welcome, there will be regret; Poor planning, wasted efforts, there will be regrets. Life regrets are all the time and everywhere. It doesn't matter if you have regrets. What matters is not to complain or regret, but to resolve and delete regrets. Learn to leave regrets behind one by one, and grasp the present, so as to grasp the future life.
Your demands are too high, your desires are too much, and the world will isolate you, because you are too individual and different. If you want to be happy, happy, safe and happy, the first condition is to be integrated into the public, divorced from the public and from this society, and you will accomplish nothing.
Life needs to be honed, and life needs to be enlightened. Zhilan was born in a valley, and she didn't work because no one cared. Plum blossoms bloom in the corner of the wall and are not fragrant because the sun does not shine; Water flows around the stone, and there is no dispute because of the resistance of the stone. This is a calm and quiet. There is no language in the mountains and no waves in the deep waters, and it is even more gorgeous because it is pure and simple, quiet and deep.
When you are proud, you should learn to remind yourself, and don't be carried away by victory; When you are frustrated, learn to adjust yourself, and don't let decadence kill your ambition; When you are rich, you should learn to protect yourself and don't let wealth become a burden; When you are poor, you should learn to be strong and don't let the dead end become a dead end; Learn to comfort yourself when you are in pain, and don't let sadness destroy your body and mind.
Meeting people is a kind of fate. We should care more about each other, care more, greet more and cherish more. It would be great to meet and smile. Life with thorns is a kind of mutual harm. Why bother? As the saying goes, seeing the world is broad-minded, and reading human feelings is broad-minded.
many people think that it is not good to violate the fate, but we will know that it is not a bad thing to violate the fate by studying Buddhism. Although it has a bad influence on our life and practice, it can make us realize a lot of truth from it and recognize this evil world, thus making us feel disgusted and eccentric. We Buddhists should learn to understand the impermanence of the world from the violation of fate, and then seek ways to get rid of our troubles. Therefore, violation of fate is also the help of our practice.
every step we take is a new starting point, and these starting points are connected to form the trajectory of our life. Don't be afraid to start, only through the difficulties at the beginning can we have a leap of evolution; Don't be afraid of ending, all endings are a new beginning. In the end, we will find that life is like a circle, and the end is also the starting point. Don't expect too much, what you get will eventually be lost; Don't fear too much, it is always you who can dominate you.
wealth is a deposit, you can't take it away; Honor is a bright light, you can't keep it; Success is a fruit, you can't taste it all the year round; Life is a process, you can't stop it. Everyone has life, but not everyone can read life; Everyone has a brain, but not everyone makes good use of it. Only those who love life, are good at thinking, and do good deeds can be regarded as truly having life.
it is wise to find your own mistakes; The ability to correct one's mistakes is the ability. We should pay more attention to our own shortcomings in order to constantly correct our mistakes; It is necessary to find out more about the advantages of others in order to integrate them into one. Don't be too hard on yourself, there is no perfection in the world, as long as you get over it, everything is perfect; Learn to be kind to others' shortcomings. Your kindness and tolerance are also a perfect part of you in others' eyes.