"Cai Gen Tan": A gentleman who deceives good deeds is no different from a villain.
Original text: A gentleman's deception of good deeds is no different from the wickedness of a villain; a gentleman's change of conduct is not as good as the villain's reformation.
Translation: There is no difference between a hypocrite who pretends to be kind and a villain who has no scruples, does whatever he wants, and does evil; a gentleman who changes his lofty aspirations and good conduct is not as good as a man who can repent and make a new start. villain.
An ancient saying goes: "The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, but the friendship between villains is as sweet as wine." The interactions between gentlemen should not be driven by interests, but the interactions between villains are mostly driven by interests. After the interests are over, the relationship between people is like a passing cloud.
What is a gentleman? The so-called gentleman is a person with noble personality and good moral conduct.
The beauty of a gentleman is not the evil of a man. A gentleman is magnanimous, while a villain is always concerned. A gentleman does something and refrains from doing something.
Confucius once said: There are four things a gentleman does not do.
First, a gentleman should not act rashly, but he must act in a proper way.
What a gentleman says must be justified. A gentleman must be cautious in his words and deeds. He must be courteous in everything he does. His actions must have their intentions.
Second. A gentleman does not speak empty words, but his words must be reasonable.
A gentleman should not say anything inappropriate, be tight-lipped, and never say empty words. Not saying what you should say is a disgrace to others; saying something when you shouldn't say it is a faux pas.
Third, a gentleman is unscrupulous in his demands, and his demands will be justified.
A gentleman cherishes his reputation, is restrained in his desires, does not seek things that do not belong to him, does not rob, and does not add insult to injury.
Fourth. A gentleman does not act in vain, and his actions must be righteous.
A gentleman's words and deeds will not be taken casually, but will be carefully considered. A gentleman's behavior must be in line with the right path, speaking upright words and doing upright things.
Confucius said: A gentleman has nine thoughts.
The so-called nine thoughts include seeing and thinking, listening and thinking, thinking about warmth and appearance, thinking about respect and loyalty in words, thinking about respect in actions, thinking about doubts and questions, thinking about anger and difficulty, and thinking about meaning after seeing.
Who is more hateful, the hypocrite or the true villain?
A hypocrite is one who appears to be decent and noble, but gives in at every turn, and is able to endure and maintain his grace. In fact, he is a hypocritical, renegade, and unscrupulous person. Yue Buqun has the reputation of "gentleman's sword", but in fact he is a hypocrite.
A real villain is a person with low moral character who cheats and does anything. People do things by hook or by crook, without any bottom line.
The real villain is hateful, and the hypocrite's sweet talk and secret sword are even more hateful.
My thoughts after reading "A gentleman cheating on good deeds is no different than a villain." Let us understand some truths: A philosopher has no worries, and a wise man is always happy. A true villain is easy to hide, but a hypocrite is difficult to guard against. The greatest tragedy in life is to turn new love into old love, and turn impulse into habit.
Hello everyone! I am your good friend: Nie Feng, the sincere and kind man. Be a kind person, do sincere things, stay away from true villains, and don't be hypocrites.
Don’t be too hypocritical in your life. If you are true, I will be true. If you are false, I will turn around. The so-called growth means that a person is staggering and injured, and a person is strong after stumbling.