1. Never let any man be the whole of your life. Understand that the more you invest, the more you lose.

2. Don't give up your personality for any man. In fact, it's not that you can make him feel how good you are by accommodating him. On the contrary, men prefer women with their own personality.

3. Never give up your career for love. It's very simple. Choose love. Once love is gone, you have nothing. Choose a career. Even if love is gone, you can still earn money to support yourself and have your own life.

4. Don't try to cling to a man's life, no one will keep eternal enthusiasm for parasites.

5. Don't ask for too much. If you love him, you should cherish his harvest and make plans for your future. If you don't love him, you will leave him sooner or later, so don't give him a chance to say in front of others that you are only greedy for his money after breaking up.

6. Don't compromise and forgive when your love meets a third party. You know, some things can be forgiven, but some things are lifelong scars.

7. Don't care so much about the details of life. You know, most men, especially children, need your care.

8. Don't stubbornly persist when you find that your love is gone. Sometimes, letting go is not only to give him freedom, but also to give yourself a chance to live.

9. Don't think that anyone can't live without you. You know, your life comes from your parents. Except for them, no one is worth your life, and your parents only want you to be happy and safe.

1. Don't spend all your money on him. Women should be better to themselves.

11. Don't dress yourself up for anyone or make yourself unkempt. Dress yourself up clean and beautiful every day, just for yourself.

12. Don't give up your friends and ignore your family for anyone. You know, if one day love is gone, it's these people who really support you, not the one who once pledged eternal love.

13. Don't take the world too seriously. We live in this world, and we are all actors, acting on stage and watching from the audience. Therefore, we should be serious when acting, but not when watching.

14. Don't always use tears to impress and retain. Sometimes your tears backfire. Smile, and you must face everything with confidence!

15. Don't underestimate yourself. Everyone has his own excellence. If he doesn't know how to cherish you, he will find someone who appreciates you. If he doesn't appreciate you, he will find someone who appreciates you! Miss this stop just because the best one is waiting for you at the next stop.

Kai-fu Lee's message to girls is dedicated to single girls:

You must find something besides love that can make you stand on the earth with your feet strong, and you must find a way to make a living. It's not too late to think about it.

I never thought that education is important. Genius is not a regular course, but it is not a regular course, and even a walk-on can't run. You must gradually turn those floating thoughts into clear ideas and simple words. Gorgeous and floating are not easy to last. You know, it's not enough to give words reading. It's content, thought, realm, soul, spirit and wisdom that matter.

Don't read the words of women writers who are just like you. Don't be trivial and disease-free. Don't write whatever comes to mind. Don't be sentimental and moved. I want you to believe the old words of warmth, beauty, trust, dignity and strength. I don't want you to be decadent, empty, confused, ruin yourself and hurt others. I don't want you to mess yourself up. Restrain one's feelings Not everyone can have it.

experiencing life is another matter, and it doesn't mean depravity and indulgence. Never agree with the coolness and otherness in disguise. They are people who have nothing to do, and they find excuses to let themselves have nothing to do. The real coolness is in the heart. You should have a strong heart.

you should have the belief that time will pass and you will not be worn and yield. It's not because I say I love the world in a tower of teeth. I know it's dark, dirty and ugly outside, but I still have to say such things.

love and live. Youth is so short, don't sigh old. You can stop to have a rest occasionally, but don't squat down and look around. When you walk a road, remember not to look back.

ask yourself from time to time what you are doing. When you are sad and wronged, you should wail. Wash your face after crying, pat your face and squeeze out a smile for yourself. Don't rub it, or your eyes will swell up the next morning.

Give yourself a great future and goal. Remember to look up at the sky often. Remember to look at your feet when you look up at the sky. Whenever anyone asks you how many times you have been in love, the answer is twice. Once he loved me and I didn't love him. I love him once, but he doesn't love me. Good love will always be next time.

don't give the same man two chances to hurt you. Believe me, there are more men than three-legged frogs. Don't say "love" easily Trust your instincts. Don't provoke other people's men unless you love him very, very much, and he is very, very worthy of love. Don't provoke a man who looks for a woman similar to his ex-girlfriend and his mother and sister. Don't provoke prodigals, young artists and middle-aged men.

don't provoke a man who is too pure. Don't be with heartless people. Don't treat being a bitch as true love. Don't be moved when a man makes himself cheap to please you. This cigarette end burns on him, and the next one may burn on you. Look at what a man's friends are like, and pay attention to the attitude of his friends towards women. Also, never trust a man who is not going to introduce you to his circle of friends. When a man is only willing to call you "baby", insist that he call your name.

when a man stops looking for you, don't look for him again. Don't trust people who use means in love. Don't swear when you break up. Learn a lesson, but don't regret it. Regret is useless. Don't tear up photos, burn letters and tear up diaries, which are only done in third-rate love TV dramas. Believe in love. I believe that good men still exist, are unmarried, and are still looking for you in the vast sea of people. Don't say "men don't have a good thing", which makes others mistakenly think that you read countless words. Promise me that you will never be the kind of woman who carries luggage from one boyfriend's house to another at midnight.

love material things properly. Always know that spirit is more important. You are more beautiful than those famous watches, famous brands and fashions. Don't look down on the working people. Don't be ashamed of your labor. The land is not dirty and the sweat doesn't smell bad. Please respect those who seem to be living worse than you, because this is respect for yourself. Always sympathize with those who live at the bottom, because our relatives are among these people. We are not delicate. Don't underestimate a penny. You might as well earn it yourself.

when you are hurt by a friend, don't doubt friendship, but beware of those who betray you. Forgive, but do not forget. Be naive and childlike, and be chivalrous to your friends. Be happy, cheerful, tough and warm. This has nothing to do with personality. I'm worried that you are too low-key, and sometimes you should be tough. When you are bullied, you must get it back! But don't hold a grudge. My humble opinion, let them go. Pity will make you noble. My double C baby-Chloe & Chris authorized reprint