My son's Tsinghua University admission notice was sent by his father to the village WeChat group. I wanted to show off my son's glory in the WeChat group, but the mayor saw it.
The mayor thinks he knows how many people in this town have been admitted to famous universities, but he has never heard of anyone who has been admitted to Tsinghua!
The mayor called the cultural and educational office and found it was fake.
Knowing that his son only got 235 points in the exam, the father was very angry and was hospitalized. He also said, "My blood pressure is not as high as mine."
Some netizens quipped: "You will be satisfied if you forge at most two ordinary universities. The boy is broad-minded. I suggest that Tsinghua University make an exception and admit him. Maybe he will be a talent in the future?
The author thinks he has no other ideas. The admission notice is different from the diploma. If it's a fake Tsinghua diploma, it's different. The diploma can go out for employment, and the admission notice will not have any impact on society.
Seeing this news, I feel particularly ridiculous. Ironically, as his own parents, he doesn't know much about his son's weight. When the son said he was admitted to Tsinghua, his parents actually believed him. It is conceivable that his parents have ever participated in and cared about their son's life and study.
The answer is definitelyno. If his parents care about his son in their daily life and know more about his son's academic performance, they will not be cheated this time, and even believe that his son has been admitted to Tsinghua. His son really went to great lengths to cheat his parents and spent 3000 yuan to find someone to forge a "Tsinghua University Admission Notice". If the township cadres hadn't exposed the lies, I don't know how long they would have cheated his parents.
Perhaps the so-called "Tsinghua gifted scholar" cheated his parents more than once. It is said that he is a repeat student and his physics study at school is not ideal. But every time he goes home, he tells his parents that his academic performance is very good, so his parents always believe him and give him more pocket money when they are happy.
This time I wanted to cheat my parents, but this time it was a bit big, and my parents spent 50,000 to 60,000 to invite friends from the village to dinner. After the lie was finally exposed, he slapped his parents hard. Maybe I used to see him for many days at ordinary times. Maybe this time he was admitted to a prestigious school, and his parents will definitely give him a reward. Therefore, in order to cheat his parents' rewards, he had to confuse the real with the fake.
Children are not sensible, never consider the consequences, only for immediate interests. His parents should also reflect more, communicate more with their children at ordinary times and learn more about their lives and psychology, so that "absurd" things will not happen.
I'm brother Wu, and I'll answer.
The examinee who forged the admission notice to Tsinghua University was meant to comfort and surprise his parents, but his bluff was a bit big.
After investigation, the candidate's real score is 235, and his score can't even reach the admission score of ordinary colleges and universities. He even whimsically forged an admission notice, and it was from Tsinghua University.
Parents know that their son has been admitted to Tsinghua, thinking that their graves are full of smoke. They spent 40,000 to 50,000 yuan on dozens of banquets, and the villagers all came to pay New Year greetings. Even the village committees were full of firecrackers and gongs and drums.
The local education commission felt a little strange after learning it, because they didn't receive the relevant information and immediately came to check it. It turned out that the notice was false. His father fainted and his blood pressure rose to 220.
Candidates have good intentions. Seeing his parents working so hard, he is an only child, in high school. No one in the village has ever looked up to his family, and he pinned his parents' dreams on him. He wants his parents to have face in front of everyone.
What you didn't expect, son, was that after this incident was exposed, my parents were even more embarrassed in the village and might be laughed at for a long time.
There is a family in our village with two sons, one is Tsinghua and the other is Peking University. Their famous saying is: Tsinghua Peking University is not terrible. If you can't do it in one year, you can win it in two years.
Every day when they come home from school, both children tell their parents that the teacher praised them again today. Parents praised their children as "college prospects" to their neighbors.
In every exam, their scores are single digits. The two brothers added a "9" before the score and took it home to show their parents. Parents will praise them. Later, my grades got worse and worse, and I went home before I finished primary school.
@ 丫丫丫丫丫丫丫丫丫 wants to say: 360 lines, the line is the champion. It's good to be admitted to the university, but it's no shame not to be admitted. Without wisdom, it is difficult to eat wisdom. Nothing can starve people to death.
Parents should not expect too much from their children, just try their best. Always contact the teacher to know the real situation of the child.
I am the fifth brother who talks about emotions, focuses on emotional fields and tastes the true feelings of the world.
What's your comment on this matter?
It is reported that the candidate spent 3,000 yuan on forging the notice, and his father spent tens of thousands on the banquet held in the whole village, which is a very expensive expense for an ordinary rural family.
The examinee got only 235 points in the college entrance examination, but for some reason he found someone to forge Tsinghua University's admission notice. After receiving the news, his father immediately hosted a banquet in the village, eager to tell the world. Who knows that the banquet was not finished, but I knew that the notice was forged and fainted on the spot.
So, what's the psychology of the candidate who forged the admission notice to Tsinghua University?
0 1. The so-called vanity satisfies one's imagination of institutions of higher learning. Tsinghua Peking University should be a place that many college students yearn for, and it is the top two universities in China. Being admitted to these two universities not only represents a strong ability, but also half the success in life, not to mention being in a rural family, which can be called a glorious thing.
Based on this premise, many candidates have their own fantasies about Tsinghua Peking University. However, due to the large gap in their own strength, they can only satisfy their imagination in some other ways. Moreover, this is a very scenic thing in the countryside, and there is little chance of becoming a college student, let alone a college student from Tsinghua Peking University.
So this fake student does not rule out the suspicion of satisfying vanity.
02. There is also a saying about the psychology of being afraid of being blamed and wanting to meet parents' high expectations, that is, the college student originally just wanted to play tricks on his parents, but he didn't expect such consequences. This may be related to the high expectations that parents usually give. Some parents want their children to succeed. If they can't do it, they may be blamed, which will inevitably bring great pressure to children. When children can't do it, they may meet their parents' requirements in other ways. So the examinee thought of forging the admission notice.
For fun, he should also know that he sent a false notice and could not make up a lie at all. Because the next step after receiving the notice from Tsinghua is to register for school, you can cheat on the admission notice, but you can't let the whole world lie for you. So, I think this student should know that paper can't wrap fire, but why should he try? I think it has something to do with his immature mentality, which may be out of fun or arrogance.
Therefore, this case also enlightens us that lies will be exposed one day, and things that are not obtained by our own strength will eventually disappear; Secondly, when parents make demands on their children, they should also take into account the pressure on their children, communicate more, open their hearts and give practical help instead of just asking and not doing it.
The consequences of this incident are worse, because this candidate is likely to become the laughing stock of the village.
Recently, a Guangdong examinee scored 235 points in the college entrance examination, but he spent tens of thousands of dollars forging Tsinghua's admission notice. The whole village pulled banners and set off firecrackers to celebrate, and his father slaughtered pigs and sheep. Knowing that he had been cheated, he fainted and was taken to the hospital. Later, he was sent to the hospital for emergency treatment. After waking up, he checked his blood pressure of 220 and cursed: the test is not as high as my blood pressure!
Judging from the news on the internet, some exaggeration and techniques have been dealt with by the paragraph.
But forging the admission notice is really true.
Why did you forge Tsinghua's admission notice? Many netizens wondered that even if they forged the admission notice, they could not go to Tsinghua to study. Lies will be exposed sooner or later, so why take the risk?
In the father's interview, the father thought that his son was a good boy, obedient at ordinary times, and helped his parents do housework and cook. So he was shocked when he learned that he had been cheated.
His family is not rich. The candidate, surnamed Cao, is the youngest son, and two brothers and one sister are married. His parents are very busy with farm work on weekdays, so he often does housework.
From my father's discussion, we can draw the conclusion that students forged Tsinghua's admission notice:
1, to show off. Because of poor grades, forging Tsinghua admission can gain great glory.
2. reassure parents. When the college entrance examination results came out, his parents must have great expectations for him, and they didn't get much points as a result. Parents will be disappointed when they know.
3. Parents' high expectations. Parents' expectations will put pressure on their children, which may also be one of the starting points of fraud.
Parents don't care enough about their children. Why is this an oolong? I think the most important thing is that parents don't care enough about their children. As can be seen from the results of the college entrance examination, the usual grades are definitely not good.
How can a student who has always appeared as a poor student suddenly get hundreds more points in the college entrance examination?
A student with a bad junior college degree will become Tsinghua's high flyers as soon as he takes the exam.
If parents know their usual grades, they will definitely have doubts about the admission notice. But after the neighbors pointed it out, his father gradually realized that there was something wrong with the notice.
It shows that parents have big problems and don't care enough about their children.
We should actively guide them out of the shadows. Because things were exposed, students surnamed Cao couldn't sleep a few nights ago. Recently, they ran away from home and threatened to stop going to school and work. It can be known that after the incident was revealed, great pressure cast a shadow over the children.
Things have happened, and it's no use regretting what you have done. And parents should not just feel hurt and be immersed in grief. We should take the initiative to take responsibility and actively guide our children.
Parents should stand up and tell their children with a smile that mistakes are not terrible, and don't lose confidence if you don't do well in the exam.
Actively guide and get out of this shadow.
First of all, congratulations to the examinee for getting into Tsinghua with 235 points.
After the news spread that a candidate in Guangdong forged Tsinghua University's admission notice, everyone was commenting on the candidate, but before analyzing the candidate's mind, I want to say that you should not criticize the candidate too much. After all, too much public opinion will put the candidates under great pressure and may produce some unpredictable dangers!
Everyone knows the story well, so I won't repeat it. Why did the candidate tell a big lie?
The examinee is honest at home at ordinary times. All three brothers and sisters are married, and he also does housework at ordinary times, which shows that he is not bad in nature and just wants to make his father happy. But I didn't expect his father to be so happy that the whole village knew about it, and the village also celebrated the happy event. Finally, it even spread to the county education bureau. The development of things was unexpected, but he just wanted to make his father happy, which led to this result!
In fact, this candidate just wants to make his father happy, with good intentions, but in the wrong way. You don't have to attack this candidate. Instead of attacking the examinee, it is better to attack the person who illegally made the admission notice. Without this fake person, there may be no follow-up events!
Clearly only got 235 points, but forged Tsinghua University's admission notice, held a big banquet in the village and took photos with many people as a souvenir. This is a typical morbid show-off psychology. Although he thinks it may be just fun, his behavior has violated relevant laws, and he will bear criminal responsibility if he does not do well. Cao is a candidate in this year's college entrance examination. I don't know why he forged Tsinghua University's admission notice. When my father received this notice, his happy mood was naturally difficult to express. It is to kill pigs and sheep, spend tens of thousands of dollars to entertain relatives and friends, and even wear big red flowers to let Cao swim the streets.
Finally, because this incident was too big, the local education commission found that there was no such thing after investigation, and Cao's scam was exposed. Cao's father fainted on the spot after learning the truth. After waking up, I shouted: your score is not as high as my blood pressure.
As a father, he should know the level of his son, but he was carried away by the joy in front of him. As the saying goes, knowing the son is the father, what kind of achievements the son has made in his studies at ordinary times, although he can't know everything as a father, he should at least know the general situation.
How can a person who can't even pass the mock exam soar in the college entrance examination? So I think Cao's father was also carried away by happiness for a while. If you give him a few days to calm down, he may also have doubts.
Cao's behavior is a morbid show-off psychology. Although Cao has not yet entered the society, he should clearly know that such a scam will be exposed one day. But he is still addicted to it, not only perfectly cooperating with his father's celebration dinner and street preparation, but even taking photos with relatives and friends.
You know, it is a network society now, and the speed of information dissemination is very fast. Isn't he afraid that his classmates will see such news? This is easy to expose. So I think he is also a person who only cares about today and tomorrow.
Cao's behavior has been suspected of breaking the law, and may even put him in jail. Tsinghua University is a national institution, and Cao's act of forging Tsinghua University's admission notice and stamping it is also suspected of forging national official documents and seals of institutions. This kind of behavior can be given public security punishment or criminal punishment according to the seriousness of the case.
If Cao's behavior has not caused serious consequences, it can be dealt with according to Article 52 1 of the Law on Public Security Administration Punishment. Maximum administrative detention 15 days, minimum detention 5 days.
However, it is worth noting that Cao's father held a big banquet to celebrate, and it is very likely that he received a gift from the villagers during this period. This indirectly caused the economic losses of the villagers and caused certain social harm. If the circumstances are serious, criminal punishment may be given in accordance with the provisions of the second paragraph of Article 280 of the Criminal Law.
Finally, no matter what kind of psychology Cao forged Tsinghua University's admission notice, it was very naive, and Cao's parents also had an unshirkable responsibility. There are both the lack of family education and the lack of self-supervision.
Admitted to a good university can certainly bring honor to our ancestors, but such self-deception can make people laugh. I believe that Cao and his family have become the biggest laughingstock in the local area. It's a pity to inherit the wind. I believe that after this incident, the vegetation will mature and grow a lot.
It is understood that the child made this fake Tsinghua University admission notice to please his parents, but he didn't expect his father to take the notice immediately, show it off everywhere, and book a banquet in the hotel, which completely surprised the child.
It is good to want to shine the lintel, but you must work hard to get it. If you really get into Tsinghua, it goes without saying. This is indeed a very happy thing. After all, every parent wants to have a long-term dream. However, by cheating in this way, we can get temporary joy, but we bring greater losses.
The father of the child must be very happy to know that the child has been admitted to Tsinghua University. He is going to March in the streets and prepare tens of thousands of banquets. Unexpectedly, it was an own goal. We don't have to be too harsh on children's behavior, but it is really inappropriate for children to cheat and can't be condoned. Now we are just forging a letter of admission to Tsinghua University. If we want to forge other documents in the future.
In fact, on the other hand, it also shows that parents don't know much about their children's grades and have no idea about their weight. I don't know if my parents are usually negligent.
We all know an old story. A child stole a needle, then grew up and stole gold. Only when he was caught did he know that it was because his parents didn't take care of him when he was a child and he became a real robber when he grew up.
Cheating is out of children's vanity and to satisfy parents' desire for success, but this is not the right way. Only by making real efforts can parents really feel gratified.
May the children never cheat again in their later lives!
As a so-called poor student, I understand the psychology of candidates, and I feel the same way.
Although people like us have poor academic performance, we are stronger. When we see others showing off their achievements, we also envy them and want to be such a good student, which is favored by teachers and parents. Every time the final grade comes out, good students get certificates and bonuses. I can only pray silently in my heart, pretend to laugh and not care, and pretend to be calm. At this time, how much we want to be encouraged, it is possible that this kind of encouragement can change our lives.
I feel that children dare to play this risky move, which is also the result of being forced. When the results of the college entrance examination were announced, a "Tsinghua University Admission Notice" appeared in the village, and some people doubted it at that time. It was found that there was no word "take" in the middle of the admission notice. In addition, the "registration time" is also written as "registration time", and the "higher education" on the admission notice is also written as "higher education". It is estimated that the child thought that the college entrance examination was hopeless, so he thought of this step, but he didn't think much about it. He just thought it was a day and the result was a big deal. From this incident, we can also see how much pressure the China candidate has. Otherwise, can he do such a thing?
We should look at this event very rationally. I think parents have a great responsibility. As parents, how do children usually study, how many points can they get, and what kind of schools can they get into? Don't you know? Father said that the child's exam results were not as high as his blood pressure. It is said that the child scored 235 in the final college entrance examination, which is far from the admission score of Tsinghua University. Don't the villagers know about their children's usual study? As for such hype? People also put up banners and set off firecrackers to celebrate the event.
The ultimate reason should be that children can't bear too much pressure to make such extreme and thoughtless behavior. The child is too young to understand, and it is not entirely his fault. Everyone's rationality, the rationality of the media that is most needed now, can no longer be hyped. I heard that all the children have run away from home! The most important thing now is to find ways to help this child more, so that he can go on strongly and become a useful person to society. This is the most important thing!