Quiet: Men cheat on each other and allow their boyfriends to cheat. Cheating men deserve to be forgiven?
Jing Jing once said on the program that she allowed her boyfriend to have an affair, which caused great repercussions as soon as it was broadcast. Many people are beginning to wonder whether men can cheat. Is it worth being forgiven after cheating? The author thinks that cheating men are not worthy of being forgiven for the following reasons. 1, the first time you cheat, there will be a second time < P > Many women forgive when they find out that their husbands are cheating, because they want to give their children a complete family. Although all the men promised that they would never cheat again, they already knew their mistakes. However, once they are forgiven, they will think that the cost of cheating is not great, they have not lost anything, and they will not break up anyway, so they will continue to cheat unscrupulously. That's why people say that cheating is addictive. This kind of thing will happen twice the first time. Only when he truly realizes his mistakes and pays the price for his actions can he remember them. If you forgive casually, the derailed man will continue to cheat, so the derailed man is not worth forgiving. 2, unfaithful to marriage
It's not easy for two people to walk into the marriage hall, and they have come through ups and downs all the way. When I first chose to get married, I must have held the idea of staying with each other for a lifetime, but after I got married, I slowly changed my mind. When two people were together, there was no freshness, so the man chose to cheat. Cheating is a sign of disloyalty to each other. When women are working hard for this family, it is immoral for men to have someone else outside. Since men choose to cheat, it proves that they have not considered women's feelings, knowing that women will be sad when they know it, or choose to do that. Such men are not worthy of being forgiven. 3, after forgiveness, they are not happy together
Many women are soft-hearted, so they can't help but choose to forgive in the face of the man's apology. It is wrong to do this, because if you forgive them, you will not be happy together, which is equivalent to burying a bomb in your marriage life. In the future, as long as I think about it, two people will quarrel. Although the man realizes his mistake, the woman can't get past this hurdle in her heart, and the two people will be alienated. Even if you compromise for your child, you won't be happy in the future, which is not good for your child's growth, so you can't forgive the derailed man.
once a man chooses to cheat, it means that his heart is no longer in this family. He is responsible for what he has done. Not all his mistakes deserve to be forgiven, especially those who don't consider each other's feelings. ? Once unfaithful, never? This sentence is not unreasonable. If you have the first time, you will have the second time. Don't be perfect for marriage grievances. Since he didn't consider his feelings when he made a mistake, it is not worth being forgiven.