In my life, I have never taken anything I don't borrow, and I hate stealing more. Her question annoyed me a little, but I tried to stay calm and deny it.
Unexpectedly, in the next ten minutes, my mother asked me three times in a row, and I denied it with escalating anger. Seeing that she couldn't trace the result, she asked, "I remember that Qian Mingming put it here, but now it's gone." You're the only one at home except me. You must not have moved. If you take it, I don't care if you hand over the money. "
I suddenly felt insulted. Not to mention, about half a month ago, my mother claimed that I took her bus card and asked me to hand it over, but later, she found her own card and returned it to me. After getting along for many years, "I lost my axe and doubted my neighbor" happened many times at home. I think I've reached my limit today.
I fought back my anger and denied it. The matter went away. I am really angry. In order to prove my innocence, I installed a camera at home.
Bored, I told my friend about it. Some people think that I have taken the above measures many times, even a little ridiculous. But in my opinion, its existence can at least avoid potential numerous quarrels in the future, which is very worthwhile.
Some people think that my mother is kind, and her behavior is only out of a sense of urgency and should be forgiven. Yes, I have never doubted my mother's goodness, and I dare not forget her goodness. However, I also think that sometimes people who don't mean to hurt people are more hateful than those who mean to hurt people.
Because in the face of the latter, we won't have any fetters in our hearts, we just need to take appropriate and reasonable measures to punish them. But in the face of the former, there is often nothing you can do. It is precisely because such people think that they uphold the reason of "justice and rationality" that they will speak insolently and hurt others unscrupulously.
The evaluation from the third party, such as "no malice" and "unintentional loss", happens to be the amulet of the parties in the face of public opinion. If the victim expresses dissatisfaction, it will be considered to make a mountain out of a molehill and cannot be lenient; If the victim doesn't take any measures, then what awaits him is either explosion or extinction.
Since it is difficult to solve this problem, it should be the right move to take the attitude of preventing small delays and nip the problem in the bud. Although the specific measures seem ridiculous and wonderful, I have no choice but to make this decision. My motivation is simple: it hurts to be hurt by the people closest to me, and I don't want to bear it anymore.