Definition of family rules and family precepts:
It is an important part of China's traditional culture and genealogy, and it has played an important role in personal cultivation and family planning in the history of China. In ancient times, human society experienced the changes of clans, clans and families. However, these are the cornerstones of a country.
Family instruction can play a role in stabilizing social order when the country is unstable and the national laws are unclear. Because, in order to maintain the necessary legal system, the family has drawn up a certain code of conduct to restrain the people in the family, which is the earliest origin of family discipline.
Since the early Han Dynasty, family instruction works have gradually become rich and colorful with the evolution of dynasties. Genealogy records many famous sayings and aphorisms about being a parent, which has become a good strategy to manage the family and a model of "cultivating self-cultivation" and "keeping the family in order".
For example, the idea of "a porridge and a meal, when thinking is hard-won" still has positive significance today. In the genealogy, there are many detailed family instructions and rules. For future generations to follow. Among them, the most famous family instructions, such as Yan's Family Instructions and Zhu's Family Instructions, are widely known so far.
The reason why family precepts are valued by the world is mainly to advocate loyalty, filial piety and righteousness, and to teach etiquette and ethics. In addition, what is advocated and what is forbidden is also an important content in family law, such as "frugality should be respected" and "evil witches should be banned".
What are the family rules and family instructions?
1. This Code is formulated to cultivate children's good life and study habits and moral quality, enhance their independent living ability, improve their learning effect and academic performance, and strengthen their ideological and moral cultivation.
2. What can be done should be done independently, and what can be done today should not be sloppy, dependent on parents and delayed without reason.
3. Eat well, ensure comprehensive nutrition, and don't be picky about food, anorexia and eat less.
4. Keep reading for 2 hours every day.
5. To strengthen physical exercise and enhance physical fitness, the daily exercise should not be less than 1 hour (the amount of exercise can be appropriately increased in winter and summer vacations), you should not be lazy, you should not just do your favorite exercise.
6. Family dining should abide by family rules, sit well when eating, be polite to guests, don't ignore parents, elders and guests, don't play while eating, and don't waste food.
7. Share parents' worries as much as possible, don't ignore parents' feelings, and actively do something for parents. You can't refuse, and you can't talk about conditions.
8. Be filial to your parents, know how to be grateful, cherish a happy life, obey your parents' instructions, greet your parents when you go out or enter the door, never be ungrateful, never contradict your parents and make trouble without reason.
9. Learn to be grateful, grateful to those parents who are selfless and silently dedicated, grateful to all those who care, love, support and help, cherish all the true, good and beautiful things in society and nature, and hate those false and ugly bad phenomena. This is not to distinguish between good and evil.