Don’t be kidnapped by family morality.

In this world, except for the need to support parents and the need to raise children to adulthood, please do not use morality to kidnap all other relationships.

Even blood relatives, brothers and sisters, including your own children, are independent individuals when they grow up. Everyone has their own life, and you have no obligation or responsibility to pay for them. They have no right to ask you to pay anything!

Traditional education makes many people pay too much attention to their blood-related relatives, so that they ignore the feelings of their significant other, and fail to understand one thing, that is, the person who can accompany you the longest, and Who do you hang out with day and night? Our parents will leave us in a hundred years, and our children will also leave us when they grow up (those who are unlucky will also encounter unfilial children), so some people pay too much attention to blood ties and family ties, and use "blood is thicker than water" to kidnap their own lives, regardless of It is unwise to care about the interests of a small family and ignore the feelings of your loved one. To put it bluntly, what does it mean that blood is thicker than water? If we trace our human origins, then everyone in the country should be related by blood!

This is not to say that you should be indifferent, but that when dealing with relationships with relatives, you should think more about your own family and your loved ones, put your own family first, and do everything in Do this after discussing it with your significant other.

You must understand that the people closest to you should be your lover who is not related to you by blood. They are not your brothers, sisters, or your children. They are not as important as your lover. Don’t let them is more important than your significant other. Managing the relationship between husband and wife is the source of happiness in your life!

People who understand will naturally understand!