1. Judge yourself correctly before you can judge others
2. Do you cheat others or yourself? Think carefully before you answer
3. It's futile to try to convince people who don't think with their brains
4. People who think the whole world is wrong are likely to be at their own fault
5. Kindness needs appropriate language and actions to express
6. For those who are full of "others say …", ask him who "others" are. You will see his tongue-tied embarrassment
7. A wise man can do something besides doing something
8. Asking can get better results than ordering
9. No one can hurt you unless you are willing to be hurt yourself
1. Don't be afraid of unfair criticism, but know what unfair criticism is
11. Don't criticize others. Unless you know why he did it
12. If you want to be more popular, praise more and criticize less
13. Being good at asking questions makes Socrates a wise man at that time
14. What you say is as important as what you say
15. Thinking can be arbitrary. You must be careful when expressing your thoughts
16. People who are good at fishing choose the bait that fish like
17. The best way to get help is to start helping others
18. Friendship needs to be expressed frequently to last
19. Don't be too demanding of people who complain. He has made his life sad enough
2. Smiling is the first pass for interpersonal relationships
21. There will never be a winner in an argument
22. You'd better keep your mouth shut when you don't know what to say
23. Show sincere concern for what others have done and get along with anyone
24. When asking others to do something, Tell him what to do, why to do it, when to do it well, where to do it, and how to do it better
25. Smart people know when to stop talking and listen to others
26. Attitude is everything. 2. Famous sayings about communication
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If you are right, try to get the other person to agree gently and tactfully. If you are wrong, admit it quickly and enthusiastically. This is much more effective and interesting than arguing with yourself.
-Carnegie Mellon
If you have an apple and I have one, exchange with each other, and everyone still has only one apple. If I have one thought and you have one, communicate with each other, and everyone will have two or more thoughts. -Bernard Shaw, the weather is not as good as the geographical position, and the geographical position is not as good as people. "Mencius" two people are United, and their profits are broken. The Book of Changes starts with the strength of all people, and nothing can be accomplished. "Guanzi" has the same evil, the same good, the same sympathy, the same desire and the same benefit. -"Historical Records" Each of you is a piece of wood. No matter how strong a person is, if he cooperates with everyone, he will always play a greater role than one person alone. -Samuel Butler Edison: Cooperation is the mother of success. Zhuge Hei: Two heads are better than one. Language forest: one tree does not make a forest. 3. Famous sayings about communication
1. People are animals that need communication.
from [ancient Rome] Seneca: On Grace
Introduction: Seneca (about 4 -65 BC), an ancient Roman politician, Stoic philosopher, tragic writer and orator. During Tiberius's reign, he entered the officialdom, served as an imperial accountant and a veteran of the Senate, and later served as the consul of judicial affairs and the tutor and consultant of Emperor Nero.
second, it's hard to say exactly to what extent the affability in communication can impress people.
from: [ancient Rome] Cicero: On Responsibility
Introduction: Marcus Tullius Cicero (January 3rd, 16 BC-December 7th, 43 BC) was a famous politician, orator, orator, jurist and philosopher in ancient Rome.
3. In the art of communication and conversation, there is nothing people like more than paying tribute to each other or being courteous, which enables us to put aside our intentions and hobbies in front of each other and restrain and hide the natural self-righteousness and arrogance in people's hearts. A good-natured person, if well-educated, will be polite to everyone, without any prior calculation, nor for any benefit.
From: [Britain] Hume: On the Rise and Progress of Art and Science
Introduction: David Hume (April 26, 1711-August 25, 1776), an agnostic philosopher, economist and historian in Scotland, is regarded as one of the most important figures in the Scottish Enlightenment and the history of western philosophy.
fourth, people's primary responsibility is to speak, which is the main job in life.
from: [UK] Stevenson: The Talk and the Talker
Introduction: George Stevenson was born in a small village near Newcastle, a city in northern England, in 1781. Many extraordinary events happened that year. In that year, Kang Hua, commander-in-chief of the British army, gave up Yorktown, the last British stronghold in the United States, and surrendered to Washington, the leader of the War of Independence.
5. To convince people, a word is often more effective than gold.
from: [Ancient Greece] democritus: The Pieces of Works
Introduction: democritus (Greek: Δ η μ? κριτο? , about 46~ 37 BC), was born in the commercial city of Abdallah on the coast of Thrace, a great materialist philosopher in ancient Greece, and one of the founders of the theory of atomic materialism (first put forward atomism (everything is made up of atoms)). 4. What are the famous sayings about "communication"
If you want to be a good conversationalist, first be a person who pays tribute and listens.
-Carnegie
Silence is a philosophy of life and an art when used properly.
-Zhu Ziqing
The art of talking is the art of listening and being listened to.
-Hertzritt
Defending a fault often makes it seem particularly serious, just like mending a small hole with a piece of cloth, but shattered glass is the same.
-Shakespeare
Everyone needs someone to talk openly with him. Although a person can be very brave, he can also be very lonely.
-Hemingway
An argument may be a shortcut between two hearts.
—— Ha Ji Bolun
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Unwilling to reason is stubborn; He who can't reason is a fool; Dare not reason is a slave.
—— drummond
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Asking anyone for advice and telling their own pain will be a kind of happiness, which can be compared with the happiness of the unfortunate people who crossed the hot desert and received a drop of cold water from the sky (E79FA5E98193E59EE7AD9433
-Stendhal
If you are right, try to get the other person to agree with you gently and tactfully; If you are wrong, admit it quickly and enthusiastically, which is much more effective and interesting than arguing with yourself.
-Carnegie
We always focus on internal communication and forget external communication with customers.
-mcfarlin
Listening to each other's opinions or comments is respect, because it shows that we think the other person is insightful, eloquent and clever, and vice versa, dozing off, walking away or gossiping is contempt.
-Hobbes
Proper use of words is extremely powerful. Whenever we use the right words ... our mind and body will undergo great changes, just between lightning and Shi Huo.
-Mark
One must know what to say, one must know when to say it, one must know who to say it to and one must know how to say it.
-Drucker
Talking with people once is often more enlightening than working behind closed doors for many years. Ideas must be produced in communication with people, but processed and expressed in loneliness.
-lev tolstoy
The ideal friend is someone who admires each other in temperament, communicates with each other in mind, is in tune with each other in world outlook and has the same career goals.
-Zhou Hanhui
Unless you ask questions, you won't hear bad news about your company. It's easy to hear good news, but you have to dig to get bad news.
-Thomas J. Watson, Jr.
If you want to change your life, you must choose words carefully, because these words can make you excited, enterprising and optimistic.
-Anthony Robbins
Everyone knows that listening is important for communication ... but few organizations listen carefully to their employees and their customers.
-William Nichols
Dale Carnegie (November 24, 1888-November 1, 1955) is a famous American master of interpersonal relationship, the father of American modern adult education, the founder of western modern interpersonal relationship education, and is regarded as the greatest spiritual mentor and success master in the 2th century.
Dale Carnegie uses the stories of a large number of ordinary people's continuous efforts to achieve success, arouses the fighting spirit of countless people who are lost through speeches and books, and inspires them to achieve brilliant success. His book The Weakness of Human Nature, published in 1936, has been regarded as one of the bibles of social skills by the western world for 7 years. He founded Carnegie training class in 1912 to teach people interpersonal communication and stress management skills. 5. famous sayings and aphorisms about communication ~
If you are right, try to get the other person to agree with you gently and skillfully; If you are wrong, admit it quickly and enthusiastically. This is much more effective and interesting than arguing with yourself.
-Carnegie America
Zi Gong asked: Who has a word and can do it all his life? Confucius said: forgive me, don't do to others what you don't want!
I think it's most important to socialize with others. As long as you pay more attention to the details of your life, you should communicate with others with your heart. I suggest you read more books about interpersonal relationships.
Take three sentences with you: smiling is a virtue; Prepare a gift for those who have helped you; Do not stay too long for a flower.
winks are commonly used by women to supplement their opinions about a man.
-Dumas method
Find yourself and keep your true colors.
-Dale Carnegie Beauty
Try to understand others instead of scolding them; Try to put yourself in others' shoes-why do they do this? This is much more beneficial and interesting than criticizing and blaming, and it makes people feel sympathy, patience and kindness. See details
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When you advise others, no matter how good words are, they will be useless if you don't take into account others' self-esteem. Look at the details
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It is impolite to interrupt a fool and make him shut up, but it is cruel to let him go on. Look at the details
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It is a nature to tell others about yourself; Therefore, it is a kind of education to take seriously what others tell you about themselves. Look at the details
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Solar energy takes off your coat faster than wind; A kind and friendly way is easier to change others' minds than any violence. Look at the details
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If you are right, try to get the other person to agree with you gently and skillfully; If you are wrong, admit it quickly and enthusiastically. This is much more effective and interesting than arguing with yourself. Look at the details
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When you think about what you are going to say, act polite, because it will buy time. Look at the details
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An argument may be a shortcut between two hearts. Look at the details
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Speaking is like playing a harp: you need to fiddle with the strings to play music, and you need to hold down the strings with your hands to keep them quiet. Look at the details
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Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves. Look at the details
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It is a quick and simple way to impress people and an inevitable requirement to integrate their enthusiasm and experience into the conversation. If you are not interested in your own words, how can you expect others to be moved? Look at the details
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Listening to each other's opinions or comments is respect, because it shows that we think each other is insightful, eloquent and smart, and vice versa, dozing off, walking away or gossiping is contempt. Look at the details
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Silence is a philosophy of life, and when used properly, it is also an art. Look at the details
[Interpersonal Communication | Communication] 6. Famous sayings of communication
If you are right, try to get the other person to agree with you gently and skillfully; If you are wrong, admit it quickly and enthusiastically. This is much more effective and interesting than arguing with yourself. -Carnegie beauty
winks are often used by women to supplement their opinions about a man. -Dumas method
Find yourself and keep your true colors. -Dale Carnegie Mei
Try to understand others instead of scolding them; Try to put yourself in their shoes-why do they do this? This is much more beneficial and interesting than criticizing and blaming, and it makes people feel sympathetic, patient and kind. [interpersonal communication | communication]
when you advise others, even the best words are useless if you don't care about others' self-esteem. [interpersonal communication | communication]
it is impolite to interrupt a fool and make him shut up, but it is cruel to let him go on. [Interpersonal Communication | Communication]
It is a nature to tell others about yourself; Therefore, it is a kind of education to take seriously what others tell you about themselves. [interpersonal communication | communication]
solar energy takes off your coat faster than wind; A kind and friendly way is easier to change others' minds than any violence. [Interpersonal Communication | Communication]
If you are right, try to get the other person to agree with you gently and skillfully; If you are wrong, admit it quickly and enthusiastically. This is much more effective and interesting than arguing with yourself. [interpersonal communication | communication]
when you think about what you are going to say, just act polite.