Life is like waves on the sea, sometimes ups and downs. Don't complain and don't lose heart. As long as you don't give up on yourself, you will get ahead one day! There is always sunshine after the storm! A person's life cannot be smooth sailing, and setbacks and difficulties are always inevitable. In the face of difficulties, maybe we need to turn to others and their help to help us through the current difficulties. As the saying goes, "A friend in need is a friend indeed". When you ask for help, remember that the following people should not cut themselves off, because you will only get yourself into trouble:
1. If you fall into the rain, an open gun is easier to hide than an open arrow. When encountering difficulties, those friends who usually call each other brothers disappeared one by one, and those relatives who often befriend each other are old and dead! This is not the worst thing, but the worst thing is that when we are in trouble, those friendly relatives and friends involved in money problems either come to the door to force debts or speak ill of us everywhere, hoping to force us to death!
It is true to borrow money, but in times of crisis, it is selfish to "give up who I am". It is no exaggeration to say "what goes down the mountain"! It is impossible to ask such a person to let go. When we were down and out, they no longer trusted us! They will only protect their current interests and get their money back. Everything, you can't get their pity! So, at this moment, we can only keep their feelings in mind. If you have money to pay back, you must pay back if you have no money to promise! For such fallen relatives and friends, if they make a comeback in the future and pay off their money, they will really die of old age!
2. Have both. "Flowers bloom for a hundred days, but people need a thousand days!" The wind and water turn, and a person's life is on a bumpy road. It is inevitable that we will encounter some difficulties and some hypocrites. Some people, when you are beautiful, follow you like flies, but when you are down and out, they even disappear, not only disappear, but even black you!
"Swing, fall on both sides!" If one side of you falls, they will lean to the other side of the sun. If you ask him for help, those who like have it both ways may not even let you in. After all, you are not the one who made yourself famous. Now you are down and out, and it is difficult to maintain three meals. They have the word "benefit" written on their faces, and there is no benefit to help you. Forget it! It's no use asking! The "wind" is not what it used to be. Go by yourself! How to get out of Tiantong Avenue without overcoming difficulties? The future is at your feet, arm yourself with the time to ask for help!
Keeping promises, people can't stand without faith, and a person's credit is the most basic condition for standing in the world. If a person has no credit, it is like having no soul. What's the difference between a man and a scarecrow? In life and business, honesty seems easy, but in fact, it is not that simple to implement. If you are at the bottom of your life, you should take a good look at the friends you have made, look back at the way they usually get along with you, and judge whether they are rebels. If so, break up with them decisively!
Even if you are desperate, don't look for such people because they have quality problems. They may promise to help you today, but they will change their minds tomorrow. They promised to lend you money yesterday and disappeared the day after tomorrow! Such people have no place in society. It is conceivable that there can be no reliable people around him. If you want this kind of person to help you turn over, save it. They don't even believe what they say. You still believe him. Is it stupid? For such people, don't ask for it. It's no use asking, and there is no response. It will make you more sad. When one day, if you can stand up again, don't believe such people's punctuation!
I don't know how to be grateful. When we were studying, the teacher taught us to be grateful. Even if it is not a gushing spring, it can at least be repaid as much as possible. After all, no one was born to help you. People who help you are your benefactors, especially when you are in trouble. We can draw a clear line with those who know their own goodness but don't return it and don't know how to be grateful, because a person who doesn't know how to be grateful is completely selfish!
They always think that it is necessary for others to be kind to themselves, and they will never realize that others' help is actually a kind and selfless contribution! On the contrary, they take it for granted. Such people don't know how to be grateful, let alone repay kindness! Therefore, when you are down and out, don't ask this kind of person, even if you have helped him, it is useless, because he is a selfish person, knowing his own goodness, but not repaying him. You helped him, and he has long forgotten that if you ask him for help, he may refuse directly, and even throw a sad sentence: "You were willing to help me at the beginning!" " "