Yu Dan’s classic sayings
Introduction: Yu Dan, a master’s degree in ancient Chinese literature and a doctorate in film and television, Yu Dan interpreted his interpretation of the Analects of Confucius in the "Hundred Schools Forum" for seven consecutive days. Very well received. Yu Dan won the 2015 Dangdang Influential Writer of the Year Cultural Contribution Award. Below are Yu Dan’s classic sayings that I have compiled for everyone. Welcome to read and share!
1. Be good at making friends who are happy, who can enjoy life, who are poor and happy.
2. The fewer material things there are, the easier it is for people to be confused.
3. The prerequisite for making friends is to cultivate your moral character and cultivate your character. Are you a benign element or an inert element? Ask yourself what kind of friends you will make.
4. Managing your strengths can increase the value of your life; managing your weaknesses can devalue your life.
5. Everyone has his own Da Vinci Code and finds a symbolic sustenance. Find your inner base, give yourself a little spiritual ritual every day, believe that our ideals are rooted, and let us all be quiet students in front of Confucius.
6. The more proud people are, the more they like to hide it; the more painful things are, the more they like to make a fuss about it.
7. The rule of survival at work in the 21st century is: build a personal brand and turn your name into money.
8. Sometimes the killer of marriage is not affair, but time.
9. The desolation of the spiritual environment and the waste of life energy are a waste of spiritual resources.
10. In today’s society, our pain is not that we have no choices, but that we have too many choices. This is the confusion that a prosperous era brings us.
11. Life is limited, and life has its end. Leave limited emotions where they should be used most.
12. The power of thought is one of the greatest forces in the world.
13. Opportunity is a monster. When it comes towards you, you have doubts, but when you pass by, you can never catch it.
14. Distance and independence are respects for personality, and this distance should also be maintained among the people closest to you.
15. Confucius’s four-word approach: going too far is not enough.
16. Enemies become comrades mostly for the sake of survival, and comrades become enemies mostly for money.
17. We are accustomed to our roles and perform happily in the roles.
18. On this occasion, start with self-cultivation and become a true gentleman.
19. For a person who truly advocates knowledge, his learning is for the achievement of the human soul and the ability to grasp happiness, rather than treating learning as a means of making a living or as capital to show off.
20. My father taught me that everything starts from the source.
21. To be a gentleman is to be the best version of yourself. According to your own social position, start from the side and start from today, so that you can become a perfect person in your heart. Only when you truly feel calm and calm in your heart can you not be affected by the ups and downs of life.
22. Make friends who enjoy life in peace and harmony.
23. Life is actually the barrel effect. You should never ask about your highest level. What is better about you? And your lowest level should be considered the most.
24. Our eyes look too much outside and too little inside. Expand the world infinitely broadly externally, and discover your heart infinitely deeply internally.
25. Real cultural classics are the kind of things that can be extremely profound, but they can also be extremely simple. Its profoundness is its spiritual connotation, and its simplicity is its surface form. Simplicity and profundity are sometimes not contradictory.
26. The most important time is now; the most important thing is what you have to do right now; the most important person is the person who needs your help. Realism and idealism are beliefs born from the earth. Idealism is not professionalism; realism is not pragmatism.
27. All love in this world has the ultimate goal of coming together. There is only one kind of love that has separation as the goal, and that is the love of parents for their children. The truly successful love of parents is to separate the child from your life as an independent individual as early as possible. The earlier this separation is, the more successful you will be.
28. A genius becomes a fool if he fails!
29. The earth is moving, and a person will not be in an unlucky position forever.
30. Don’t be confused when you are forty, and don’t feel panic in your heart.
31. What kind of friends a person has directly reflects his character. To understand a person, you only need to observe his social circle, from which you can see his value orientation. This is what we often say: Birds of a feather flock together, people flock together.
32. A friend is like a book, through which the whole world can be opened.
33. Give someone a rose, and the fragrance will remain in your hands. Giving is more satisfying than receiving.
34. To be mentally strong, one prerequisite is to underestimate the gains and losses of things outside yourself. People who worry about gains and losses will not have an open mind, a calm state of mind, or true bravery.
35. With an optimistic and positive attitude, grasp the appropriateness of interaction with others, let yourself be a person who makes others happy, and let your happy heart become an energy source like sunshine to radiate to others. Warm others, let family, friends and even the wider society gain a little reason to be happy from themselves.
36. Excessive indecision is a waste of your life energy.
37. Making a good friend is creating a beautiful life. Our friends are like a mirror, we can see our own differences in them.
38. The real happiness in life is the happiness of the soul, which sometimes is not necessarily closely related to the external material life.
39. Confucius believed that it is worth advocating to repay grievances with straightness and to treat virtues with virtue.
40. Gaining something is low-level happiness, while seeking something is high-level happiness.
41. Life is like a green leaf. As time goes by, it slowly turns yellow, but its veins are still clearly visible.
42. There is a principle in communication, that is, you should always keep it very simple or even silly, so that it can be easily spread. If you make it particularly profound, , it can’t be spread. The premise of redistribution is to make it simple and stupid.
43. Many times, the judgment of a thing cannot be simply distinguished by whether it should or should not be done and whether it is good or not. When you do it and to what extent you do it will directly affect the nature of it. Both excessive and underachieving should be avoided as much as possible.
44. Everyone hopes to live a happy life, but happiness is just a feeling, which has nothing to do with wealth and poverty, but is connected with the heart.
45. True bravery is restricted and has a premise. This premise is righteousness. Bravery is sometimes expressed as inner confidence and calmness under the constraints of rationality. Bravery without moral restraint is the greatest disaster in the world.
46. A kind of light reflected in the care for every plant, every tree, every flower and every leaf.
47. Human growth requires education from four aspects: parents, teachers, books, and society. Interestingly, the latter always seems to run counter to the first three.
48. The most brilliant things turn into dullness.
49. Caring for others is kindness; understanding others is wisdom.
50. The most appropriate distance is to keep each other warm without hurting each other.
51. To become a gentleman, we must have perseverance. When we truly have some concentration and a broad realm, we are not far from being a gentleman.
52. In this world, the most important person is the person who needs your help right now. The most important thing is to do it right away. The most important moment is now, and there can be no delay at all.
53. When getting along with good friends, you should also have a certain degree of tolerance, and don't do everything.
54. Caring for others is kindness; understanding others is wisdom.
55. Caring for others is kindness; understanding others is wisdom.
56. Enlightenment is a long process. Continuous enlightenment and experience are a kind of ritual in your heart.
57. People allow a stranger to prosper, but cannot tolerate the promotion of a person around them. Because there are contrasts and conflicts of interest between people at the same level, but there are no such problems with strangers.
58. What Confucius said about the "Three Friends of Benefits" refers to: First, friends are straight, and straightness means integrity. Second, friendship and forgiveness, forgiveness means honesty. Third, friends who are well-informed are those who are well-informed.
59. Happiness has nothing to do with poverty and is connected with the heart.
60. The ignorance of childhood is lovely, the ignorance of youth is ridiculous; the ignorance of youth is pitiful; the ignorance of middle age is deplorable, and the ignorance of old age is sad.
61. The standard of a gentleman: a kind person, a noble person, and a person who is easy to get along with.
62. If we want to make good friends, we must first have a loving heart, be willing to get close to others, and be willing to make friends; secondly, we must have the ability to discern.
63. Modern marriage is the product of emotion and the crystallization of competition.
64. The power of a gentleman is always the power of action, not the power of words.
65. A villain is a person who does not have a broad vision and seizes the advantage in front of him.
66. What Confucius said about the "Three Friends of Losers" refers to: First, friends are those who like to flatter and flatter others. Second, friendly and soft, that is, "two-faced". Third, friendly and sycophant, that is, people who exaggerate and boast.
You must never make friends like this, otherwise you will pay a heavy price.
67. A friend is someone who is clear and rational and keeps you away from danger, and is an open-minded and magnanimous person who makes people happy.
68. A person has two eyes, both of which are parallel, so he should look at people equally; his two ears are on both sides, so he should not listen to one side of the story; although a person has only one heart, However, there are two hearts, left and right, so when doing things, you must not only think about yourself, but also think about others.
69. A gentleman who is great will help the world, but a poor man will be good for himself.
70. This world is neither the world of the rich nor the world of the powerful. It is the world of the thoughtful.
71. Confucius’ cautionary words: It’s like walking on thin ice when facing an abyss.
72. Everyone’s life will inevitably have shortcomings and dissatisfaction. Maybe we are unable to change this fact, but what we can change is the attitude towards these things. In a sense, what a person has in his mind is what he sees.
73. When misfortune strikes, the best way is to let it pass as soon as possible, so that you can free up more time to do more valuable things, and you will live a more fulfilling life. Efficiency and a better mood.
74. Bravery without moral restraint is the greatest disaster in the world.
75. A good friend is a book that can open up a world and create a good life; a friend is a mirror that can reflect your own reflection. Tolerance is the most profound virtue in the world.
76. 6. Idealism and realism are our heaven and earth.
77. A gaffe means accidentally telling the truth.
78. There are too many choices, so I feel trapped.
79. Go to nature. Don’t pursue material luxury, pursue spiritual luxury.
80. It is not advisable to repay vengeance with vengeance, nor is it advisable to repay vengeance with kindness. You use unworthy kindness to face people and things that have failed you. This is also a waste of life.
81. Learning should be increased, pride should be reduced, opportunities should be multiplied, and laziness should be eliminated.
82. Our eyes always look too much at the outside world and too little at the soul.
83. In my opinion, whether it is Zhuangzi or Confucius, all the theories of ancient sages and sages that apply to individual life have only one purpose, which is to maximize people’s happiness. As long as you feel in your heart If you are awake, full, and have a sense of happiness, then I think this is one of the meanings of sages.
84. When you have nothing more to lose, that’s when you start to gain.
85. Let go if you can, be tolerant and leave yourself a vast ocean and sky.
86. All external forms are for inner settlement.
87. Today we are all talking about avoiding the waste of resources, but we ignore the desolation of the soul and the waste of our own life energy.
88. When the soul is filled with gains, it will eventually become tired of gains and become a hidden pain in life.
89. It is easy for Chinese people to imitate Americans, but it is difficult for Chinese people to imitate Chinese people.
90. There is a kind of person who only does two things: if you succeed, he will be jealous of you; if you fail, he will laugh at you.
91. Being obedient means being compassionate, understanding and tolerant of others. The state of loneliness and defeat.
92. Choosing a friend is choosing a way of life. The kind of friends you can make depends on what kind of mind you have and what kind of qualities you have; whether you are a benign element or an inert element, harmful or beneficial in your circle of friends.
93. If people live by eating, then the food is not called rice, but feed.
94. Do what you want without going over the rules.
95. We often hear people complaining about social injustice and the difficulties of life. In fact, instead of blaming others, it is better to reflect on ourselves. If we can really grasp the situation, be cautious in our words and deeds, be courteous to the world, and cultivate our moral character, we will have fewer worries, and we will naturally understand how to behave in the world.
96. The power of faith is enough to unite a country.
97. Standing at thirty is to build spiritual confidence. It is a spiritual standard. Clear and introspective, confident and firm. ?Li? refers to what you do in your life and what standards you hold it by.
98. When a woman likes a man, she hopes to hear lies; when a woman hates a man, she hopes to hear the truth.
99. Let your own happiness become an energy source to illuminate the world, warm others, and give our loved ones a reason to find some comfort in ourselves.
100. Technology is never the ultimate guarantee, and people’s rationality to avoid danger is the most fundamental prerequisite.
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