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If measured by who has more money, love is sometimes limited And the ups and downs of life are common, this time is different.
Who is richer and who is poorer is often temporary. But for men, most of them still want to be richer than women, otherwise they will always feel that they have no face.
Of course, it would be better if the woman's money was not used. If you live by the woman, you will be psychologically unbalanced.
However, some men don't mind such a situation. They hope that the girlfriend or wife they are looking for has good family conditions and she will earn a lot of money herself.
In this way, earning less does not affect the quality of life, nor do you worry that life will be difficult. I even take the woman's money for granted. I may be mediocre.
Although talking about money hurts feelings, we have been in love and married for a long time, and we have to face the problem of money in order to implement our life.
So when you meet a girlfriend or wife who is richer than yourself, what kind of attitude does a man need to be correct? What do you think of a man's personality and three views in the face of this problem?
This can also be seen in the words of a gun. Because he has to put all his property into the operation of the company, his partner is worried that he is too poor to buy pants, so it is better to remind him to save some money to get married.
The gun asked his childhood, "If I have no money in the future, will you still be with me?" Tong Nian said "yes" without hesitation, and then said "I support you", and repeatedly explained that he can still make a lot of money in this business.
Han said, "I see, you will be a little rich woman in the future, but I can't raise a big man, so give me some face ..." Then I shaved my nose.
This attitude is the correct attitude that men should have. A person can be poor, but he believes that he is temporary and has fighting spirit.
Even if you are poor, you will work hard to earn, work hard and fight hard. You won't really feel comfortable letting a woman support you, and then you can enjoy everything and be confident.
In fact, this attitude is enough. If he earns less than women for a while, that's not a problem.
As long as he is making money, he won't stop. He doesn't think his woman is rich, so he doesn't have to work too hard or be afraid. This is the right character and the right point of view.
In fact, both women and men should have such awareness. Even if the other person has money and can support himself, there is nothing to worry about. He should realize his own value and do something to make money by himself.
Earn more and earn less is the second. You should have an attitude and take action, otherwise the people who support you can support you for a while and all your life, even if you are afraid of complaining.
Men, in particular, have been "nurtured" by women for a while, which is called helping you too much. If you keep them all your life, it's called eating soft rice, which is not pleasant to listen to, and it's not just a matter of face, but will ruin them.
Live, speak out, do something useful for the society, speak out, do something useful for the family, or share the responsibility. If you do nothing, it will become a moth.
Moreover, men are born with a weak psychological and sense of responsibility to protect women, which makes them feel stressed, but at the same time they feel motivated and feel that they are family.
So even if their women can make money, men with dignity know that they need to work harder.
Therefore, when looking for a boyfriend to find a husband, you can look at his attitude and responsibility to make money instead of how much money he has.
Poverty is not terrible. What I am afraid of is that I have no ambition and sense of responsibility. If he wants to take advantage of women everywhere and make them pay more, then such a man should forget it.
He not only wants to sit back and enjoy success, but also doesn't love you. Because any man who loves you will want to be a man in front of his own woman.
A real man is not afraid of hardship, fatigue, failure, and will not stop working hard, let alone let his woman support himself or even the whole family.