indeed, one should not be arrogant. With pride, people tend to be pretentious, think that they are capable and superior to others, thus being arrogant. This is a harbinger of his future failure. With arrogance, when the words of praise and flattery come at him when he succeeds, he will be on cloud nine, unable to listen to criticism and advice, unable to distinguish between true and false and right and wrong, and eventually fail. For such people, success is tantamount to "poison".
but if you do it, you should have "pride" without "pride". What is pride? That is, you should have ambition, self-confidence and indomitable character. The road of life is bumpy, failures and setbacks will come at any time, and cold eyes and satire will follow. Do you treat these things as "your own lack of talent" and never recover? Or are you not afraid of ridicule, looking for reasons and facing difficulties? It depends on whether there is "pride". Self-confidence is the first step to success. People with pride and confidence are not discouraged after failure. On the contrary, they will continue to explore on a new basis.