1. Verses that warn others not to bully others too much

1. Good people are bullied, and good horses are ridden.

"Good people are bullied." ", Ma Shan is ridden by others" is often used to encourage people to have the courage to fight and not to be too honest; it is also used to express that one cannot be bullied.

2. Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you

Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you, from "The Analects of Confucius - Chapter 24 of Wei Ling Gong Chapter". Quotations from the ancient Chinese thinker and educator Confucius. If you don't want to be treated like this by others, don't treat others that way either.

What this sentence reveals is an important principle in dealing with interpersonal relationships. What Confucius said is that people should treat others based on their own behavior. People should have a broad mind and never be narrow-minded when dealing with others. Instead, they should be magnanimous and tolerant. If you force others to do what you don't want, it will not only damage the relationship with others, but also make things stalemate and get out of hand. This principle should indeed be adhered to in interactions between people. This is a reflection of respecting others and treating others equally. In addition to paying attention to your own existence in life, you must also pay attention to the existence of others. Everyone is equal. Do not do to others what you do not want to do to others.

Extended information:

If you are kind, you will be bullied. It is too simple and will be laughed off by others. It is too impetuous and can easily arouse the resentment of others. If you do it, you may not lose. Do it. If you don't, you may not win. The world is so cold and you have no choice.

If you are kind to the wrong person, your conscience will be lost. If you are kind to the right person, you may not be able to find yourself in trouble next time. The word kindness took a few seconds to write down, and destruction only takes a moment.

Kindness comes to an end, and regret comes quickly. Kindness has its limitations. When you fail, you slowly discover that you are just yourself. Your sincerity to accompany you hurts your sincerity, and you miss a fate and a life.

People can’t be too kind, because people only pick on the weak. If you are too generous and tolerant in everything, others will not appreciate you, but will become worse. People should have a temper. Being too kind will make you lose your own value and dignity. Being too kind is also a kind of stupidity. Remember a saying: A good man will be bullied by others, and a good horse will be ridden by others. Everything is done in moderation. If you are too kind, you will lack the heart; if you are too humble, you will be weak.

Reference material: Sogou Encyclopedia - Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you 2. Poems that advise people not to get angry easily

Books from thousands of miles are just like walls

So why not let him have three feet?

The Great Wall is still there today

Missing Qin Shihuang

The story of Liuchi Alley

During the Qing Dynasty, There is a famous family in Tongcheng, Anhui. The father and son are prime ministers for two generations and are very powerful. This is the Zhang family, Zhang Ying and Zhang Tingyu, father and son.

During the Kangxi period of the Qing Dynasty, Zhang Ying served as a bachelor of Wenhua Palace and a minister of the Ministry of Rites. The old house in his hometown of Tongcheng is adjacent to the Wu family. There is an open space between the two houses for transportation between the two parties. Later, the neighbor Wu family wanted to occupy this passage when building a house. The Zhang family did not agree, and the two parties filed a lawsuit with the county government. The county magistrate considered that both parties to the dispute were from prominent official positions and well-known families and did not dare to settle it easily.

During this period, the Zhang family wrote a letter to Zhang Ying, a high official in Beijing, asking Zhang Ying to intervene in the matter. After Zhang Ying received the letter, he believed that he should be humble to his neighbors and wrote four sentences in his reply to his family:

A letter from a thousand miles is only a wall,

Why not give him three feet?

The Great Wall is still there today,

Qin Shihuang was nowhere to be seen.

After reading it, the family members understood the meaning and took the initiative to give up three feet of space. Upon seeing this, the Wu family was deeply moved and moved to give up the Sanchifang base, thus forming a 6-foot alley. The courteous behavior of the two families and the Zhang family's practice of not using power to overwhelm others are legendary.