If the eyes are the windows of a person's soul, then language expression should be the brand spokesperson in the depths of the soul. After all, in the communication link, their language expression actually mainly shows their deep thoughts and intentions. A person's language characteristics are always straightforward. Maybe he didn't notice his own language, but it still unconsciously showed her initial heart. Therefore, to judge a person's character, we must know how to listen to her words, especially those "spoken words" that frequently appear, which are more likely to expose a woman's true character. Those four "verbal" people who often talk about it are not reliable at all and are not worthy of your deep friendship!

0 1 "Why?"

Being with people is the most afraid of being petty. If a person haggles over every ounce in his daily life and always thinks that others owe him, it will be difficult for him to gain a foothold in society. People who often say "why" are mostly indifferent. When I need help, I usually turn to me for help. But suppose you ask him for help, they will use these three words against you. The word "why" is too cold to be merciless. People who often say these three words are not big-minded and always cut off their personal relationships unconsciously, so they are untenable in today's society.

02 "What's it to you?"

Man is a gregarious animal. Since everyone has stepped into the society, we should help each other and live in groups. But some people don't understand the true meaning of life and always think that even a person can live well.

Most people who often say "none of your business" are fickle and can be said to live with temperament. They are unconventional, whether you have good intentions or not, and give him some advice on his daily life, you may make this your home. Most people who say this sentence have great personality and unconventional style. They shut out those who try to help and participate in their own lives. In the long run, there will be more and more people around me.

03 "Next time ..."

In daily life, people really hear a lot of such words. After every party, there are always people who will think about what I will do next time, but only a handful can really put it into practice. Some people regard "next time" as a polite word, but never think it represents service commitment and credibility. Most of these people who often say "next time" are habitually perfunctory and have long ignored their credibility. People who say these words are mostly social people who communicate every day. They are in the sinister center of social development and their interests are paramount. Most of them are out-and-out egoists, and nothing can tempt them.

04 "Tell you a secret of xxx"

Secrets are the only way to make the relationship between two people closer and closer. Sometimes, when we have the same person we don't like, the process of two people teasing the third person together can make the relationship between the two people heat up rapidly. Sharing secrets represents self-exposure, which can make others feel your sincerity and make two people feel closer to each other, which is very conducive to promoting the rapid development of feelings.

However, secrecy can also destroy a relationship, because in all interpersonal relationships, the way others treat you is not what kind of person you are, but what kind of person the other person is and what kind of things he will do. A person who likes to share secrets with you must be a person who can't keep secrets strictly. In other words, he is likely to reveal the secrets of many people, including you. Therefore, try not to trust those who like to share other people's secrets with you. People who disclose other people's privacy like that can't make friends.