Don't be eager for quick success and instant benefit, and don't be greedy for petty advantages. Speed can't achieve the goal, and greed for small profits can't be a big deal.
2, be cautious to the end, there is no failure. -"Lao Zi" Chapter sixty-four
Seriously to the end, just like at the beginning, there will be no failures and mistakes.
3. When you want to go to the stadium. -Zeng Guofan
When you are proud on the court, remember that when you are frustrated off the court, don't get carried away and stick to your duty.
4, the stone is awkward, turning blunt into profit. -Liu Yuxi's "Stone Fu"
Use stones to sharpen, turn blunt objects into sharp weapons, and a person will become stronger after tempering!
5. If you are poor, you will think about change, and you will not fall into the clouds. -Wang Bo's Preface to Wang Tengting
Although the situation is difficult, we should be more ethical and never give up our lofty aspirations.
6. Only those who give in to themselves can get along in the crowd, and a good winner will meet the enemy. He who wants to keep serving does not dispute, and he who wants to keep enjoying is self-sufficient. -Li Bangxian's Deliberate Miscellaneous Words
Only those who know how to stretch music can get along well with others; Anyone who tries to be brave and aggressive will meet his opponent, and you can't shine.
7. People can control themselves and sleep well without being bullied. -Ma Zhiyuan's "Yueyang Tower"
People who can control themselves will not have disasters, and they will naturally sleep without conscience.
8. Learning is like getting on a boat. You can't slow down. -Zhu
Reading is like driving a water boat. You can't relax your oars. You should always be careful, or you will go upstream!
9. People with lofty aspirations in ancient times not only had extraordinary talents, but also had unswerving ambitions. -Su Shi's On Chao Cuo
Since ancient times, people who can do great things have not only extraordinary talents, but also perseverance.
10, jade is ground into many tools, and it depends on the sky when the sword is pulled out and buried. -Wang's "Miscellaneous Poems of the Tang Dynasty".
Rough jade will eventually become a beautiful object after carving, and a long sword will become a sharp sword after the baptism of time.
2. The famous epigram about restraint is 1, which confuses morality with clever words and big plans with small sufferings. -The Analects of Confucius Wei Linggong in the Spring and Autumn Period.
Vernacular: Sweet words can corrupt virtue. Small things that cannot be tolerated will ruin big things.
Patience is the foundation of all wisdom. -Plato, ancient Greek philosopher
Every time you restrain yourself, it shows that you are stronger than before. -Gorky, writer of the former Soviet Union
People can't set their own interests as the axis of rotation like the earth. -Bacon, a modern mathematician
He who can control his own soul will always be called the conqueror of conquerors. -Proteus, France
6. He who conquers himself is the greatest winner. Beecher, American writer
7. The power of human beings has increased in all fields, but the power of self-restraint has not. -Former British Prime Minister Churchill
8. Once a man has started the battle to conquer himself, he is a man worthy of praise. -Browning, USA
9. The main advantage of human beings is that they can resist the impulse of nature. British writer john johnson.
10, people who know how to control themselves automatically at the right time are smart. Hugo, French writer
3. A saying about learning to control Fu Shan is well said: When anger is boiling, it is difficult to control it, unless "the brave in the world" can't.
There is an old saying in China, "A little tolerance leads to great mischief." If you want to be as angry as the other person, you have to think about the consequences of this outbreak, and you have to end yourself and overcome yourself, no matter how strong this self-control is.
Sean, a famous minister in the early Han Dynasty, met something when he went out to study. One day, he went to Xiapi Bridge and met an old man sitting there in coarse clothes. When he saw Sean coming, he deliberately left his shoes under the bridge and said to Sean, "Boy, go down and pick them up for me!" Sean was shocked and wanted to get angry. Because he is an old man, he tried to pick up his shoes under the bridge.
The old man said, "Put your shoes on for me." Sean thought that since he found the shoes, he should do a good deed and kneel down to put the shoes on the old man.
The old man put it on and left with a smile. After a while, he came back and said to Sean, "You are a young man who can teach."
So I invited Sean to meet again. The old man later taught Sean the art of war, which eventually made Sean a good minister.
The old man visited Sean to see if he had the self-control to endure humiliation. With this kind of cultivation, "I wish my son could teach" can take on a big responsibility, deal with complex interpersonal relationships and arduous things, be calm and calm when things go wrong, know where the fortunes are, and not be impulsive.
We should pay attention to this kind of cultivation, restraint, patience, and treat people and things we meet. The younger brother of Lou Deyi, the prime minister of the Tang Dynasty, is going to take office in the Governor's Office on behalf of the country. Before he left, Lou Deyi said to his younger brother, "I don't have much talent. I am now the prime minister. Now that you have state officials, you get more, which will cause others' jealousy. "
How to treat it? His brother replied, "If someone spits on my face in the future, I won't say anything, just wipe it myself." Teacher Lou said, "This is what I am worried about.
The man spat at you because he was angry, and you wiped it off. This is an outlet to resist the man's anger. I'll do it without wiping my mouth. I might as well accept it with a smile. "
Brother Lou's words are a metaphor, not a joke, which means to be patient, to make concessions, and not to "point the needle at the wheat" with each other. Otherwise, it will further irritate each other, intensify contradictions and bring more serious consequences.
A story happened in France: Alain Martti, a policeman in Tabu, a small town in southwest France, came to the front of a tobacco shop in the city center that night in casual clothes. He is going to the store to buy a pack of cigarettes.
At this time, a tramp named Eric outside the shop asked him for a cigarette. Marty said he was going to buy cigarettes.
Eric thinks Marty will give him a cigarette after he buys it. When Marty came out, homeless people who had drunk a lot pestered him for cigarettes.
Marty didn't give it, so they had a fight. With the escalation of mutual abuse and ridicule, the two gradually became excited.
Marty took out his badge and handcuffs and said, "If you don't behave yourself, I'll give you some color to see see." Eric retorted, "You bastard policeman, what can you do to me?" Stimulated by words, the two scuffled.
The people next to them quickly separated them and advised them not to be so angry about a cigarette. After being persuaded to open, the tramp went to a nearby path and swore. As he walked, he shouted, "smelly policeman, come and arrest me if you have the ability!" " Angry and angry, Marty pulled out his gun and rushed over and fired four shots at Eric. Eric fell in a pool of blood ... The court sentenced Marty to "intentional homicide" and he will serve 30 years in prison.
One man died and one man went to prison. The cause is a cigarette, and the culprit is uncontrollable excitement. In life, we often see that the parties can't restrain themselves, which leads to quarrels, fights and even bloody conflicts.
Sometimes just because you stepped on my foot, a word is inappropriate, and there will be conflicts. Grab a seat on the subway and get crowded on the bus, which may be the fuse to set off a war of words or a fist drill.
In social security cases, quite a few cases happen because the parties can't handle things calmly. Everyone has worldly desires, and it is inevitable that they will be emotional, angry and angry when they encounter bad external stimuli. This is an instinctive and psychological reaction for people to protect themselves.
But this kind of excitement should not be indulged, because it may make us lose our cool and reason and make us act rashly. Therefore, when we encounter things and face interpersonal contradictions, we should learn to exercise restraint and learn to be patient, not just like twisting a gun. As the saying goes, swallow your pride and take a step back.
4. What are the old sayings of "forbearance"?
Since it has shrunk, although thousands of people have left. -"Mencius" Mencius 2. Wu Ge, Zhi Zhi, Zheng Xin, sincerity, self-cultivation, family planning, ruling the country and leveling the world. -"University"
3. Self-denial is benevolence. -Disciples and Re-disciples of The Analects of Confucius
4. Maintain justice and get rid of human desires. -Neo-Confucianism in Song and Ming Dynasties
You can learn about Zhi Zhi by learning from things. -"University"
6. when you are young, your blood gas is undecided, quit it! -Disciples and Re-disciples of The Analects of Confucius
7. A day's plan lies in the morning, and a year's plan lies in the spring. -"Augmented Sage"
8. Bodhi has no trees, and the mirror is not a stage. There is nothing, so where is the dust? -"Six Ancestors Tanjing" Six Ancestors Huineng.
9. A little tolerance is a great harm. -"The Analects of Confucius Wei Linggong"
10. Those who learn without doubt will teach those who have doubts, and those who have doubts will make progress here. -Zhu
5. Say you love me. Don't restrain ancient poetry. 1. Once the sea was difficult for water, amber 2 forever. I know this love will not have any result, but it can comfort my soul! .
-Li Shangyin's Untitled Six No.3' 3. The belt is getting wider and wider, and I don't regret it. -Liu Yong's "Wu Fengqi" 4. It seems that this star was not exposed for whom last night.
-Huang Jingren's "Two Poems of Love" 5. The sky is not old, and the love is hard to break. The heart is like a double screen with a Qian Qian knot in it.
-Zhang Xian's Millennium 6. Falling red is not heartless, but turning into spring mud protects flowers more. -Gong Zizhen's "Ji Hai Miscellaneous Poems" 7. If we don't see each other, how can we be ruthless?
-Sima Guang's "Xijiang Moon" 8. Since the princess came out, the mirror has been dark. Thinking of a gentleman is like running water, why bother to be poor all the time?
-Xu Gan's Random Thoughts on Rooms 9. The third of Li Shangyin's six untitled songs, I know this love will not have any result, but it can soothe my heart! . 10, Jun was born before I was born, and I was old when I was born.
You hate that I was born late, and I hate that you were born early. You were born before I was born, and I was old when I was born.
Hate is not born at the same time. Hello every day. I was born before you were born, but you were born when I was old.
I am far away from you, and you are far away from me. I was born before you were born, but you were born when I was old.
Become a butterfly, look for flowers every night and live in the grass. 1 1, meet again after many years, the soul dreams and the son are the same, the heart is white, and you will live up to it for a hundred years. I heard that you love me.
12 if it weren't for the loess white bone e69da5e6ba90323133353236313032313633331333333335438+13.
Helpless beauty, not in the east wall. Use the piano instead of language. Tell me about it.
When I see Xu Xi, comfort me. Willing to match virtue with words and work together.
I can't fly, which makes me fall. 14, I want to send colored stationery, and I want to know where Su Chi is. 15, "May the southwest wind die in your arms, and may you always smile and go back to the car together." 16, long eyebrows and even Juan, slightly embarrassed; Color gives the soul and the heart is happy.
17, the sunshine is warm and the years are quiet. How dare I grow old before you come?
18, Huang Jingren's two poems about Qi Huai, one of which is like this star is not last night, and the wind shows who is standing at midnight. 19, Zhang Xianqian is not old, and his feelings are hard to break.
The heart is like a double screen with a Qian Qian knot in it. 20. Gong Zizhen's prose is not heartless, but turned into spring mud to protect flowers.
2 1, how can Sima Guang feel heartless when he meets Xijiang Moon and is there or not? 22, Xu Gan thought from the monarch easy, mirror dark rule.
Thinking of a gentleman is like running water, why bother to be poor all the time? 23. Liang Qichao's Taiwan Province Zhuzhi Ci "Acacia under the Tree" said it was acacia, but Silang hated Mandy.
24, Chen Hengke's portrait of Chunqi ... How to live with different deaths with one more shadow being the world? 25. How did a flowering tree of Xi Murong let you meet me? At my best moment, I prayed for this in front of the Buddha for 500 years, begging him to let us have a dusty relationship. 26, sunrise in the east and rain in the west, the road is sunny but sunny. 27, although my body doesn't have wings like the bright phoenix, I feel the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn, 28, a moment that should last forever, which came and went before I knew it, 29, I deeply love it, but I don't regret my homesickness. 30, I don't regret the clothes getting wider, I looked for him in the crowd. Suddenly, I turned around and the man was in the dim light. I want to know you.
33, spring outing, apricot flowers blowing all over the head. Who is younger among strangers? Full of love.
I'm going to marry him and grow old together. Even if you are mercilessly abandoned, you can't be ashamed. 34. If the relationship lasts for a long time, is it a matter of time?
-Qin Guan's "Queqiao Fairy" 35. Life and death are broad, and the child becomes a saying. Hold your hand and grow old with your son.
-Anonymous The Book of Songs.
6. Say you love me. Make yourself at home with ancient poetry. 1. Once the sea was difficult for water, it was amber forever.
I know that this love will not have any result, but it can comfort my soul! . -Li Shangyin's Untitled Six Third Songs
3, the belt is getting wider and wider, I don't regret it. -Liu Yong's Wu Fengqi
4. It seems that this star was not exposed for whom last night. -Huang Jingren's Two Poems of Love.
5, the sky is not old, I can't help it. The heart is like a double screen with a Qian Qian knot in it. -Zhang Xian's "Chitose"
6, falling red is not a heartless thing, turned into spring mud to protect flowers. -Gong Zizhen's "Jihai Miscellaneous Work"
7. If you don't see each other, how can you be ruthless? -Sima Guang's "Xijiang Moon"
8, from the monarch, dark in the mirror. Thinking of a gentleman is like running water, why bother to be poor all the time? -Xu Gan's Thinking in the Room
I know this love will not have any result, but it can soothe my heart! .
10, Jun was born before I was born, and I was old when I was born. You hate that I was born late, and I hate that you were born early. You were born before I was born, and I was old when I was born. Hate is not born at the same time. Hello every day. I was born before you were born, but you were born when I was old. I am far away from you, and you are far away from me. I was born before you were born, but you were born when I was old. Become a butterfly, look for flowers every night and live in the grass.
1 1, meet again after many years, the soul dreams and the son are the same, the heart is white, and you will live up to it for a hundred years. I heard that you love me.
12, if it weren't for the loess white bones, I would have kept you safe for a hundred years!
13, there is a beautiful woman that I can't forget. I haven't seen her for a day and I feel crazy. The phoenix flies high, and the four seas seek to burn. Helpless beauty, not in the east wall. Use the piano instead of language. Tell me about it. When I see Xu Xi, comfort me. Willing to match virtue with words and work together. I can't fly, which makes me fall.
14. Where do you know to send colorful stationery and the length of Suchi Mountain?
15, "May the southwest wind die in your arms, and may you always smile and join hands in the car."
16, long eyebrows and even Juan, slightly embarrassed; Color gives the soul and the heart is happy.
17, the sunshine is warm and the years are quiet. How dare I grow old before you come?
18, Huang Jingren's two poems about Qi Huai, one of which is like this star is not last night, and the wind shows who is standing at midnight.
19, Zhang Xianqian is not old, and his feelings are hard to break. The heart is like a double screen with a Qian Qian knot in it.
20. Gong Zizhen's prose is not heartless, but turned into spring mud to protect flowers.
2 1, how can Sima Guang feel heartless when he meets Xijiang Moon and is there or not?
22, Xu Gan thought from the monarch easy, mirror dark rule. Thinking of a gentleman is like running water, why bother to be poor all the time?
23. Liang Qichao's Taiwan Province Zhuzhi Ci "Acacia under the Tree" said it was acacia, but Silang hated Mandy.
24, Chen Hengke's portrait of Chunqi ... How to live with different deaths with one more shadow being the world?
25. Xi Murong How did a flowering tree let you meet me? At my best moment, I prayed for this in front of the Buddha for 500 years, begging him to let us have a dusty relationship.
26, sunrise in the east and rain in the west, the road is sunny but sunny.
27. However, I feel the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn, although my body has no wings like the bright phoenix.
28. A moment that should last forever has come and gone before I know it.
29, vertical is deep, but shallow, but do not regret acacia.
30. I won't regret it if my belt widens gradually and makes people haggard for Iraq.
3 1, the crowd searched for him for thousands of Baidu, and suddenly looking back, the man was in the dim light.
I want to know about you. There is no grave in the mountains, the river runs out, thunder and thunder in winter, rain and snow in summer, and heaven and earth are United, so I dare to be with you.
33, spring outing, apricot flowers blowing all over the head. Who is younger among strangers? Full of love. I'm going to marry him and grow old together. If you are mercilessly abandoned, you should not be ashamed.
34. If two kinds of feelings last for a long time, sooner or later. -Qin Guan's "Queqiao Fairy"
35, life and death and Zicheng said. Hold your hand and grow old with your son. -Anonymous The Book of Songs.
7. What sentences describe "temper should be restrained" (1)? Hate paralyzes life, but love revives it. Hate makes life chaotic, but love makes life harmonious. Hate makes life dark, and love makes life dazzling.
(2) Restrain your temper and be silent occasionally, because impulse is the devil and will make you do irreparable things.
She has a bad temper, but he dotes on her. Whenever anyone gets angry, he always apologizes to her. Later, she felt that he had no future, so she broke up with him and he agreed. After several years, she has never met the right one, because no one can stand her temper. She found him, and he was still single. She asked him: Why not find another one? He said: because I know you will come back, you belong to me.
(4) The temper of the wind is also changeable. Sometimes it is gentle and lovely, sometimes it is extremely violent, sometimes it is naughty, and sometimes it is very gentle. It is like a spring breeze, gently stroking the earth, making it blossom beautiful flowers, making grass grow safely and making trees grow green buds.
(5) When you have a reasonable temper, get back on track immediately, think about other things, something meaningful and valuable, and let your temper leave you forever.
(6) Losing my temper in front of my parents shows that they love me and they will tolerate my losing my temper. So I have been abusing their love to lose my temper and hurt them again and again.
Hold your hand and you will know that your child is ugly and your face is covered with tears. If you don't go, I'll go.
I am gentle, but I also have a temper. I won't cover up my personality with gentleness.
(9) I would rather have a pear than a basket of rotten pears. Even if there are only two or three active and loyal people, it is better than ten lifeless people.
(10) Don't lose your temper at will, no one owes you; Don't always pour out your difficulties and expose your vulnerability; Break up with malicious people, and people can have best friends only after breaking up; You can not forget the past, but you must let go; Children who love to laugh are not too bad luck; Make your own decisions and then be prepared to bear the consequences; If you want one thing, you will lose another; Pain is a challenge, it makes people grow and is an opportunity for progress.
(1 1) I would rather have a pear than a basket of rotten pears. Even if there are only two or three active and loyal people, it is better than ten lifeless people.
(12) Whether a person can achieve great things depends on his temper. The bigger his temper, the less likely he is to succeed.
(13) The bigger the temper, the less able it is, and the first-class ability has no temper. This is the person who can really do great things. Classic sentences about temper.
(14) Restrain your temper and keep silent occasionally, because impulse is the devil and will make you do irreparable things.
(15) We often can't change other people's opinions, but only we can. The bad life lies not in the sins of others, but in our bad mood.