There are the same number of nights and the same duration as the days in a year. Even a happy life has its dark strokes, and without "sadness" to provide balance, the word "pleasure" would lose its meaning. Accepting the changes in the world patiently and calmly is the best way to deal with things.

Most of us understand the entry point of the incident, but we don’t quite understand the extent. Mastering proportion and balance is the hardest thing.

Slow living is not about taking everything step by step, but about wanting to live in a better world. It is a balance, go fast when you should, go slow when you can, and try to live your life at what musicians call the TempoGiusto correct speed. It has no hard and fast formulas and one-size-fits-all rules, it just gives everyone the right to choose their own pace of life, and if we are willing to make room for a variety of different speeds, the world will become a richer place.

Chinese Confucianism teaches us to be a balanced person. The so-called balance is to do the appropriate things. For example, we need to be humble, but we cannot go overboard, otherwise it will turn into cowardice. For example, we need to be enthusiastic, but not excessive, otherwise we will become extreme. For example, we must be able to reflect on ourselves, but we must not overdo it, otherwise it will lead to low self-esteem. For example, we need to be humble, but not too much, otherwise we will become conservative. For example, we need to be brave, but not too much, otherwise we will become reckless and brave... In short, we need to be a balanced person.