Second, take out your temper, which is called instinct; It's called skill to suppress your temper.
Third, simple things don't quarrel, complex things don't worry, don't talk when you are angry, and don't make decisions when you are angry.
Fourth, people live an attitude in this life; Live a high true color; Dealing with people, having a conscience and a pattern; Write a good hand; Stand straight. In this life, man has become a kind of practice; Correct your good conduct; Treat people with sincerity, treat people with sincerity; Take a good life step by step; Powerful.
Life is like a ruler, we must measure it well. Feelings are like the surface, don't cross the line. When people get along with each other, we must grasp the degree. No matter how good the relationship is, don't get too close, otherwise it will only drift away in the end.
Sixth, be a man and be steady. Don't exaggerate, don't be overbearing, stability is not a sign of weakness, but a planned performance. Look at the changes in the situation, precipitate yourself, and be a low-key person. Blessed are you.
7. People who believe in you are not afraid of telling the truth, but afraid that you have no truth! Being deceived by the person I trust most, I feel like a fool, not only chilling, but also gradually drifting away!
Eight, people are people, and you don't have to deliberately be a person; The world is the world, so there is no need to be careful. Three realms of life: at the beginning of life, mountains are mountains and water is water; When people reach middle age, seeing mountains is not mountains, and seeing water is not water; When people get old, they will return to nature and rely on mountains and rivers.
Nine, learn to refuse appropriately, which is a kind of protection for yourself. People who want everything from you are not good people either. The more accommodating such people are, the more arrogant they become. It is better to refuse early!
Ten, think of yourself as others, reduce the pain, plain, ecstatic; Treat others as your own, sympathize with misfortune and understand needs; Treat others as others, respect independence and not infringe others; Treat yourself as yourself, cherish yourself and live a happy life. Being able to know others is a kind of wisdom, being known by others is a kind of happiness, and being able to know yourself as a saint.
Eleven, some people always like to bump into others to show their unique "ability", which is by no means a good habit, because it will ruin your interpersonal relationship. In practice, some things can only be done by Nuo Nuo, what's more, things are not always satisfactory.
Twelve, be good at being a person, with the goal of changing life. Numerous successful cases show that all the people in place have made a good start for their own good life situation and become the pillars of a stable life. The difficulty of life lies in doing what you want to do, and if you want to realize this life plan and leave the high-quality way of being a man, you will surely fail thousands of miles.
Thirteen, flesh and blood, that is, people's hearts; Feelings and justice are life! Be kind, do good deeds, speak well, and be a good person.
14. Be a man and know how to refuse. Don't force yourself to do something you don't want to do. Don't promise anything you don't want to help. Why compromise and embarrass yourself?
Fifteen, people are very bitter and tired when they are alive, but they have no time to be sad, nor can they be wicked and harm others. Do things with conscience and treat people sincerely!
Sixteen, being understood is lucky, and not being understood is not necessarily unfortunate. Be a low-key person, and be steady every time; Do something high-profile, better every time.
Seventeen, when misunderstood, you can smile and read; When you are wronged, you can smile calmly and be generous; Be happy and open-minded when suffering; When you are helpless, you can smile, in the realm; When in danger, you can smile calmly and have an atmosphere; When despised, you can smile calmly and be confident; When you are lovelorn, you can smile gently and be free and easy.
Eighteen, a person, no matter how strong ability, how rich family, how high status, how famous, if you don't have the word "friendship", then in the hearts of others, you are nothing! A person, no matter how poor and ugly, is a trustworthy confidant in the eyes of others as long as he values affection and righteousness.