Carina Lau and Tony Leung are model couples in the entertainment industry. Carina Lau’s calm and elegant temperament has always been my idol. How to get along with each other and how to manage her own marriage, Carina Lau also has My own unique insight, why do you say you should never try to control a man?

In love, no matter how close the relationship is, you must maintain an appropriate sense of distance and propriety. Everyone is an independent individual in the relationship, and then your significant other , women always make the mistake of treating the other person as their own private property, kidnapping the other person in the name of love, and making changes for themselves. However, this method will only make the other person feel imprisoned and suffocated, and will only make each other feel trapped and suffocated. The distance between them is getting farther and farther.

The world is easy to change, but the nature is hard to change. In a relationship, never try to change the other person, let alone try to control the other person. Even in the world of love, it is difficult for us to change a person's fixation. In terms of thinking, we always feel that we can change each other after being with each other. Facts have proved that trying to change and control each other's feelings has already deteriorated.

I think freedom is a very important thing for everyone. No one is willing to accept the mercy and control of others. Love is precious, but freedom is more expensive. When a woman falls in love with someone, , always hope that the other person can spend a lot of time and energy for you, but you don’t know that this behavior of yours is actually a kind of pathological possessiveness and the dangerous idea of ??wanting to control the other person. When the love between you two requires a man When you sacrifice your freedom to maintain it, the day will not be far away when this man leaves you.

The most important thing in a relationship is mutual understanding and respect, respecting each other’s thoughts and feelings, respecting each other’s every choice, not imposing your own ideas on the other person, and allowing the other person to freely choose what they want. This is a necessary principle for lovers to get along with each other in life.