1, and Xu zhimo-this moment should have lasted forever.

Lin, 16 years old, traveled in Europe. During his stay in England, he met Xu Zhimo, who was studying in England at that time. At that time, Xu Zhimo was already the father of a two-year-old child. Lin of Seeds of Love was attracted by Xu Zhimo's profound knowledge, elegant speech and handsome appearance. but

Xu Zhimo also fell in love with Lin, but Lin later found out that he only worshipped Xu Zhimo and had no love. Xu Zhimo deeply loved Lin and divorced his wife Zhang Youyi, who had just given birth to a second child, but when he returned to England. Lin has left England and returned to China.

In this choice, we can see the flash of the girl's truly unique and early budding wisdom. Most girls are guided by the ignorance of their feelings and go their own way. Do not hesitate to fight against people all over the world. Euphemistically called for self-freedom, for love. As you grow older, you will gradually realize that what your elders oppose is naturally based on the vicissitudes of decades behind you, and it is not necessarily unreasonable. -often when we understand this truth, we are old, spend a lot of time on the emotional journey, and are exhausted. Where a person puts his energy can always be seen in the end. Such a woman has marked her mind from the beginning, not being a legend in the eyes of others, but a down-to-earth life. It is rare for a girl to give up the temptation of becoming a legend and the traction of vanity when she is at the most beautiful, peak and favored, and choose the most practical life state by instinct. Feelings are not equal to life.

Xu Zhimo wrote the famous poem "Accidental" to Lin: "I am a cloud in the sky/occasionally projected on your heart/you don't need to be surprised/more don't need to be happy/suddenly disappeared/you and I met in the dark sea/you have your direction/you remember/you'd better forget/the lights shining on each other at this intersection."

Jin Lin talked more about his feelings: "Xu Zhimo is my old friend, but I always think he is oily, oily-""Of course, I don't mean he is oily." He refers to Xu Zhimo's emotional indulgence, which is not built or stopped. He went on to say, "After Lin was taken back to China by his father, Xu Zhimo chased him back to Beijing. When he left London, he said two words, the first one was forgotten, followed by' forget me and enter Yanjing today'. Look, all he can think about is Lin. I don't think he measures himself. Lin and Liang Sicheng have known each other for a long time. They didn't guess. The two families are family friends, even politically. Both fathers are in the research department. Xu Zhimo always follows him in, and it's no use drilling! Xu Zhimo is ignorant, sorry for Xu Zhimo's friend. " He said: "Comparatively speaking, Lin is active in thinking and has many ideas, while Liang Sicheng is an expert in conception and painting. He drew a line without looking at the scale. Lin is not capable of that. The two of them are well combined, not easy! "

2, dependent on Liang Sicheng, lifelong companion

Marry Liang Sicheng, the son of Liang Qichao, a famous scholar. Under the arrangement of Liang Qichao, Lin and Liang Sicheng studied in Europe and America, specializing in architectural design.

1928, Lin and Liang Sicheng got married in the Consulate General of China, and Liang Sicheng's brother-in-law is the Consul General.

After the marriage, Liang took good care of Lin, and the husband and wife devoted themselves to their beloved construction career. Lin has both the beauty and imagination of a poet and the meticulous and realistic spirit of a scientist. Their investigation and measurement of ancient buildings in Shanxi not only made great contributions to scientific research, but also made many national treasure ancient buildings buried in the wilderness of Shanxi begin to go global and become known to the world.

3. Be with Kim-you are April to me.

Kim, philosopher and logician. 19 14 graduated from Tsinghua University, and then studied in the United States, Britain and other European countries. After returning to China, he mainly taught in Tsinghua University and Peking University. He never married. I have always loved Lin.

Lin and Liang Sicheng hold salon parties at home almost every week, and Jin has always been a frequent visitor to Liang Salon. They have the same cultural background, similar interests and deep friendship, and live next to each other for a long time. Jin spoke highly of his character and talent, and took great care of him. Lin also admired and respected him, and the spiritual exchange between them was extraordinary. Even Liang Sicheng and Lin quarreled, but they also sought reasonable and calm money for arbitration. From beginning to end, Jindu controlled his feelings with the highest reason and loved Lin all his life.

193 1 year, when Liang Sicheng came back from other places, Lin told him in dismay, "I am extremely distressed because I fell in love with two people at the same time. I don't know what to do? " The next day Liang Sicheng told Lin, "You are free. If you choose Laojin, I wish you happiness forever. " Lin did not leave him, but said something to Liang Sicheng that all men in the world could not refuse: "You gave me an unbearable weight in my life, and I will pay it back with my life!" Lin told these words to Kim, who replied, "It seems that Sicheng really loves you. I can't hurt someone who really loves you. I should quit. " So the three of them became friends for life.

In the late 1950s, Lin died and Liang Sicheng married his students. One day, Jin suddenly invited all his old friends to Beijing Hotel for dinner without giving any reason, which made all the old friends who received the notice feel puzzled. Halfway through the meal, Kim stood up and said, "Today is his birthday." Hearing this, some old friends looked at the old gentleman who would never get married and secretly shed tears.

Even many years later, when Kim was 80 years old, nearly half a century had passed since he was young. But when someone brings a photo of Lin that he has never seen before and asks him to identify the time and place to take the photo, he will still stare for a long time, his mouth will gradually bend, as if he were going to cry, and his throat will move slightly, as if there are a thousand words stuck there. In the end, I didn't say a word, holding the photo tightly, for fear that the people in the film would fly away. After a long time, I looked up and said to others like a child pleading: Give it to me! At Lin's memorial service, the elegiac couplet he wrote for her was particularly unique. "Poem waterfall, April day on earth" is always used to refer to sunny days, richness and wealth in the west. She will always be the most beautiful April day in his heart. He still remembers the scene. He told people that the memorial service was held in Xianliang Temple. That day, his tears never stopped.

He was asked to write some words for the second edition of Lin's poems. He thought for a long time, and a lot of looks crossed his face, as if he suddenly remembered a lot of things. But in the end, he shook his head and said slowly, I should tell her everything, but I can't. He paused and continued, I didn't have a chance to say what she said, and I don't want to say or have such words. He finished, closed his eyes, lowered his head and was silent.

The above information comes from Baidu Encyclopedia.