Zhang Ailing is a famous female writer in modern China. She is good at writing love stories between men and women, and her own feelings are also full of twists and turns.

No matter Hu Lancheng, Sang Hu or Lai Ya, in the end they failed to give this affectionate and talented woman the happiness she wanted. Finally, Eileen Chang spent her later years alone and sadly in the United States, which made many people lament: Why is the relationship of a talented woman so difficult?

But this is real life. No matter how strong and excellent you are, you cannot have a perfect life. Just like Zhang Ailing, you can always love but cannot love, but you can write the most beautiful and penetrating poems. Word.

I hope that through her life and reading her words, we can understand the truth about love. Today, I have selected Zhang Ailing’s top ten classic love quotes. Every sentence touches me, and I hope you will also feel something.

If you knew me in the past, maybe you would forgive me now.

Everyone's current appearance is determined by their past experiences. You see him being bohemian and cynical. Maybe he once met a girl and gave everything but was deeply hurt. Look at her. She no longer believes in love, no matter how much the other person gives, she is still unmoved. Maybe she once lost everything with a man.

Understanding this, maybe you won’t blame her for being cold or not knowing how to cherish her, but you will feel sorry for why you didn’t meet her earlier and give her better protection.

So, I want to tell you, you can not approve of a person or understand a person, but please don't hurt her. After all, everyone has an unknown past, and so do you.

If you love her, be tolerant, let the past truly pass, and let the future truly come.

Meet the person you want to meet among millions of people. In the endless wilderness of time for millions of years, there is no step too early or one step too late. If you happen to catch up, then There is nothing else to say, except to ask gently: "Oh, are you here too?"

How difficult is it to meet the right person? It’s really hard for those who are looking for love but can’t find it.

But you must know that fate is really wonderful. It will not come early because you are anxious, nor will it take a detour because you refuse. The person who belongs to you will definitely be there. When the right time comes, you have to wait, don't be anxious, when he comes, all the suffering you have experienced will become worth it, and you will meet the best happiness.

Of course, we will have many regrets in this life. Some people are obviously the right person, but they meet at the wrong time. Sometimes we also meet the wrong person at the right time. In such a time , please let yourself go and say: "Oh, so you are here too." Then, please be safe and don't disturb me anymore.

After all, failure to love is the normal state of life. Only when you learn to reconcile with yourself will you be truly happy.

Perhaps every man has had two women like this, at least two. Marry a red rose, and over time, the red one will become a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, while the white one will remain "the bright moonlight in front of the bed"; marry a white rose, and the white one will become a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, but the red one will become A cinnabar mole on the heart.

What you can’t get is always turbulent, but what you are favored is confident. This sentence is probably the current situation of many people in love. You don’t cherish those who are by your side, but what you don’t get can always arouse you. heart.

But do you know? People are like this. They always feel that what they can't get is the best. If you get along for a long time, you will find various shortcomings in the other person, so regrets and dissatisfaction will make you make wrong decisions.

However, what I want to tell you is that what you get is actually the best. Those who don’t get it, let them live in fantasy. Only those who know how to be satisfied can achieve happiness. .

People always feel happier when they are close to happiness, but worry about gains and losses when happiness is in progress.

Song Dandan said during the divorce: "Originally you just wanted a hug, but accidentally got an extra kiss, and then you found that you needed a bed, an apartment, a certificate... Divorce Only then did I remember: You originally just wanted a hug.”

In fact, people are like this. In the process of pursuing happiness, they are very easy to be satisfied. As long as the other party can give me a little response, I feel like I am. The happiest person in the world.

But when we are really together, there is no longer the passion when pursuing happiness, no more sweet words, no more romantic surprises, making the other person unable to feel love and becoming worried about gains and losses.

But you must know that relationships need to be managed. If you want to be happy, you must give the other person a sufficient sense of security and don't let the other person have random thoughts. Only in this way can the relationship go towards the one you want. Good future.

After seeing him, she became very low, as low as the dust. But she was happy in her heart, and flowers bloomed from the dust.

This sentence was written by Zhang Ailing to Hu Lancheng. This man had a very high EQ and IQ, and he was especially good at coaxing women. A talented woman of the generation, Zhang Ailing, could not escape his pursuit. She gradually lost herself and disappeared. Pride and bottom line, willing to be humble and sacrifice everything for him.

However, even so, she could not get everything from this man. In the end, she lost everything because of his philandering, and she was also called the "traitor's wife".

After reading Zhang Ailing’s love story, I really hope more women can understand this truth. The person who loves you will not want you to become humble. He will raise you as a princess, and the one who doesn’t love you will not want you to become humble. Your person, no matter how humble you become, will not change the result that he does not cherish you.

Therefore, women must love themselves well and make themselves strong and proud. It is good to have him, but it is better not to have him. Only in this way can you meet the right person and walk hand in hand towards what belongs to you. future.

I want you to know that there is always someone waiting for you in this world. No matter when or where you are, you know that there is always such a person.

Many people, especially women, will become very anxious and anxious after reaching a certain age, always feeling that they may never meet the right person again.

But as I said before, fate must wait. If you choose the wrong person in a hurry and enter a makeshift marriage because of age, face, etc., then Your future will definitely have no chance of happiness.

Before you are waiting for that person, manage your life well. Only in this way can you find that person faster. Believe me, he will come, you have to wait.

Laugh, and the whole world will laugh with you; cry, and you will cry alone.

We often say that the older you grow, the lonelier you become, because there are too few real friends in this world. When you are going well, those around you may not be sincere to you. They may just want to take advantage of you.

Only those who can be by your side to support you when you are down and unhappy can truly love you.

So, use your heart to identify who are your true friends, give up ineffective social interactions, and make your circle of friends streamlined but warm. Only in this way can you feel the true happiness that comes from friendship.

It was promised forever, but somehow it fell apart. In the end, after thinking about it for a long time, I couldn't figure out what had separated them in the first place. Then, you suddenly realize that feelings are so fragile. It can withstand the wind and rain, but it cannot withstand the ordinary.

When watching "Thirty Only", I felt sad for the older lady who came to a luxury store to buy jewelry while carrying a shopping bag. How many women are like this in reality, accompanying a man? Starting a business, struggling, going through countless ups and downs, and surviving the most difficult days. But when everything was settled, the man fell in love with another woman. He had money, but his love and family were gone.

The saddest thing for ordinary couples is probably this. They can endure hardships but cannot enjoy happiness together. They have experienced ups and downs together, but they cannot live a peaceful and good life together.

If this is life, then I hope you can love yourself well and don't give up the possibility of your own happiness because of the other person's mistakes. It is his loss to leave you, and you must let yourself live better and better. The better, the better it will be worth your efforts.

Believe me, as long as you are willing, the future will get better and better.

No matter how bad your conditions are, there will always be someone who loves you. No matter how good your conditions are, there will always be someone who doesn't love you.

There is a lot of helplessness and unavailability of love in this world. The person you love doesn’t love you, it doesn’t mean you are not good, because no matter how good you are, there is always someone you can’t get. .

Therefore, don’t be too obsessed with what you can’t get, and look more at what you can get. Good and bad are actually all in one thought. If you are too attached to the people and things you can’t get, , you will fall into the spell of unhappiness, which is not worth it.

Never envy others, we only cherish our own, never fantasize about unrealistic things, we only cherish what we have now.

Life is a gorgeous robe covered with lice.

No one’s life is perfect. You always see the glamor of others, but you don’t know that their gorgeous robes are actually covered with lice and are in tatters.

I have always liked Zhang Ailing’s words, and I also want to tell many people who have been envious of other people’s lives. You see others living in Paris today and Los Angeles tomorrow, but you don’t know how guilty they feel about not being able to spend time with their families. You You see others living in five-star hotels and flying first class every day, but you don’t know the pain of overdrafting their bodies. You see others wearing designer brands and eating big meals, surrounded by many people, but you don’t know that they can’t sleep in the middle of the night but have nothing to do. One can tell of the loneliness of companionship.

The lives under those gorgeous robes may be scarred, but they look happy, and they may still envy your simplicity and happiness.

So, live your own life well, other people’s will never suit you. If you firmly believe this, you will definitely be happier.

If you carefully read these words of Zhang Ailing on love, you will find that every sentence touches your heart and makes you cry.

None of us are perfect, and no one can have a perfect life. Therefore, do it and cherish it, manage everything you have now, and you will be the winner in life.

As for those who cannot get it and want to leave, let them go.