Dad said in the speech: 'I was the first person in the world to hold her hand. In the hospital, I held her hand and came to this world to warm my home; It was the first time I went on stage to receive an award, and it was me who held her hand on the podium; when she was in the rebellious period of junior high school, it was I who went to the classroom to hold her hand and go home; I accompanied her when she was admitted to National Taiwan University. But today I finally let go and give her to another person. From now on, my daughter will have to walk her own path. Looking at her fading back, I feel really sad to see her go. ”

The father said to the groom: “I leave my daughter to you. As long as you use it according to the instruction manual, I will give you a one-hundred-year warranty (the meaning of warranty).” If there is a problem, go to the original factory instead of repairing it yourself. "

'If she is unhappy, please let her go back to her parents' home (original factory)'. This humorous sentence expresses the father's love and reluctance for his daughter, and it quickly became a novelty. Internet famous sayings.

What a pity the parents are! What a father fears most is that she may be unhappy in her new family and become a daughter. With a strong backing, no matter what happens in the future, my daughter will not be thrown away. The father who loves her the most has always protected her, loved her, and tolerated her.

Throughout the video of the speech, The father did not let go of his daughter’s hand.

Then he said many famous quotes about marriage, every word of which was the philosophy of the wise father’s life experience: “

Marriage is not 1+1=2, but 0.5+0.5=1. After two people get married, they have to walk their own path in the future. There will be many conflicts when starting a family. We must learn to be tolerant and understanding, and remove half of each other's personalities to form a happy family. Marriage is not possession, but union!"

The father also said to his daughter: "I promised her not to have onions (which means crying in Taiwanese). When I saw your back, walk away from me. When we were getting far away, I was really reluctant to leave. Daughter, you are right to listen to your father, because I have rich experience. ”

Now times have changed. In this age where there is no shortage of material things, the richest dowry is no longer real money, but to let the daughter understand: Marrying is to end with happiness, not marriage. If you are not happy, you are welcome to come back at any time. The door of your mother's family will always be open for you.

When Yingzi got married, her father humbly said to his son-in-law, "My daughter has been spoiled by me and has a bad temper since she was a child." In life, you need to teach her more about taking care of her family and parents-in-law. '

Mom held her mother-in-law's sign and said, "My daughter has a very bad character. Now when I go to your house, if she is still willful and ignorant, you need to teach her more." She can scold her and hit her. '

Under the humble guidance of her parents, Yingzi has to go to work right after her marriage and has to do most of the housework. After dinner, her husband and her parents-in-law are often together. Watching TV and chatting, she washed the dishes and cleaned the kitchen.

Once she went shopping and watched a movie with her best friend. When she got home at about eleven o'clock, her father-in-law and mother-in-law had already gone to bed, and her husband, who was playing games, looked at her and said. : “The dishes and chopsticks in the kitchen haven’t been washed yet? "

"What, is mom uncomfortable? "Yingzi's first reaction was whether her mother-in-law was sick.

"No! "My husband said it lightly.

"I didn't eat at home, so whoever eats it will do the washing. "After all, we are all a family. Is it necessary to distinguish so clearly?"

"You have been out crazy all night, shouldn't you wash the dishes?" ”

“You are my husband, can you also help me wash the dishes?” ”

Both of them raised their voices, and Yingzi’s tears flowed out unsatisfactorily. Before her husband could comfort her, her mother-in-law brought a note saying that someone owed her millions and had not yet paid them back. His face came: "Why are you making such noise in the middle of the night?" Still crying, who bullied you? How hypocritical! "

The mother-in-law said confidently that she did not let her son wash the dishes for her daughter-in-law. She also said that when they got married, Yingzi's parents said that her daughter was too spoiled and her husband's family had to guide her, and she could even beat and scold her.

Later, there were many similar things. Yingzi, who clearly felt that she was an outsider, secretly called her parents. Unexpectedly, her parents did not even understand the ins and outs of the matter, so they blamed her daughter for being ignorant. It's too pretentious.

My parents even apologized to my parents-in-law in person, and my mother even fawned over her son-in-law: "Yingzi is so willful that I have made it difficult for you. Your father and I have already scolded her. ”

Later, when Yingzi had a conflict with her husband, she would not tell her parents. Instead, her mother-in-law took the initiative to invite the two elders. The kind and humble parents knew that it was her husband’s family who was too picky and deliberately making things difficult, but they still He said modestly: "My daughter has a bad temper. Please be more patient. When she has children, she will learn to grow up." "

The mother-in-law's family's subservience resulted in her husband's family being even more domineering and eloquent: "I did this for her. She is so squeamish. How can she take care of my grandson if she has a child?" ”

The implication is that both her parents said that Miss Yingzi had a bad temper, and as a mother-in-law, she could only worry more about being a bad person.

Faced with humble parents, an overly arrogant husband-in-law, and a man who has nothing to do with her, Yingzi can only swallow her bitterness and shed tears quietly.

The greatest sorrow of a married woman is that when she is wronged and bullied, her husband's family cannot be relied upon and her natal family cannot return, so there is really no way out.

Modesty and virtuousness are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. However, the feudal society of the Qing Dynasty perished long ago. You need to be modest and polite, and you also have to look at people. When you meet an unreasonable husband, don't label your daughter as full of shortcomings. Otherwise, it will contribute to the prestige of others and cause disaster in the daughter's life.

If you don’t help with the children or farm work, why should you point fingers? Xiao Yu asks them to leave. The parents-in-law were so angry that they called their son, who was working outside, to come home immediately and get a divorce.

Xiaoyu called her father and asked her to take her and her mother back to her parents' home. Her father was silent for a while and said, 'Life is a matter of two people, don't worry about other people messing around. If the couple wants to continue, they should discuss and communicate. ’

The result of the discussion was that the husband said that he had to have only one parent, and if it didn’t work out, let’s get divorced! Her husband's family dislikes her because her daughter is determined not to have children.

Xiaoyu’s father didn’t even eat after receiving the call. He boarded a tricycle under the scorching sun to pick up his daughter and granddaughter.

When his father came back from farm work every day, he would happily play with his niece on the street. He also told everyone in the family not only not to blame Xiao Yu, but also to make her feel the warmth of home.

Xiaoyu’s mother-in-law’s grandmother is still there. She is a sensible old lady. She went to Xiaoyu’s house several times to apologize and persuade her to take the child home.

Xiaoyu’s father served tea to the old lady and said in a nonchalant manner: “Old man, you are welcome to come to my house, but what your son and grandson do is too bad. Your daughter-in-law is an outsider and you can drive her away. This is the first time I have seen someone who is not wanted by my granddaughter. I cannot forgive them."

After returning home, the old lady asked a group of people to say good things every day. My father respected Xiaoyu's decision. He said: " If you get divorced, your mother and I will definitely help raise the child. You will never be hindered or wronged in the future because of this child. If you are willing to continue living, you'd better think clearly and ask their family to express their feelings. A state of mind."

Xiaoyu decided to divorce, but the man delayed going through the formalities for various reasons.

Finally, the father-in-law and mother-in-law, together with Xiaoyu’s husband, invited the village secretary and village director to take Xiaoyu and her son back sincerely and rented two cars. (Ten years ago, there were relatively few cars at that time, and they were generally not used except for marriages.)

Xiaoyu’s father made a request that the adults on both sides should not interfere with the young couple’s life, and the village director served as a witness.

After that, although Xiaoyu's marriage was not prosperous, she was never bullied again. Now that her children are older, both husband and wife are working outside, and their lives are slowly getting better.

Although my friend’s father is not very educated, he knows how to love his daughter and knows right from wrong. If your daughter is bullied, you must not tolerate it, otherwise you will encourage others to bully your daughter.

To truly love a daughter is to be proud of her daughter's happiness, rather than the glory of her husband's family. To put it another way, a wrong marriage is nothing.

With a strong natal family as a backing, the daughter will be more confident and independent. No matter what she encounters, she will be fearless and more likely to be recognized and respected by others.

‘If you have any problems, go back to your parents’ home’, this is the best dowry parents can give to their daughters! Never let your daughter have no home to return to when her husband's family becomes unreliable just because of her parents' reputation.