In daily study, work and life, everyone may have come into contact with more classic aphorisms. Aphorisms refer to concise and profound and moving sentences spoken and written by celebrities and recorded in history. Do you know what kind of motto can be called a classic? Below are the mottos of ancient people on teaching children that I have collected for you. Welcome to read and collect them. The ancient maxims for teaching children 1

1. Be the emperor and don’t be proud of others; be rich in the world and don’t play with others with money.

2. I have read too much, but I don’t know enough about things.

3. People can live without food for twelve days, but they can live without food for one day.

4. Running water does not rot, and door hinges do not suffer from beetles.

5. If it is clear, the dirt will not stop, but if it stops, it will be unclear. If you stay with wise people for a long time, you will have no fault.

6. The most important thing for people to know each other is to know each other. The most important thing for people to know each other is to understand each other.

7. If you have no other instructions when riding before the deadline, buy more poems and books to teach your children and grandchildren.

8. In order to learn, don’t learn the principles first; to understand the principles, you must first study.

9. When he was young, he loved pears and millet, and when he grew up, he had to read five carts of books.

10. A father who teaches his children well should teach them to their children.

11. From the east to the sea, when will the rivers return to the west? If a young man does not work hard, the old man will be miserable.

12. Scholars do not have to be officials, but officials must be students.

13. Those who enjoy the people’s happiness will also enjoy their happiness; those who worry about the people’s worries will also worry about their worries.

14. Benevolence is far away. I want to be benevolent, but it can be the most benevolent.

15. The way to govern a country must first enrich the people.

16. The nine-story platform starts from tired soil. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.

17. Smart and eager to learn, and not ashamed to ask questions.

18. Clever words mess up morality, while small impatience messes up big plans.

19. Having read thousands of books without having the right idea is like a man who suddenly got rich and has a hard time spending money.

20. Righteousness lies in not giving in to power and disregarding its benefits.

21. Teach your children and grandchildren the doctrine; accumulating good deeds is better than accumulating money.

22. Surrender to death.

23. If it is crooked, it will be complete; if it is wrong, it will be straight; if it is hollow, it will be full; if it is open, it will be new; if it is small, it will be gained; if it is too much, it will be confused.

24. Doing good is the most joyful, but doing evil is hard to escape.

25. A true man is concerned with what is good, not what is weak; he is concerned with truth, not what is beautiful.

26. If a bird wants to fly high, it first flutters its wings; if a man wants to make progress, he first studies.

27. No virtue, no honor, no ability, no reward, no merit, no punishment.

28. If you review the past and learn the new, you can become a teacher.

29. The poor must study more, and the rich must not forget farming.

30. Those who have no doubts in reading must learn to have doubts. Those who have doubts must have no doubts. Only then can they make progress. Ancient maxims for teaching children 2

1. It is important to know that children can be taught, but don’t tell them how to know. ("Zengguang Xianwen")

2. It is the father's fault to raise but not teach. ("Three Character Classic")

3. Raising a son without education is like raising a donkey, and raising a daughter without education is like raising a pig. ("Zengguang Xianwen")

4. If you are rich and don't teach your children, your money and grain will perish; if you are rich and you don't teach your children, you won't be able to live long. ("Zeng Guang Xian Wen")

5. The household chores should be simple during the period, and the children must be taught in a righteous way. ("Zeng Guang Xian Wen")

6. Meng Mu, an able teacher, moved to teach three times, and she was determined to predict the Five Guifangs in Yanshan. ("Zeng Guang Xian Wen")

7. Training of children must start from prenatal education, and education must start from the beginning of primary school. ("Zengguang Xianwen")

8. Character must start from a young age. If you are too adaptable and have too many tricks, your character will be bad throughout your life. (Family Precepts)

9. If you are a writer and study, you must follow the rules. If you follow them, you will have no regrets throughout your life. (Family commandments)

10. When you were young, you were indulgent and arrogant, but when you grow up, you betray your loved ones. ("Children's Talk")

11. There is no need for father's inheritance to be good. If the son is unworthy, it will be empty. (Children's sayings continued)

12. If you want your son to be obedient, you must first be filial to your parents. (Continued from children’s sayings)

13. Don’t offend heaven and earth with your thoughts, and leave a good example to your children and grandchildren through your words and deeds. ("Zengguang Xianwen")

14. In the Qing Dynasty, talented people are more valuable, but in wealthy families, children are more charming. ("Zengguang Xianwen")

15. When caring for relatives, you must cultivate your ambitions, and do not let your beloved son live in peace. ("Zengguang Xianwen")

16. Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings, so don't compete with them. ("Zengguang Xianwen")

17. All mortals hope that their descendants will be high officials. I do not want to be high officials, but I hope to be gentlemen who are educated and sensible. ("Zeng Guofan's Family Letter")

18. The bad deeds of the children of the capital are all due to arrogance and extravagance. You and your brothers should be warned and warned. ("Zeng Guofan Family Letter")

19. The children of ordinary families have the same clothing, food and daily life as those of poor people. A commoner can become a great person; if he is contaminated with the habits of wealth and honor, it is difficult to hope for success.

("Zeng Guofan's Family") Ancient maxims for teaching children 3

1. Stand firm and defeat selfish desires

Tuition: Zhu Ziyun: "When people do bad things, their hearts are uneasy. This is Conscience. However, if you are blinded by selfish desires, you will not be able to fight for it. You must fight hard and not lose to him. If you know that this is not good, stick to the good path and wait for it. At this time, selfish desires cannot abide by themselves." This verse is the most important point for people to establish their hearts. Conscience can overcome selfish desires, and this is the way to become a saint and a virtuous person. Those who wish to establish their body and mind should study these words in detail.

2. Keep all your minds and bodies and seek truth for yourself

Tuition: Zhu Ziyun: "The method of reading should be orderly and consistent, consistent and leisurely. Read the meaning of the sentence, and experience the actual practice, and then calm down and understand, and gradually understand the meaning. Otherwise, even if you are seeking to gain something, reciting it five times a day will also be beneficial to learning. "This is just reading! It's very important. When people read, they originally want to keep everything in mind and body, and seek truth for themselves. Otherwise, what is the use of reading the book casually? All scholars should take this as a lesson.

3. You can’t bear to give up the prescription to get the true taste of the book.

Tuition: Zhu Ziyun: “You must read to the point where you can’t bear to give up, then you can get the true taste of the book. If you read too many times, you will get the true taste of the book. Those who have a brief understanding of its meaning will be disgusted with it, and those who want to read it elsewhere will not be interested in this book." This is extremely true. I have always been diligent in reading since I was a child. When I read a certain sutra, I will always talk about it and remember it. Over the years, I have read through it and found some that deserve detailed explanations. Zhu Zisi said that all readers should know it.

4. Developing virtue and cultivating one’s career depends on classics and history

The saying goes: For ordinary people to develop virtue and cultivate one’s career, everything starts from studying. If you read more, your appetites will be weak. If your appetites are weak, you will save money. If you save money, you will have less business. If you have less business, you will have high moral standards. The method of reading is mainly based on classics. Gou's classics are profound, and then he observes history. By observing history, you can know the virtues and foolishness of people, and you can easily understand the gains and losses in situations. Therefore, everything can be judged by the old and the young, but when reading, it does not matter whether it is the old or the young. If you read one volume, you will gain one volume; if you read one day, you will gain one day's benefit. This master is so angry that he forgets to eat, and it is as if he has failed to learn.

5. The Nine Ren of the Mountain cannot be neglected.

The teaching says: There has always been knowledge of life, knowledge of learning, and knowledge of difficulties, and even if there is success, none of them will exist. Those who have been away from school for a long time and are unable to reach the top should not wait for progress, especially not give up halfway. "Book" says: "For nine people, only one step will fall short." It is a pity for those who give up halfway.

6. The merits of learning are not beyond daily needs.

The training says: The merits of learning are not beyond daily needs. If you are in self-discipline, be careful with your words and deeds. At home, be with family members. Respect your elders and read handouts if you are poor. If it is near and easy, you can use your strength now; if it is urgent and urgent, you can use your strength now. A day's effort will produce a day's effect. When you have doubts, if you seek help from others and ask questions, your progress will be immeasurable. If you don't use any strength now and waste your youthful years, even if you find a sage and learn from him in the future, it may not be beneficial.

7. Pursue knowledge through hard work and gain it through practice

Tuition: Ancient Confucianism once said: "Pursuing theory is not one end, and what you get is not one place. Either you get it from reading, or you get it from reading. You can get it by speaking, thinking, or doing it. Although you can get a lot from reading, you can get it quickly by talking, and you can get it most deeply by thinking, and you can get it most practically by acting. Scholars who study things to gain knowledge should know it.

8. If you have patience for a while, you will realize that nothing happens.

Xun said: There is nothing in the world that cannot be overcome. If you endure for a while, you will realize that nothing happens. For example, trivial matters such as chickens and dogs among neighbors in the township party may lead to lawsuits and complaints from officials; or a joke may lead to a corner fight. All of this is due to the fact that a small moment of anger cannot lead to a major dispute. Confucius said: "A little impatience will mess up a big plan." The words of the sage are of the utmost importance.

9. Do your best to obey the destiny of heaven.

The ancients said: "Do your best to obey the destiny of heaven." Oh, this is true! When human resources and affairs are exhausted, according to the laws of nature, those who manage agriculture should be diligent in cultivating crops, but a good harvest is not necessary. Those who fail to do human affairs are abandoning their fields and neglecting the trees; those who are not willing to listen quietly are those who pick up seedlings and help their elders. Confucius advances with propriety and retreats with righteousness, so he does his best in human affairs. If you don't get it, you can say: "It's destiny." It's just to obey the destiny.

10. Learning to nourish the mind can also nourish the body.

Training says: Learning to nourish the mind can also nourish the body. If you can't afford to worry about distracting thoughts, your soul will be clear and clear, your blood and energy will be at peace, your illness will be gone, and your good will will arise spontaneously. This is the mutual support of internal and external affairs.

11. The spirit is calm and the mind is harmonious.

Tuition: Zhuangzi said: "Don't strain your form, don't shake your essence." He also quoted Geng Sangzi's words: " Don’t make you think too much.” If you don’t think too much, you can nourish your mind. If you don’t have enough desire, you can nourish your essence. If you don’t talk much, you can nourish your energy. You know, this can nourish your health. Therefore, form is the tool of life; heart is the master of form; spirit is the gathering place of heart. When the mind is calm, the mind is harmonious, and when the mind is harmonious, the body is complete. If you keep your mind calm and nourished, you will be at peace within yourself; if your mind is pure and empty, you will not be tempted by the outside world; if your mind is calm and your mind is pure, your body will be free from any burden.

12. Lessons for those who have gone before and those behind.

Xun said: Words of admonition can be found everywhere in ancient and modern famous treatises and Qianqi records. He is diligent and earnest, repeatedly exhorts and requires people, and only wants people to listen and obey. Why should people who are less than a thousand years old, and people who are more than a thousand years old, be concerned and earnestly admonish them like this? I want to use a famous saying to remind people who are less than a thousand years old, so that they will know that the car in front is overturned, and it will serve as a warning for those behind. also.

Later, I learned to read the books of sages and saw that the ancients were so sincere in teaching people ideas, how could I just ignore them? Therefore, I often teach people to read the ancient books, and they must remember the painstaking efforts of the authors, and do not let the predecessors learn from them.

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Famous sayings and mottos for teaching children well

1. Parents should prepare a notepad to record what happened with their children, or the problems they discovered. of confusion. The process of regular recording is actually a simple process of self-reflection.

2. Give children the opportunity to truly make decisions.

3. Maternal love is the most sacred emotion in the world, and it should be because this emotion is the least mercenary.

4. Let the child independently complete the basic part of the work he is engaged in, even if there will be no positive results.

5. Take your children’s personal requirements seriously.

6. If parents want to cultivate a healthy personality in their children, they must create a relaxed and harmonious family.

7. Parents are natural teachers, and they have the greatest influence on children, especially young children.

8. Mencius’ educational ideal is: “Wealth and honor cannot be kinky, poverty and lowliness cannot be moved, and power cannot be surrendered. This is called a real man.” According to Mencius’ standards, modern people are all dwarfs.

9. Parents should not do everything for them and deprive their children of their ability to take care of themselves.

10. If a child’s intelligence is not recognized by the school, the smart child will be regarded as a bad child. In school life, bad kids tend to be smarter. Smart kids tend to be bad.

11. Children have unlimited possibilities when they are young, and they need to be explored and guided by their parents.

12. If both career-oriented parents are unable to accompany their children, they must find suitable, professionally trained tutors for their children instead of simply handing them over to grandparents or nannies.

13. For children, life is a school, and every plant and tree can become an object of research and exploration.

14. The standard of good character is "civilized spirit", the standard of good body is "barbaric body", and the standard of good learning is "self-study and self-satisfaction".

15. The main skill in teaching children is to turn what children should do into a game.

16. Beating and scolding cannot solve children’s educational problems, but can only vent parents’ impatience.

17. Whoever can make a child "move like a rabbit and be as quiet as a virgin" has mastered the secret of education.

18. Let the child play the game of "earning his own living" and let the child leave his parents and go to a place of suffering: if he does not work, he will starve to death. The only way to change the bad habit of children getting something for nothing is to let the children temporarily leave their parents.

19. A good personality is better than excellent intelligence.

20. Cultivating the kind of person a child will become in the future is always more important than the child’s current grades.

21. Explain to the child that he is already very cute and there is no need to express himself.

22. Talent is like natural flowers and trees, they need to be pruned.

23. Parents should develop reasonable behavioral habits and pay attention to enable their children to learn to do them.

24. Don’t look down on your children’s failures and say to them: “I won’t do this either.”

25. The fate of the nation depends not so much on those in power. In the hands, it is better to say that the hand held in the mother's hand pushes the cradle and also promotes the development of the country.

26. Help your child formulate his personal plan and how to complete the plan.

27. Never tell a child that he is worse than other children.

28. Help children become individuals with personality.

29. Build a display stand so that children can fully display their works on it.

30. Take your child to places that interest him.

31. It is best for parents to learn to teach themselves before taking on the role of home education.

32. Whoever allows children to be assertive yet know how to compromise, who is both courageous and yet obedient has blocked the key to education.

33. Help children interact normally with children from different social and cultural classes.

34. After a child falls, quickly pick him up, step on the ground hard, and say to the child: "It's broken, let's step on it!" The earth is not bad, it's the parents who are.

35. A good mother treats her son as a friend, and a bad mother treats her son as a lover.

36. Don’t tease your children because they make mistakes. Praise your children for reciting poems, telling stories and singing songs.

37. Keep looking for things worthy of praise in the things your children do.

38. For children, the family environment is similar to the mother’s womb. The mother's womb is the child's first palace, and the family environment is the child's second palace.

39. When a person only has a very limited time at his disposal, he will naturally spend it where it is most needed.

No matter how busy, tired or uncomfortable I am, I always take some time to play and read with my son.

40. Loving children does not necessarily mean understanding them. Only by becoming friends with children can education play its role.

41. Take serious questions and opinions raised by children seriously.

42. All dandy children are rich children, although not all rich children are dandy children. Since ancient times, heroes have suffered many hardships, while dandy men have never been great men.

43. Read something to your children regularly.

44. Spend time alone with your children every day.

45. While educating their children, parents are also educating themselves.

46. Encourage children to identify problems and then solve them.

47. Business parents must have one person to accompany their children at home, or hire a tutor for their children.

48. Make detailed experimental plans to help children understand more things.

49. Encourage children to make up stories and fantasize.

50. There are two most difficult things for human beings: one is how to "rule" others; the other is how to "educate" others.

51. Parents should gradually cultivate the habit of independent thinking and solving problems in their children, and thereby build their children's confidence.

52. Parents cannot accompany their children for a lifetime, so they must cultivate their children's social awareness and independence from an early age.

53. Children’s picky eating starts when their parents talk about which food is not delicious.

54. At home, parents and children should try to maintain an equal status and seek their children’s opinions when something happens.

55. Give your child a room or a part of the room, mainly for the child to play.

56. Let children develop the habit of reading from an early age.

57. Parents should give their children space to grow freely, guide them in the wrong direction, and encourage them in the right direction.

58. Understand and appreciate children’s strengths and let them feel a sense of accomplishment based on their strengths. Let children have high aspirations, high spirits, high spirits, and guidance due to the sense of accomplishment.

59. The child’s grandparents may only have some limited educational experience, and these limited educational experiences are of no use due to the pampering and indulgence of the grandparents.

60. Education must begin with psychological exploration of children’s interests and habits.