1. Fish is what I want; bear paws are also what I want. You can't have both, it's like giving up the fish for the bear's paw. "It is of course the most ideal to get both fish and bear paws, but this possibility is often the smallest. Generally, you need to make a choice between fish and bear paws, even if you only get fish. It is also a success; if which one They are unwilling to give up and blindly pursue "the best of both worlds". In the end, they get nothing.

2. The European golden eagle, known as the "King of Birds", There are only two chicks in a nest. Sometimes, due to lack of food, the two chicks will fight each other, and the stronger one will squeeze the weaker one out of the nest and fall to death next to its mother. Faced with the reality of starving two young birds to death or saving one young bird, there is no choice but to tolerate this cruel "abandonment". After the Northeastern wolf was captured by the hunter Tieyang Yang, he faced broken legs and loss of life. Two options, resolutely bite off the pinched leg, and then retreat. With this painful and decisive "giving up", the Northeast Wolf saved his life.

3. The world's top level. Science fiction writer Isaac Asimov was engaged in biochemistry research and teaching. He discovered that he had a talent for writing science fiction novels, so he made a calm and objective analysis of himself: I am not big. I may become a first-class scientist, but I may become a first-class science fiction novelist. Asimov bid farewell to the university classroom and laboratory, returned home, and devoted himself to writing. He achieved the brilliant achievements of writing 480 science fiction works in his life, and also won him the honorary title of the most famous science fiction novelist in the world. Giving up is sometimes painful, but if you can't bear the pain for a while, it may lead to death. Lifelong pain. It was undoubtedly painful for Asifive to abandon the laboratory and the platform where he lived day and night, but it was precisely because he endured the pain that he later achieved great success. It may cause Asimov a lifetime of pain and regret, and it is also a pity for the world. Asimov's wise abandonment is his own happiness, and it is also the luck of Asimov's readers.

My husband’s example tells us that if you don’t have advantages in some aspects, but you persist in trying to turn your weaknesses into strengths, you are likely to achieve nothing by giving up your shortcomings in order to strengthen your strengths. Bring yourself closer to the goal of success.

4. Sun Tzu said: If you want to take something, you must give it to yourself first.

5. A horse can take risks, but its strength is not as strong as an ox; a chariot is strong. A boat that can carry a heavy load is not as good as a boat crossing a river; it is difficult for those who seek shortcomings to sacrifice their advantages. -------Gu Sixie

6. How happy are those who give and take, but unlucky misers are the ones who are unlucky. .

------Rudaki