0. MengMeng: "What does ruining you have to do with you?"
This famous saying was born out of Goethe's "I love you, what's it to you?" As Ding Yi said, "I'm not interested in girls who love me, but in people I fall in love with". Both men and women may fall in love willfully: I love you, but you don't care whether you love me or not; I won't love you because you don't love me, and I won't love you because you love me.
I love you, it is my first feeling from the heart, it is an emotional impulse, not a rational choice, and it has nothing to do with you at the moment when this feeling arises.
1. Deep species: "ideological seal"
In the face of three-body civilization, human beings will be defeated. Sheehan secretly created the "ideological seal", planted the belief that "mankind will eventually be defeated" in the army, and cultivated the power to escape; Zhang Beihai is an exception. "I don't need the seal of thought, I am the master of my faith."
Tang Xianzu wrote in the inscription of Peony Pavilion, "I don't know what happened, but as time goes by, the living can die and the dead can live" and fell into the whirlpool of love. Everyone is Zhang Beihai, he is the master of his faith, and he has stamped himself with the "mark of love".
Once stamped, it will never be solved. In order to overthrow the belief that water is poisonous, Shane went through two months of psychotherapy.
How long does it take for people to overturn their "love seal"?
Maybe one day?
Maybe all my life? I think so.
2. Hope: "Face the wall, I am your broken wall."
The "broken wall man" can be called the confidant of the "broken wall man" and knows his innermost thoughts.
Between civilizations, "wall-breaker" and "wall-breaker" are sworn enemies, such as Friedrich Taylor VS "von Neumann" and Mannur ·ríDiaz VS "Mozi".
In love, the "broken wall man" and the "broken wall man" may be a pair (Bill Sheehan and Keiko Shanshan are both sworn enemies and a pair). The ideal situation is to walk into each other's hearts, know their courage, know their cowardice, know their loftiness and know their commonness ... Unfortunately, in most cases, the "face-bumpers" are intentional, but the "face-bumpers" are unintentional: you are deeply attached to Ta, and although Ta has done nothing, it is already your "face-bumpers" and you are "face-bumpers"
3. Imagination: "Part of the plan"
Love, maybe you have expectations for Ta and hope to be needed by Ta. Ta is part of your plan. Your future plans include Ta: where do you live together? What style of home appliances and furniture does Ta like? How to name a child, or have the elements of two names? The world is so big, let's go and have a look, go to Ta, go where you want to go, and go to Shanhai Loucheng, which you all want to go. ...
If you are part of the Ta plan, congratulations, that's great.
If you are not, I hope you will be in the future.
If you weren't before and you're not now, it turns out that you're not after all, and it's nothing. "Don't want" is one of the seven sufferings of the world, which is too normal. Maybe the next one will be. I think so.
4. Expression: "Natural selection, forward four!"
The heart belongs, and there is no turning back.
When you meet the right person, you must seize the opportunity (even if it is not the best time), act decisively (not necessarily profess), show yourself and be kind to each other, just like Zhang Beihai won the control of "natural selection" without delay for one second, even if the fuel is not filled to 100%, it will take a long way to "enter the fourth"!
Isn't it natural for men and women to love each other? Then choose: forward four!
5. Watch: The Man Laughing at the Wall
When you are in love, you often giggle inexplicably, which is the biggest secret in your heart. You shouldn't hide it from others.
I think it's hidden deep. In fact, most people around you know it. Maybe I'm not sure who Ta is, but I know you have a heart, but you just won't show it clearly to your face. Occasionally, I will make fun of you by innuendo, such as "You said it was from your sister, are you sure it wasn't from someone else?" "Hiding the dialog box again, chatting with people?" "Who are you going to see after work on time?" Many times, I look at you and smile without saying a word. Laughter is the kind of "smile to lovers" that I know you are pretending, but I don't say.
6. empty cup: "weakness and ignorance are not obstacles to survival, but arrogance."
The so-called arrogance is the preset benchmark, wishful thinking, self-righteousness, conceit or inferiority.
The arrogance of human beings is conceited, and the preset fleet strength is stronger than the three-body, so it is taught to be a man by water drops.
Cheng Xin's arrogance is also conceited. Assuming that his courage can protect the peace between two civilizations, he was taught to be a man by water droplets, or six water droplets.
The arrogance of the cloud is inferiority. He thought he was not worthy of Cheng Xin, so he sent stars, euthanasia and wedding clothes to Guan Yifan and the small universe.
Weakness and ignorance are not obstacles to love, but arrogance is. If you think you are superior, you will be condescending and bossing around, which is not desirable; Assuming that you are not as good as Ta, you will be humble and timid, which is not desirable.
Love needs an empty cup mentality and reciprocity. There should be nothing worth it, right? I think so.
7. End: "Burn him and use slow fire"
It is said that death is painful.
Burning to death will slow down, prolong and amplify the pain. According to scientific research, this is the most painful way to die.
Burning to death with slow fire will slow down, prolong and amplify this most painful pain n times, which is hard to see.
In a sense, "confession failure", "lovelorn" and perhaps "divorce" and "widowhood" may all be burned to death by slow fire in feelings. From time to time, you will think of the moment when you fell off the cliff, once, once, or completely, or faintly, such as vertebral blows, such as acupuncture ... really don't think about it, but it's not up to you.
The heart burns in the flame, maybe it will turn to dust, maybe it will shed its scab and beat for others, right? I think so.
8. Dwarves: "You are bugs", "The Lord doesn't care" and "Ignoring is the greatest contempt"
Three-body civilization despises earth civilization: "You are bugs."
The three-body organization also despises the rescue plan of two wall players: "The Lord doesn't care."
Yes, "Ignoring is the greatest contempt".
The dominant three-body civilization is like this.
In love, there is a legend of "licking the dog": you love Ta, care for Ta in every way, and fall in love with Ta; However, Ta doesn't love you or hate you, but her eyes are too lazy to pay attention to you, and she despises you in her heart and throws your heart directly into the dust, mud and gravel.
No matter how good you do, it is not good for Ta; No matter how bad you do, you won't hurt Ta-in this sense, it's both "what does it matter if you love Ta" and "what does it matter if Ta destroys you".
You are a bug, Ta doesn't care, naturally ignores you and despises you.
What can we do?
Defend the solar system and die in Pluto.
Or, walk four miles to another sea of stars, as the saying goes, "There are plenty of fish in the sea"? I think so.
9. Symbiosis: "We are comrades in arms."
Ye Wenjie, Evans and other members of the earth three-body organization said to each other, "We are comrades-in-arms." Strive for the "cause of the Lord" for life (manual dog head).
If you and Ta can hold hands with each other, hug each other and say, "We are comrades-in-arms." How happy will it be to walk the road of life hand in hand?
It is one of the greatest happiness in life to belong to each other and hold hands with each other until we are old.
I wish all lovers in the world well, including me.
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