2. Psychologists' advice to women "No matter how much you like each other, the initiative in love must be men. If this man doesn't take the initiative, he would rather miss it. "
You can be happy even if you are lonely when you have no partner. At this time, loneliness is a state. You can travel around the world by yourself and meet different friends. You can also choose to go home immediately after work and enjoy your own world. A person's loneliness is not terrible. The most terrible thing is the loneliness after having a partner.
4. A father gives his daughter love advice. Some people are suitable for you but don't love you, while others love you but don't love you. If you want to know whether you love or not, don't listen with your ears, but look with your eyes. See how much he pays. If you want to know if it's suitable, don't ask him what he has, ask your laughter and tears. No matter how good the conditions always make you cry, it is worth it to make you laugh all the time, even if you are in pain. I'd rather smile and be tired than cry and enjoy it.
5. Find a man who will put your photo in his wallet, a man who dares to let you bite and leave a mark on his body, a man who dares to write about you on Weibo WeChat, and a man who dares to let you know everything about him. Even when you break up willfully, you won't leave the man who will hold you tightly and won't let you go. You dare to be responsible for your life and be good to you.
6. If a relationship doesn't make you a better person, it's a pity that you are with the wrong person. If someone really loves you, no matter how he puts up with it, he won't be willing to part with you. That kind of love affair is actually getting farther and farther away from you, but it's a lie. That kind of full of true love, in fact, refused to eat at all, is nothing more than passing by. True love is the result. If there is no result, you can only call yourself loved. No matter who you love, there is only one result. The person who will accompany you to the end is true love. A person's happiest moment is to find the right person, the one who dotes on you, indulges your habits and loves everything about you.
7. Some men love you and want to spend their lives with you. Some men love you and just want to spend some time with you. A man who has lived all his life will not love you very hard, because he will put his strength into life. A man will love you to death after a while, because he just needs to love you, sleep with you and abandon you. So a good man takes care of your life and a bad man takes care of your feelings.
8. A man's harm to a woman is not necessarily that he fell in love with someone else, but that he let her down when she had expectations and didn't give her the comfort she deserved when she was weak.
9. A clever man will spoil his woman so much that other men can't stand her smelly temper. A stupid man will use his smelly temper to turn his woman into a feeling of meeting any attentive man.
10. Remember, girls: I'd rather find a man who doesn't have much money but is willing to send you flowers than a man who obviously has money but does everything for you. The number in a man's passbook is not important, but how much he spent on you. Never hypnotize yourself with words that only believe in love and despise material things. In this age when everyone is sensitive to money, if you are willing to shed your hard-earned money for you, it means that you really love you, because stingy people always only love themselves.
1 1. For a woman who loves you, you can make her cry and be wronged, but don't let her be silent, because silence is a woman's deepest pain and the saddest cry. You know, women like to talk. No matter how hard life is, whether she has something on her mind or not, she wants to tell you everything about her. This is the best way for her to love you. If one day, she suddenly becomes silent and you come to the edge.
What you say must be more valuable than silence.
1, since Excellence is not enough, let yourself be irreplaceable. There are two irreplaceable ways: one is to do what others don't want to do; The second is to do what others can do well.
Just because the things you once owned are taken away, it doesn't mean that you will return to the era without these things.
People who can bring nightmares to others often have the most nightmares themselves.
4. Who said that time will definitely give the answer? Time will only be given to a person in disguise, making the most important things generally important and making the generally important things less important.
5. One person is idle, don't let a group of people pretend to be busy, one person is lonely, and don't let two people make do.
6. When I was alive, I felt I didn't know anything when I was young, I felt I knew everything when I was in college, I knew I didn't know anything when I graduated, I felt I knew everything when I was in middle age, and I didn't realize I didn't know anything until later in life.
7. Let life be as light as the clouds in the sky, and let the mood be as quiet and beautiful as Yuan Ye in spring.
8. Life is simple and charming, and people are simple and happy.
9. Behind everything pleasing to the eye, there is always a sad hidden feeling. No matter how small the flowers are, they will bloom, and the world will suffer.
10, live in your own values, do not affect others, and are not easily assimilated, just be comfortable.
1 1. Never let your temper be greater than your current ability.
12, people, at the deepest time, always want to disappear for a period of time, waiting for the rainstorm to stop, waiting for the clear sky in Wan Li.
13, if a person wants to achieve big goals, he must have a big mind.
14, giving up and getting is nothing more than a reincarnation. I'm relieved to see it.
15, the most important thing is not to rely on money. People should enjoy wealth and be prepared for life when they lose it.
16, the things that I couldn't let go in the past are now relieved. It's not that those things have changed, but that I have been tossing for a long time and my heart is slowly numb.
17, I must admit that most of life belongs to loneliness, and trying to grow up is the best game to play in loneliness.
18, where is the dividing line between luxury goods and education? One is external victory. One seeks inner peace. Compared with others, I naturally advocate luxury. Always ask yourself to make progress, and you will naturally be educated.
19, the lonelier you are, the less friends and support you have, the more you should respect yourself.
20. What you say must be more valuable than silence.
Bian Xiao: When no one is in charge, be firm and persist; When people envy, Bian Xiao is quiet inside: never forget, there will be repercussions; If there is no echo, there will be a wound. Bian Xiao: Are you single for so long because you are too picky? Understand the classic quotation of life: without value, you will be hurt.
Understand the classic quotation of life: without value, you will be hurt.
If you quarrel more frequently than eating, you are more sad than happy, everything you want to say becomes ugly, and everything you want to pay becomes misunderstanding, then please really love yourself and stay away from each other. If you are always hurt and sacrificed, it is because you are worthless.
I often hear women say the word "hurt", almost because a man left, or moved on, or just saw the truth after being sentimental and blamed that man for being hurt. Is it necessarily his fault that a man doesn't love you or no longer loves you? If we always kidnap love with morality and measure sincerity with eternity, I'm afraid everyone will drift away from happiness. Women always love and hate the men closest to them. It is nothing more than the hatred of steel caused by the proliferation of motherhood, and then they generalize. Once that person leaves, there will be no good people in the world. But I never ask myself: Is moral cleanliness a noble emotion? Is it brave and persistent to love too much? In the emotional world, behind many so-called patient advantages of women are actually weaknesses caused by economic and emotional independence.
Either all men don't love you, or they are going to be tested, or all women have been lovelorn or hurt. Don't always put yourself in self-pity of being hurt and sacrificed. Maybe women can dress up like men, or at least pretend to be light and enjoy other beautiful things in life. When I hear too many complaints in love, it is not good for a man. He will always be injured, and I have heard too many slanders in marriage. A person is not busy, anyway, it is he who sacrificed. But there are not many women in the world who don't want to find a man, and their eyes are full of wives who don't want to divorce. Most women need a man to build a siege day and night. If they can't learn to be considerate and enjoy themselves, their feelings will really become masochistic. Men understand that love for women is hard to die, and in his world, love is not enough. You didn't forgive him, but he was there.
Women, on the other hand, have been dreaming of princesses since their girlhood, preferring to find a man who can cheat them and love them all their lives, rather than accept the emotional truth, so there are many women with problems in life, but they have failed themselves in time. Some men like to satirize women with being hurt, as if this is the most vicious reminder, but women should also use being hurt to belittle themselves, as if this is the most unfortunate pain point, but it is actually the most worthless performance, but men have no brains and women have no promises. If love and non-love, division and non-division, should be discussed by hurting and being hurt, that man is the most afraid, so they will indulge in debauchery, or simply run away and avoid facing it.
Women should not always abuse themselves when they are hurt, which will block new hopes, and should not always complain when they are sacrificed, which will miss the beauty of love. What kind of man you love, or what kind of man you love, is not terrible in itself. The terrible thing is that a good man can't make you grow up, but a bad man has brought you into the abyss, scarred, and can't find your original innocent self again. In men's eyes, the loveliest thing about a woman is that innocence, that hard work and courage, which is full of hope even after suffering, can be beautiful forever across age. No matter what world men want to conquer, to some extent, they live a heavier life than women. As a woman, you should not cooperate with men's absurdity and indulge men's asshole, so they may have a soft spot for you. If you are always hurt and sacrificed, it is because you are worthless.
This era has made people old. Because houses, cars and tickets are full of gloom and vicissitudes, many young faces around them can no longer see their dreams and innocence. How precious it is to be able to live truly and casually, because there are emotional persistence and beauty in daring to love and hate, and courage and hope in daring to do, which are the sources of our happiness and happiness. No one in this world is perfect, so no one can do everything. Faced with the pressure of survival or emotional choices, sometimes we accept the unchangeable facts, and sometimes we admit our mistakes. This is also a kind of love, really responsible for yourself and others. Clear love and hate is also a positive state of life, which is better than cowardice in entanglement and selfishness in patience. People who are always hurt are people who are always running away from themselves.
Many women are trapped in emotional quagmire and unable to save themselves. In fact, it is understandable to get rid of it. If they can't do it themselves, others will be persuaded. The most important reason is that you can't leave the living environment that brings you pain and suffering, and you can't let go of the past. Some women will be entangled in it for many years, until finally love and marriage, dreams and years are wasted. What's the use of saying you only love yourself? A cold emotional relationship is like a sword, and the vicissitudes of time will be clearly engraved on your face. Few women in the world have been trapped in emotional despair all their lives, and they can see the sun through the clouds and keep the wind clean. Only when mortals can't see can they cultivate a state of mind of leisurely seeing Nanshan. What's more, some women don't know what true love is at all, which doesn't mean that you don't love others from now on.
It is said that the feelings in the world are difficult to heal. If you want to be thorough, you should either stay away from those who have hurt yourself, or forget all the pain and start over with those who are willing to mend. The hurt feelings can't be repaired at all, and any excessive and irrational efforts are only adding more old hatreds and new scars. For those men and women who have loved and hurt deeply, leaving and forgetting is the best remedy and necessary relief for both sides, because you still have your own lives. Shattered glass, will eventually be lonely, wandering in the same place, will eventually waste time.
No one can hurt you if you don't give others a chance. If you never give up on yourself, no one is willing to sacrifice you. You are valuable, your efforts will be valuable, you deserve to be loved, and someone will love you for life.
The most valuable words
1, tired people should learn to adjust, know themselves, don't put chains on themselves, and don't set too high expectations and standards for themselves. We should find a soft landing place for ourselves when doing somersaults, find the steps we can get when climbing ladders, develop our potential realistically and tailor our life goals.
2, warmth, what a beautiful word. Just like on the bleak river bank, there is no starry night, and it is dark and insecure, showing a pile of fishing fires. Like a flower in my heart.
We are living things, and one of the most important characteristics of living things is long life. In other words, we will end up living and dying. It seems that some people have said that the concept of being born to die affects all our behaviors more or less, and princes will be just a blank loess. So if someone sees through everything, the meaning of human beings is death, which is a bit fatalistic.
4, tired people should learn to adapt, don't face the darkness alone, to adapt to society, to adapt to life. Don't care too much about the applause and praise of others, and don't take the result of others' behavior as your pursuit goal. Only by constantly expanding our psychological space can we realize the meaning and happiness of life itself.
5, smile is not given by others, we need to create it, we need to find it, smile is everywhere, all over the country, in the rain, in the wind, in clear streams, in bright flowers, in dark corners, all have its footprints, because he believes that he can bring light to others, move towards hope, bring happiness to others and create the future. Everyone has a dream, it depends on whether you pursue it or not. Bring warmth to others and warm their hearts.
6. People are unhappy because they don't cherish it. Faced with a better life and better conditions day by day, people always want to leap to a higher level. In fact, happiness is a kind of expectation and a feeling of a beautiful mind. As long as we cherish everything we have, look for it with our heart, and feel it with our heart, you will find that you live in happiness and happiness is around you.
7. Take preventive measures. Probably not because of some characteristics of this age. Past storms are not without gains. Running at high speed on the runway of life. Please don't use the future as a bargaining chip. Don't let youth pay too much for youth. People who pass by are destined to be passers-by in life. Don't cry for yesterday!
8. Life is a slow wandering journey. After meeting, we should part, and after meeting, we should say goodbye. Those who accompany us may not understand us, and those who warm us may not accompany us. Those love and hate, sadness, gathering, parting, parting, just like flowers and feasts, will fade with the passage of seasons and time, leaving desolation after prosperity.
9. Life can only be understood through experience. Know, just know to cherish. In life, there will always be someone who makes you laugh the sweetest, and there will always be someone who makes you feel the deepest pain. Forget it. Be nice to yourself.
10, smiling is gratitude to the world. Our situation, whether prosperous or dull, is more satisfying and life is sweeter. No matter how much loss and bitterness life has given us, only by smiling at flowers and trees with a grateful heart can life become calm, elegant and atmospheric. We have read such a story: some poor recipients enjoy the kindness of others with peace of mind, and even accept it coldly, while others can give others a sincere smile. Their results speak for themselves.
1 1, life is like a song, with ups and downs in tone and cadence in melody; Life is like a book, full of ups and downs, recording joys and sorrows; Life is like a chess game, full of dangers and opportunities; Life is like a road, with ups and downs and smooth roads. Life is like the same river, sometimes it twists and turns, and sometimes it falls a thousand miles; Life is like a leaf. When you are in power, you are arrogant, and when you are frustrated, you are completely discredited.
12, forget it! People who have experienced sadness, because it will only make people depressed. Forget it! If you hide them deep in your heart, you will only get more heartbreak and tears; And meaningless. It is inevitable that the past has become the past, has come to an end and dissipated like a cloud.
13, everyone has inertia, which is innate, but we can change this inertia the day after tomorrow, because many people are changing. Don't wait for someone else to do something or business before I think of it. Don't wait for others to make money before I want to do it. No one believes in markets and opportunities, but everyone believes in inflation.
14, people are unhappy because they care too much and want too much. They should strive for time, abdicate in time when they shouldn't, and learn to seize the opportunity and assess the situation. People who always think about a high-quality life are always busy all day, struggling and happy for a while, but not suffering for a lifetime.
15, we can't predict tomorrow, but we can grasp today; We don't look forward to the afterlife, but we can cherish this life.
16, the world is still this world, we look at it with appreciation, and it shows us the beautiful sunshine; When we look at it with colored glasses, what we see must be gray. There is no difference between good and bad, thinking is at work. This is one thing. Watching is heaven, not watching is hell.
17, life is like duckweed, drifting, duckweed has roots, in my heart, wherever I go, there is always a shelter, because there is always a shelter in my heart, I have gone through the years, looking at tomorrow's misty, and moving on. Because I have gone too far, I can't find my way, so I don't want to give up, but I have to move on. Although I already know the answer, I still want to pursue the truth of life. Maybe when the mistake comes to an end, the truth will appear.
18, everything is fate, everything is a smoke cloud, everything is a beginning without an ending, everything is a fleeting pursuit, all joys are without smiles, all sufferings are without tears, all languages are repetitive, all communication is the first time, all love is in my heart, all the past is in my dreams, all hopes are annotated, and all beliefs are groaned.
19, life is a wandering trip, sometimes it will make you happy, sometimes it will make you miserable, and some will make you unable to extricate yourself. It is really hard to imagine and torture. I have always liked loneliness, and I am used to it. In the noisy crowd, I always want to escape. It's really nice to be alone. Loneliness is a kind of beauty, and loneliness is a kind of enjoyment.
20. Learn from the people around you and everyone else. This is the way to learn. Everyone has his own strengths and weaknesses. By studying, we can integrate the strengths of others and make ourselves an excellent person.