The two purest things in this world are a person’s heart and soul. Everyone comes to this world with a pure heart, and then sublimates into a holy soul and flies to heaven. However, people's pure hearts, after being influenced by society and "ravaged" by life, have become riddled with holes and bruises. Although our souls have been damaged and mutilated by this ruthless world, please remember that no matter how wronged and battered our souls are, there is always a harbor that can shelter us from wind and rain and give us warmth - Heart Harbor.
No matter how tired a tired bird is, it will fly back to its nest: No matter how far a voyage ship goes, it will return to the port where it can anchor: No matter how painful the injured child is, it will return Mother's arms. Because it is the harbor of their souls and can make them feel at ease and happy. No matter how strong a person is, no matter how strong his heart is, he still has his fragile side. He just doesn't want others to see his vulnerability and exhaustion.
He just wants to find a harbor where he can dock and temporarily take shelter from the wind and rain, a harbor that only belongs to his soul. Maybe this harbor is something, something, or someone. It's like two people interacting together, because they are both looking for the harbor that belongs to them - the harbor of the heart. Because each other makes the other feel a sense of belonging, they are together.
Here, I feel very lucky because I have found my own harbor - the harbor of my heart.
It was a quiet night, and I felt very bored, so I used my mobile phone to check the status of QQ Zone. When I clicked on the photo album, I suddenly saw a strange visitor viewing my graduation project. This surprised me because most QQ friends who came to my space would not look at my graduation project. So I was very curious, so I added this strange visitor and wanted to chat with her (let me add here, she is my current girlfriend-Xiaomei).
After adding her, I asked her if she studied mechanical design or some major related to machinery, and she told me no. I then asked her: "Then why did you come to see my graduation project? Most people who come into my space are not interested in it." She said she was only interested in design, so she took a look. Then we chatted about work, and I learned that she was a clerk in the human resources department of a company. She had worked at Foxconn before and then resigned. In this way, we had a preliminary acquaintance and had a simple understanding of each other.
In the next period of time, we chatted a lot online, about work, life, and love. She said she didn't like handsome guys and just wanted to find a mature and steady man, who would feel more secure and at ease. When I heard it, I felt that she was different from other girls. Other girls liked tall, rich and handsome people, but she was the complete opposite. At that time, I had one thought in my mind: "She is a very kind girl who is very insecure. I want to care about her with all my heart, love her, and protect her with my whole life." In this world where people are obsessed with money and wealth, a person as kind as her can And innocent girls are already very rare. Many girls pursue a material life where money is paramount, so they all want to find a rich, handsome man to satisfy their strong vanity. In this way, we chat online every day and get to know each other better. To be honest, I really want to meet this girl who makes me dream.
Until one day, we were chatting on QQ as usual, and she suddenly told me that she wanted to get married and wanted to find a thick shoulder to lean on. I became even more determined in my thoughts - I would care for her with all my heart, love her, and protect her with my whole life. While we were chatting, I got a call from my family. I told her that my family was urging me to find a girlfriend, and she asked me to tell my family that I had found her, and that she would go home with me during the Chinese New Year. Although it was just a short sentence, when I heard it, my heart was sweeter than honey and I was very happy. And I also really hope that during the Chinese New Year, I can go home with my loved ones to celebrate the New Year. Maybe this idea is a luxury and an unattainable dream at this time, but I really hope that my dream can come true. Time passed like this day by day, and finally one day we met.
March 29, 2014, this day is a day that I will always treasure in my life, because it was on this day that I met her.
I was waiting for her to get off work at the door of her company. I felt very nervous. Standing at the door of her company, I felt a little overwhelmed and didn't know where to put my hands. After waiting for a while, she got off work, and I finally met the person I thought about day and night. I saw her walking out of the company with a smile, and I was instantly fascinated by her beautiful and contagious smile. How I wanted time to stop at this moment, and the picture to be frozen at this moment forever.
Her smile is like the soft sunshine, which can infect everyone around her: her smile is like the twigs that have just sprouted in spring, full of hope and strong vitality: her smile is like Like a handful of sweet spring water, it makes people feel relaxed and happy. She has long flowing hair, thick eyebrows and big eyes, and a fresh and refined elegance. When I saw her coming out, I couldn't wait to wave and say hello to her, for fear that she wouldn't see me. We exchanged greetings as she walked in on me. When she saw me, she said very gently, "Hello, I'm sorry to keep you waiting." After hearing what he said, I felt very peaceful and clear in my heart, just like a mountain stream flowing quietly. With.
I thought I was hallucinating. I asked myself how could there be such a beautiful sound in the world? It wasn't until I saw her moving smile again that I believed it was all true. After some pleasantries, we chatted for a while, and I told her that this was my first time dating a girl. My previous relationship history was blank, and my relationship experience was like a blank sheet of paper, but now I met her. , she is a colorful paintbrush, and I want to work with her to draw a perfect blueprint of love between us on this white paper. She didn't speak, just smiled at me. We chatted a lot after that, and we didn’t realize it was time to eat until our stomachs started growling with hunger.
When we met for the first time, we went to a small restaurant and ordered hot and sour chicken offal, stir-fried green beans and tomato and egg soup. When the waiter at the restaurant asked us if we wanted something to drink, I said two bottles of Wong Lo Kat, but she said no Wong Lao Kat and asked for a bottle of coconut juice. So I told myself in my mind, "She doesn't like to drink herbal tea and soda, she likes to drink juice." I'm very happy that the whole dining process was harmonious and we both felt good about each other. After dinner, it was already evening. We chatted for a while and looked at the time. I was ready to go back by car. She sent me to the car and then went home. In the car, I reflected on what happened that day. I felt that God really favored me. At the same time, I also felt that I was very lucky to have met such a good girl. I felt an indescribable joy and happiness in my heart. My heart tells me that I have found the harbor that belongs to me - the harbor of my heart.
After the first meeting, I was completely fascinated by her. She was the only one I dreamed about. She haunted me. I think I have fallen deeply in love with this beautiful girl.
Since meeting her, my whole person has changed. I feel happier and work harder. Even my dressing style has changed. From sports and leisure to The attire has become the current business casual attire. I once saw a sentence like "When a man changes himself for a woman, it means that the man has fallen deeply in love with the woman." I couldn't fully understand the meaning of this sentence before, but now I I have deeply understood the true meaning of this wise saying.
Since we met, I have been thinking about her every day, what clothes she wore today, what she had for lunch today, whether she had a good rest at noon, and whether she was energetic for work in the afternoon. ...I send her messages on QQ every day, and I hope she can reply to me in time. Although she is busy sometimes, I still hope she can chat with me. Although she and I live in the same city, we live quite a distance apart. Every time I go to see her, I have to drive for nearly two hours, so I only have time to see her on weekends. .
I remember when I first visited her, we went shopping together. I remember we bought green peppers, oyster mushrooms, pork, lettuce, and a watermelon. She said she liked to eat it. Watermelon, so I told myself in my heart "She likes to eat watermelon". After buying groceries, we went to the place where she lived. When I entered the house, I saw a very neat and warm picture. She tidied the whole house very clean, and she also posted some patterns and some small hangings on the wall. The pattern on the wall was of a boy and a girl kissing under the soft moonlight, with the words "forever" on the side. .
What a sweet, touching and heart-warming picture! I wish we could kiss under the moonlight, how happy I would be.
After being in a daze, I returned to reality. I said to her: "Your task today is to wait. When I prepare the meal, you can be responsible for eating it." After that, I started Cooking, because I’ve been cooking for myself since I was very young, home-cooked meals are a no brainer for me. I fried green peppers, stir-fried pork, stir-fried lettuce, and made fresh oyster mushroom soup. When I brought the fragrant food to the table, I just heard her say, "It smells so good. I heard my beloved compliment me." The food I cooked tastes delicious, and I feel really happy and happy. Especially when I saw her devouring the food I cooked, and not forgetting to smack her lips and say it was delicious while eating, I felt so happy in my heart. I thought to myself, is there anything happier than this? We finished all the food that day, which I think is the greatest compliment to me.
From that day on, I knew that she liked to eat fried meat with green peppers, so I told myself in my heart, "She likes to eat fried meat with green peppers." Do you think I am very rigid? Some people may say that this is too rigid. But what I want to say is that if you love someone, you must remember every word she says, everything she likes, and every look and smile she makes. To love someone is to always keep her in your heart, to warm her with the warmth of your heart, to care for her with your heart's frequency, and to care for her with your heart's provision. Maybe some people here will say that she can’t cook? It's really embarrassing for a man to have a man cook. In fact, what I want to say is that you are all wrong. She is very good at cooking, and her cooking is delicious. Especially the hot and sour chicken offal she made is very delicious, I love it very much. Also, what I want to say is that a man cooking for his beloved is a blessing and happiness.
After that day, our feelings for each other increased a lot. We cared about each other and expressed our true feelings to each other. In this way, we gradually came together.
In the process of getting along with her, I got to know her better. She is a girl who has dreams and is very independent. She does not want to rely on others. She wants to rely on her own hands to support herself and let her family live a good life. These are exactly what I admire about her and what attracts me to her. He likes to read books. She told me that her knowledge was too narrow and she wanted to learn more, so I bought her some books. When I think of my loved ones wanting to learn knowledge, I am very supportive. During the time we spent with her, we both bought things for each other. I bought her some clothes and she gave me a wallet. When I got the wallet she gave me, I felt very happy and blessed.
Because this is the first time I have received a gift from someone I like since I was a child. In the days when we were dating, we got to know each other more fully. For example, she likes people who are ambitious and motivated, but does not like people who are content with the status quo and have no pursuit of life; she likes to be frank and straightforward, and He doesn't like intrigue; he likes to eat bananas, kiwis, watermelons and other fruits, but the only fruit he doesn't like is apples: when she drinks red bean smoothie, she only likes to eat red beans, not the drinks in it, etc. In addition, she is considerate of others and would rather be wronged than hurt the friends around her.
During this period, we lived together, went out to play together, and watched TV series together. Although we could only be together on weekends and holidays, we had a lot of fun and I felt very happy. I remember one time we went to the OCT in the East. We looked at flowers together, took the cable car together, and took pictures together. Oh, and I forgot to mention that she loved taking pictures. I took a lot of photos of her in OCT East, and I felt the photos were quite good. Afterwards we went to Dameisha. We stood on the beach, looking at the vast sea in the distance, leaning against each other. This feeling was indescribable happiness and cannot be described in words. Here I remembered a sentence: "I only wish to win the heart of one person, and we will never be separated."
It is already late at night, so I will write it here. Thank you God for blessing me and allowing me to meet my beloved. Here I want to say to her (Xiaomei): "Thank you, Xiaomei. You have allowed me to find my own harbor - the harbor of my heart. At the same time, I hope that I can also be your person who can shelter you from the wind and rain and give you warmth." Harbor - Harbor of Heart. "In addition, I also want to tell everyone, "What is love? Love is tolerance, love is responsibility, and love is happiness.
Love is very ordinary, but this ordinaryness is a kind of luxury. Once you have it, please cherish it! "Finally, I hope that everyone in the world can find that harbor that can shelter you from the wind and rain and give you warmth - Heart Harbor.