? When you are frustrated, you will feel dejected and ashamed. At this time, it is easy to become the weakness of others' attacks. Therefore, the master who can really grasp emotions is proud but not carried away, frustrated but not rude.
? There was once a young Russian who could write several poems, but forgot the great poet Pushkin.
I actually asked Pushkin in public: "What do I have in common with the sun?" Pushkin replied contemptuously, "I have to frown whether I look at you or the sun."
Pride is shallow, shallow people can't get praise, even a little, they will be complacent and self-expanding.
Life, in fact, is like a hundred-flavor bottle, and the bittersweet is the ingredient of life. No matter what taste life gives us, we should have a normal heart.
In the face of many setbacks and misfortunes in life, the strong believe in struggle and defeat themselves first; The weak succumb to themselves and can only believe in fate.
At the same time, we should also be kind to setbacks. Try to imagine that when we suddenly reach the high level of success, faced with flowers, applause and prosperity, can't we feel the discomfort brought by the great changes in the environment? But what if we suddenly lose power? From high to low, flattery, smiles and advantages are gone, and those so-called friends in the past suddenly stop being friends. At this time, will you suddenly be at a loss and at a loss?
But losing power is not terrible. What is terrible is the resignation and depression after losing power. Losing power and influence is not as bad as we thought. It can let us see the essence of things more deeply, and also let us see the good and evil of people's hearts and feel the warmth and coldness of human feelings. Let's find out what is worth doing and which friends are worth making. It also allows us to discover our strengths and weaknesses.
Only by being kind to the lost power can we better understand life and ourselves. Although it is a test and tribulation, it is also accompanied by rich gifts.