"kindness does not lead troops, and family does not do things", which is a famous saying of the ancients. As Sun Tzu said, "thickness can't be used, love can't be used, chaos can't be cured, and arrogance can't be used." People who are good at fighting since ancient times know this. This is not to say that you have to be a bad COP with your subordinates, but that at a critical moment, you must never miss a big event because of a woman's kindness. The so-called training for a thousand days, fighting for a while, in this "temporary" time, the commander-in-chief must have an iron will and determination to be the commander-in-chief, and must not spoil the overall situation because of softhearted.

2. Goodness does not command soldiers, feelings do not stand, righteousness does not manage money, and goodness does not serve officials.

People who are too kind can't lead troops. People who are too emotional can't achieve great things. People who are too loyal can't manage money or invest. Too kind to be an official. All these require people to overcome their own "desires", maintain rationality and respect objective laws. Compassion, attaching importance to feelings, being loyal to others and being kind to others are all very good qualities. With these inner qualities, great things can be achieved. But we can't make these qualities superficial and vulgar. More should be in the deep heart. When talking about several major battles, Liu Bocheng just said: Thanks to the parents who lost their children because of the war. That's compassion, but he can't be "mother-in-law compassion" in the war!